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 Oct 2 2005, 11:41 AM
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Last choice for me although I acidentally clicked on "don't really care". There's the ups and downs because what if your bff doesn't return the same feelings?
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Oct 2 2005, 03:27 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
That's the way it should be. Your boyfriend should be your best friend.
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Oct 8 2005, 05:25 PM
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sure. i have so many friends who are like best friends and now going out.
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Oct 8 2005, 05:31 PM
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Yeah, sure. It doesn't matter anyway.
 If your boyfriend is caring, trusting, and all that bestfriend stuff, then he could be your best friend as well. |
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Oct 8 2005, 07:13 PM
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Yeah. My boyfriend now is one of my great guy friends. It's nice when you can talk about every single thing.
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Oct 9 2005, 06:47 PM
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i believe so yeah
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Oct 9 2005, 09:12 PM
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not my best friend because if you were in that type of relationship it would be hard if you were to break up or something came between you. it depends on the relationship and yeah....a strong connection is always nice. =]
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Oct 9 2005, 11:03 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
of course I would. but I guess that's kind of what I have now. we tell each other everything and I feel so comfortable being around him <3
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Oct 10 2005, 06:22 AM
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 a different kind of mess Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 249,597 |
someone earlier said it would be bad to have your boyfriend as your best friend in case you got ina fight and would have no one to go to.. or something like that
can't really be bothered looking back and finding it. but.. if you are 'best friends' with your boyfriend like i am with mine, you should be able to talk to him about what you're fighting about and tell him everything he has or you have done wrong. ehhhh |
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Oct 11 2005, 09:44 PM
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my boyfriend is my best friend, we were like best friends even before we went out. i like it cause im not afraid to express myself and im not embarrassed about anything stupid i do.
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Oct 16 2005, 01:45 PM
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Pssh yea.. My boyfriend is like.. my bestest best friend! Well okay, my bestest guy friend. I also have a best girl friend too haha. She's awesome!
As for my boyfriend.. he's my best friend and I tell him everything. He's the only person that understands me the most. Why not? People think that the best friend thing is where one hangs out with you all the time--that's not true. I'm not obligated to spend time with my boyfriend, but I love inviting him or him inviting me because we like to spend time together. Plus, my boyfriend is usually friends with my friends so it's not all weird. Sure we do hold hands and hug and kiss, but I mean we don't make it uncomfortable for others! Having a guy best friend who is also a boyfriend is like.. 2-for-one special. They'll protect you and comfort you like a best friend, and love you like a boyfriend. Those are really wonderful..  ALTHOUGH.. you have to be careful. Make sure you're headed for a good relationship. Otherwise, you might end up losing a best friend. Those are the ones to be cautious of. |
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Oct 17 2005, 11:32 AM
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 the meaning of life is 42... Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 265,402 |
QUOTE(baybeelovesoemo @ Sep 15 2005, 12:09 AM) i like for my guy to be my bestfriend as well as a bf cuz that way u can be on ANY level with him and not be scared to act a damn fool and what not..  totally agree with what you just said! 
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Jun 16 2006, 09:01 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i never called him my bestfriend. he sorta is because he knows everything (well almost everything) about me, somethings you just keep personal. but anywho, i dont want to give him the title of bff because that sounds to cute and non personal, to peppy and i dont want my relationship to have that sugar coating cuz then nothing would get solved...though hes more of a bff than my current bff whose gettin on my nerves..
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Jun 16 2006, 10:41 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
That would be nice if he was my best friend.But I would want more than one best friend so when we break up..I still have someone.
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Jun 16 2006, 11:23 AM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Sep 15 2005, 7:58 PM) Thats how it should be. Well, thats how it works for me. I look for a friend first, and then a girlfriend. Your relationship is doomed if your significant other is only significant as a boyfriend. Agreed 
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Jun 16 2006, 12:50 PM
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Your boyfriend is supposed to be your best friend. You're supposed to be able to tell him things and act like yourself around him. If thats not a best friend then I really don't know what one would be then...
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Jun 16 2006, 01:17 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
I tell my boyfriend everything i act a dumbass in front of him we don't give a f**k wat ppl thing 'bout uss therfore he is my best friend
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Jun 16 2006, 01:45 PM
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Yes a boyfriend needs to be your best friend as well. So they know you at this one level and a better one being in a relationship with them..
Relationships have problems all the time because they didn't know each other as friends and just jumped into a relationship Yes relationships are for people to get to know each other to see if their really capatable. But don't jump into a relationship without knowing each other at a good enough level to be in a relationships.. |
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Jun 18 2006, 03:59 PM
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i'd rather them not be.. because idk i dont want to be THAT close. but idk thats just me i guess.
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Jun 19 2006, 07:44 AM
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QUOTE(xheartbroken_child @ Oct 2 2005, 11:39 AM) My boyfriend is my bestfriend. Exactly what I was going to say. |
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Jun 19 2006, 03:12 PM
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maybe. I think it depends on the relationship the two already have.
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Jun 19 2006, 06:41 PM
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of course.
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Jun 22 2006, 09:52 AM
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QUOTE(baybeelovesoemo @ Sep 15 2005, 8:09 AM) i like for my guy to be my bestfriend as well as a bf cuz that way u can be on ANY level with him and not be scared to act a damn fool and what not.. same here |
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Jun 24 2006, 03:04 PM
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my boyfriend is one of my best friends.
i do believe that boyfriends can be your best friends. after all, they care for you, and you can talk to them basically about anything. |
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Jul 7 2006, 01:57 AM
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My boyfriend is my best friend. I really like it, I feel like I can connect with him in many ways and tell him anything. I definetly think guys can not only be boyfriends, but bestfriends too.
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