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Alright, so, I have have a crush on a guy that is one of my closest friends.
He's a nice guy, were good friends, we hang out alot, SUPER HOT, parents like him, etc. He is just a great guy, so naturally, I like him. But there is one HUGE problem, he's gay. Is there any way for me to like, ungayify him, haha. Is that insane? What should I do? I really like him. |
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Oct 3 2005, 04:51 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
two words. move on.
i don't like it when people try to "convert" others to become straight. there's nothing wrong with people being gay, and since he is gay, accept that fact, and the fact that he won't like you. and find another guy who's right for you. |
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Oct 3 2005, 04:55 AM
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its not that i have anything aginst gay people,
i mean i live in LA half of my male friends are gay. it just sucks because i like him, and he likes guys, and im a girl. |
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Oct 3 2005, 07:13 AM
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 bang bang! my baby shot me down! Group: Member Posts: 754 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,848 |
meh sux. you shudnt do anything i mean your his friend as well, let him do wat makes him happy
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Oct 3 2005, 07:56 AM
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Moved to Relationships
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Oct 3 2005, 11:03 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
take a step into reality, he's never going to be interested in you because you're not a guy.
don't try to "turn" him straight. that will just really piss him off because he trusted you when he came out to you. you will only come off as being anti-gay if you try. |
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Oct 3 2005, 11:09 AM
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if you're really his friend, don't try to change him.
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Oct 3 2005, 02:47 PM
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QUOTE(imintoyou @ Oct 3 2005, 4:24 AM) Alright, so, I have have a crush on a guy that is one of my closest friends. He's a nice guy, were good friends, we hang out alot, SUPER HOT, parents like him, etc. He is just a great guy, so naturally, I like him. But there is one HUGE problem, he's gay. Is there any way for me to like, ungayify him, haha. Is that insane? What should I do? I really like him.  i had a nightmare that this guy i was madly into was gay. alot of these guys i have crushes on are probably bi or gay. emo boys.. |
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Oct 3 2005, 03:36 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Tell him you like him. I mean, it's possible to change his mind. He could become bi or something. Not giving up boys and not giving up girls.
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Oct 3 2005, 04:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
You can't "ungayify" him.
That's just how he is. That's life, sadly. You fall in love with this "perfect" guy. And find somehthing you dislike about him. It's not insane, and if you can't accept that, then your loss. |
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Oct 3 2005, 04:16 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
dont complicate his life, think about him
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Oct 3 2005, 05:01 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
There's nothing you can do to change him, so don't think about it. Find another guy and just stay friend with him.
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Oct 3 2005, 09:02 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Either this one or the other same topic you made should be closed. You posted the same topic twice :D
I posted in the other thread my advice :D |
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Oct 4 2005, 12:31 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
don't try to change him, move on and find a guy that's right for you
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Oct 4 2005, 03:01 PM
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mabey when he gets older he wont be gay
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Oct 4 2005, 03:37 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Move on.
Trying to convert him might get him upset with you. Then he wont even be your friend. Just move on and get over him. |
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Oct 4 2005, 05:02 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
YOU CAN NOT MAKE A GAY GUY STRAIGHT.
I tried. It doesn't work. But it is most definately a crime that most gay guys are hot.  It's damn torture!You really should move on though. It's no use. Not unless he goes bi..which is only HALF gay... |
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Oct 4 2005, 05:15 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
You're an idiot for even considering that. He's gay and you can not 'ungayify' him. Move on.
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Oct 4 2005, 06:59 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I'm sorry that happened, but really, you can't convert a gay person to be straight. It just doesn't work. It's the same that you can't convert a straight person to be gay.
If you really like him, then you'll let him be. Remember if you love somebody, you accept the fact that they can go find their own happiness somewhere else, and never ever come back to you. Find another guy and move on. |
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Oct 5 2005, 04:44 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 4 2005, 2:47 AM) i had a nightmare that this guy i was madly into was gay. I used to have a lot of those nightmares back in middle school 
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Oct 5 2005, 10:30 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
move on, he aint goin turn none gay for you if he hasent already.
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Oct 5 2005, 10:49 AM
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Haha! get over him girl. He's into guys, not girls, duh. He'll never be interested in you except if he's bi.
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Oct 5 2005, 01:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
damn lol... i guess all you can do is APPRICIATE who he is.. like YEAH he could change back but give him some space.. or something.. just dont change the way you hang out w. each other!
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