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 Oct 8 2005, 08:16 AM
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 Brown hand smash  Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582  |
l have a girlfriend and l really love her so much that l sacrifices allot of thing for her in able to be with her. We've going great these fast few days . Then one day she came to me and ask me to broke up with her. She said that she needed sometime for her studies and she think that l needed some time too. She said that she will be very busy. Its ok in my part but l really don't want to broke up with her. i just agree.
Last wednesday me and my bandmates are playing in a bar outside manila when l accidentally saw my girlfriend or should l say ex-girlfriend. Whats is that??? she broke up with me because she needed some time and l granted her wish. but now she's dating someone. What did l do wrong???? What is going on??? Help!!! l'm freakin' out and my head hurts 
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Oct 8 2005, 09:09 AM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
here's your answer
QUOTE She said that she needed sometime for her studies and she think that l needed some time too. She said that she will be very busy some girls care for their future more than their youthful romances or maybe she just doesn't like you as much, if she doesn't like you as much, then leave it alone and don't act like it's the end of the world |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:17 AM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
How long have you been with her? Maybe you are taking it too seriously and she got a little scared of that. Give her the space. Enjoy yourself with other things, just have a good time without her. If you two get back together then it's cool. If not let it go. You will find someone who will want to spend as much time with you as you do with her.:: Just give it time:::
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 8 2005, 09:29 AM
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Or maybe, unfortunately, she is just a liar, or didn't want to come out and say, "I don't like you, I like someone else."
Best you can do is let it go, I think. I know it's easier said than done, but you just gotta get over things and move on. Life is too precious to waste it being sad or angry. |
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| *[Filp]Essence* |
Oct 8 2005, 09:33 AM
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in that case your better off without her, if she did that to you, and you're a good person, she is a sore loser
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Oct 8 2005, 09:39 AM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(tequila_sky @ Oct 8 2005, 9:17 AM) How long have you been with her? Maybe you are taking it too seriously and she got a little scared of that. Give her the space. Enjoy yourself with other things, just have a good time without her. If you two get back together then it's cool. If not let it go. You will find someone who will want to spend as much time with you as you do with her.:: Just give it time:::  we've been for a year now. l didn't do anything wrong. l've been a good boyfriend and l understand her dicissions. l didn't tried to hold her back, l let her do her own this and do her own staff. l give her the freedom to enjoy life. all l wanted for her to know that l'm here when she needed me most. l'm here for her. that l love her no matter what but maybe is not the right time for us is it right to wait for her no matter how hard l tried to forget her the harder l tried the painful it gets its not suppose to hurt this way l need you l need you more and more each day listen to this http://www.tristancafe.com/music/flash/beforego.html my hearts sings for you tanong ko lang sa langit kung bakit pumangit ang dating masaya ngayon panay problemang bumabalot sa buto, bakit ganito ang pag ibig ganyan talaga pag bago ang pag ibig masaya!!! |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:41 AM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(broken_lance @ Oct 8 2005, 9:39 AM) we've been for a year now. l didn't do anything wrong. l've been a good boyfriend and l understand her dicissions. l didn't tried to hold her back, l let her do her own this and do her own staff. l give her the freedom to enjoy life. all l wanted for her to know that l'm here when she needed me most. l'm here for her. that l love her no matter what but maybe is not the right time for us is it right to wait for her no matter how hard l tried to forget her the harder l tried the painful it gets its not suppose to hurt this way l need you l need you more and more each day if she doesn't want to be with you... that's the end of it... don't try looking for ways to get her back. let her decide that. You shouldn't rush your feelings for her if she doesn't want them. sometimes, it's the best maybe to think if she's happier this way than your happiness if you truly love her |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:44 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
maybe she broke up with your for another...she probably lied but this just means u needa move on and find another
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Oct 8 2005, 09:50 AM
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a lot of things couls have gone wrong
just confront her about it |
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 8 2005, 09:51 AM
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QUOTE(broken_lance @ Oct 8 2005, 10:39 AM) we've been for a year now. l didn't do anything wrong. l've been a good boyfriend and l understand her dicissions. l didn't tried to hold her back, l let her do her own this and do her own staff. l give her the freedom to enjoy life. all l wanted for her to know that l'm here when she needed me most. l'm here for her. that l love her no matter what but maybe is not the right time for us Man, don't blame yourself. Sometimes people are cruel and lie about things. That doesn't mean it's your fault. |
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Oct 8 2005, 10:11 AM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 8 2005, 9:51 AM) Man, don't blame yourself. Sometimes people are cruel and lie about things. That doesn't mean it's your fault. maybe but l cant help blaming myself maybe l'm not enough for her maybe l she expects so much and l failed to do so |
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 8 2005, 03:14 PM
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Sometimes relationships don't work out. It's not that you "failed" anyone--you just weren't right for each other. Maybe it worked out at first, but it probably stopped because something wasn't just right. Don't let it get you down too much. If there's nothing you can do, there's nothing you can do.
