Friend?, ...would do this? Options

[azndreamer]

This didnt happen all that recently, im just kinda brooding cuz this "friend" has got me really mad right now so yea...
But is this right? -- Here's the story --

Okay so me and this guy had just gotten together and it had been a little over 2 months. The guy was kinda moving a little too fast cuz for me 2 months is not a very long time. I was IMing my friend and we were talking about guys and i brought it up that he was kinda moving too fast. What i asked her was, "I want him to stop moving this fast, so how should i talk to him abt it?" -- DOn't get me wrong, he was a sweet guy just somewhat perverted at times.. So what she does is invite us both into a chatroom and and she types: "all in favor of breaking up say i" The guy just typed wtf? and thats all i saw b4 i signed off cuz this wasnt a convo i wanted to have on aim. I just told the guy i would talk to him abt this in school tomorrow. And my friend had the nerve to yell at me that she was trying to help me and i signed off. So is it just me or is it kinda bizarre and wrong that she did that?

-- As for the guy and me, we ended up breaking up bcuz he thought i wanted to break up with him bcuz of this huge misunderstanding...
-- It's just shes been acting kinda bitchy lately so im kinda grudging right now..

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

THat was stupid and no way of solving anything. Very immature way to try and help out. You should explain to her how its not how you fix a problem.

If yu still like the guy also, i suggest you talk to him.

[_sarcastic_]

you better go talk to the guy and straighten things out, you didn't want things to end.
your friend wasn't helping you alot was she, she ended up making the two of you break up for a stupid reason. tell her that you appreciated her help but tell her that next time try not to do things like that

[dao]

yeah, like what they said you should have a talk because holding grudges will not solve anything

[topsyturvy]

First of all, tell your friend she needs to spell "aye" right. Second of all, she had no right to stick her nose in your business. What you asked for was her advice, not her authority.

You should go talk to the guy about it. Tell him you still like him a lot but you thought everything was moving a little too fast for you and that was why your friend budged in and took over. If he's sweet, he'll understand and start over. Good luck

[tequila_sky]

Ugh, what a friend!??! She still yelled at you??? lol That's just funny. Maybe she really believed she was helping you??? Haha, why don't you ask her if you should do that to *her*?? If she is still your friend I would talk to her, when you don't talk things through a good friend can become a fast enemy. And the guy, I dunno how recent that was? Is the guy still in your mind? .:good luck::

[Mizz Rizza]

well if you really like the guy still
then talk to him

but if i was in ur situation
i would prolly not get back together
with him again

but i would still clear things up

and as for ur friend...
that was a funny thing she did
maybe she was jus fooling around with you?

[Chii]

first off, friends are forever and boyfriends come and go blah blah.

she got mad because she was probably honestly trying to help but she got it all wrong. just have a little talk with her about how that's not what you wanted and that she should tell you about stuff like that before she does them.

then patch things up with the guy. tell him what you told her. you were unsure about how things were and that you're not comfortable with him going so fast. you told your friend and she was just trying to help. tell him that breaking up is not what you wanted.

[xbby_charmz]

that girl sucks boottie!!! lol but seriosuly that girl man that would get me heated. a girlfriend is suppose to talk to you about the sitch a duh not go all in favor of a break up what the hell that dont solve anything that makes it worse! and tell your boy to take it slow 2 months isnt a very long time and if he cares for yah girly he'll understand. if not what a jack ***