the embarrassment factor, around guys Options

[captain_screw_up]

k., i like this guy. he's in my honors bio. class. he thinks i'm hot (which made me happy! :]) but he doesn't know if the mental 'liking' is there.

i totally give him ''props'' (or so my friend, ashley, calls it) for not choosing over physical attraction... that's awesome of him.

but, he doesn't know because i'm too embarrassed to talk to him. therefore, we don't talk much, because apparently we're both too embarrassed.
yeah, i'm a sophomore, and i shouldn't be.. but..

it's hard.
i don't know what to do.

any help?
it would be well appreciated

lovelovelove
me

[yummy_delight]

2) I like someone, what should I do?
Two choices, first choice is to throw a hissy fit in your room everyday for being a moron. Second choice is to ask them out.

Do that.

Unless you can communicate with him telepathically and avoid the talking altogether.

[*mzkandi*]

Moved to Relationships

[crazii_babii]

Okay, I personally think that you should try committing to a conversation with this guy of yours. The 'attraction' is there, as you put it, so why not go for it? If you can show him who you really are, going without fear into a new territory, possibly, he will see a charming side to you. Maybe you should try to engage in conversation with him about Biology. Say something like, "I didn't hear what he said. What was our homework, again?" Initiating a conversation takes a lot of work and practice but, when better to start than when you have an exscuse. Just try to be a bit more brave when it comes to him, and he might be a bit more brave when it comes to you. Good luck with it!

#*^Sammy^*#

[_sarcastic_]

go for it, you might miss your chance later on and hate yourself for that. since he's in one of your classes it should be easy to strike a conversation up with him.

[Aoiro]

Just talk to him.
What do you really have to lose?
If you don't, then you did lose something.
Your both embarrased, so you should at least start a conversation.
If no one does, it'll be a while until you guys do.
By then, it'll be too late.

[shortiiex]

it's just one of those things that you should just go up to him.....without thinking

[Paradox of Life]

it's just one of those things that you should just go up to him.....without thinking

I do that all the time, lol.

Anyway, communicate. Don't be scared to talk to someone you like. That's just stupid because you're not going to get anywhere. Just don't get obsessive or anything. Be friends with him and if he really likes you, chances are he'll ask you out because he already approves of your physical beauty (which seems to be a big deal nowadays). So yeah, talk to him.

[PinkTrash]

Dont just go up to him.. without thinking =) just talk and be yourself. and not say anything stupid. [like i do ;]

[Levy2k6]

what i would do is try to break that shell.. i remmember i used to like this girl alot and bam.. i moved it was too late.. i never told her who i felt and it's like ugh.... u don't want to miss ur opportunity before it's to late.. yeah it's ur sophomore year but u never know what could happen.. maybe he or she can find another lover and then ur lost... yeah.

[miss-_-guitar]

i think u should talk to him. what have u got to lose?

[topsyturvy]

I agree with those who said "talk to him", but be careful when you do. Don't ask him out or expect him to ask you out after the first conversation. Wait until you're not embarrassed to talk to him anymore. The more you talk, the more he trusts you (and vice versa), then he might have the guts to bring up the topic of going out.

[o0olaalaa]

just go up to him and say hi and small talk and then the rest =) he'll be happy that u made the 1st move cuz maybe hes to shy?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

it's just one of those things that you should just go up to him.....without thinking

^ Well put

Just improvise, ask him for some help on something even if you know the answer already that should get the convo started.

[NgocQuyen]

omigosha...girrrl if i knew the boy i liked liked me back i would be all up in that...lols...by knowing that he likes you that should give you more confidence...lols...i mean come on...he likes you you like him. its all good...haha just go up to him and talk to him. about anything whatever ask questions if you dont alrdy know him really well lols. if he only thinks you're "hot" then just get to know him and talk to him more, maybe he'll come to find the real you and think you're awesome and actually really really like you?