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Oct 8 2005, 03:53 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 8 2005, 3:14 PM) Sometimes relationships don't work out. It's not that you "failed" anyone--you just weren't right for each other. Maybe it worked out at first, but it probably stopped because something wasn't just right. Don't let it get you down too much. If there's nothing you can do, there's nothing you can do. Seriously. And if you truly do like/love/whatever her, then let her go. She knows what's best for her. You just need to realize this. |
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Oct 8 2005, 04:12 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 8 2005, 3:53 PM) Seriously. And if you truly do like/love/whatever her, then let her go. She knows what's best for her. You just need to realize this. couldnt have said it any better.. man, you gotta respect her. If i were her i would've broken up with you (no offense) cuz i just figured out that you're so "clingy" even after a break-up. Let her go, give some space, respect her and try not to get her back (if that's what your attempting) and if she's dating someone else, give some privacy. don't go all panicking. She's not your property. |
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Oct 8 2005, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 8 2005, 4:53 PM) Seriously. I agree. If you really care about her, you'd want her to be happy. She probably just needed space, and she didn't want to make you all sad. So don't be so depressed, you'll get over it eventually.
And if you truly do like/love/whatever her, then let her go. She knows what's best for her. You just need to realize this. |
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Oct 8 2005, 06:52 PM
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the thing is she lied to you, try not to get so caught up in it. maybe she thought that that's an easier way to break it off.
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Oct 8 2005, 09:11 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just let her go.
i doubt that you didn't do anything wrong. she probably just wasn't as into the relationship anymore. at a young age, long term relationships fizzle out after awhile. she said that she needed time for school so it wouldn't be so hard for you. it sounds better than "i don't like you anymore." i'm sorry my dear, but just move on 
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Oct 8 2005, 10:56 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
XANDER<333.
i don't know her, but what i know that is you're a great person, and i don't think it's your fault. i'm sure you care for her a lot, but maybe she needed sometime away as in that maybe she felt that she missed being with other people. and since she didn't want to tell that to you, she asked you to break up with her for "school reasons." personally speaking, she's stupid for letting you go. don't worry xander. you're awesome  
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Oct 8 2005, 10:58 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 8 2005, 9:29 AM) Or maybe, unfortunately, she is just a liar, or didn't want to come out and say, "I don't like you, I like someone else." Best you can do is let it go, I think. I know it's easier said than done, but you just gotta get over things and move on. Life is too precious to waste it being sad or angry. Thats true. I'm afraid that is the only way. I had it a little worse, my ex-girlfriend started going out with someone without even breaking up with me. I know what its like, it really sucks. Very sorry for your situation. 
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Oct 9 2005, 03:36 AM
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Suck it up and man up. Damn, man! Shit happens and that's just the way life goes.
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Oct 9 2005, 07:37 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ you know, if you were going to say something so pointless, why don't you just keep it to yourself. i'm sorry that we're not as heartless as you are.
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Oct 9 2005, 09:23 AM
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 the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
Maybe you should talk to her about it, and she said she needed some time to study but it doesnt mean she has to study all the time. She could of been taking a break...
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Oct 10 2005, 12:17 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Wow you sound so sweet.
Well my bf was like ver swet and what not but sometimes you need to be serious and hold things down. If she didnt appreciate you then forget her you dont need someone like that making your head hurt. =( I hope you feel better. |
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Oct 10 2005, 12:20 PM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(yanners @ Oct 8 2005, 10:56 PM) XANDER<333. i don't know her, but what i know that is you're a great person, and i don't think it's your fault. i'm sure you care for her a lot, but maybe she needed sometime away as in that maybe she felt that she missed being with other people. and since she didn't want to tell that to you, she asked you to break up with her for "school reasons." personally speaking, she's stupid for letting you go. don't worry xander. you're awesome thanks yanlin, your so nice ======== yeah we really need to talk but l think maybe next week. l'm stil mad and maybe next week will be alright or everything will be alright maybe its not what l think it is. l'm stil hoping for the best. if not then his right life must go on and l should move on too maybe were not meant for each other. ( that hurts) |
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Oct 10 2005, 12:59 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(broken_lance @ Oct 10 2005, 12:20 PM) thanks yanlin, your so kind ======== yeah we really need to talk but l think maybe next week. l'm stil mad and maybe next week will be alright or everything will be alright maybe its not what l think it is. l'm stil hoping for the best. if not then his right life must go on and l should move on too maybe were not meant for each other. ( that hurts) don't act like it's the end of the world. get over it. as heartless as i sound seriously just.. GET OVER IT. stop saying "it hurts" cuz if you keep believing that it does hurt and pains you, you'll hurt even more. Sure it's a sad break-up. You have the right to be sad at least. but don;t be so sad that some people think you're pathetic. i know you're just a sweet guy but you're really giving me the impression that you're just a pushover. be strong man and don't let such break-up get to ya |
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