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 Sep 14 2005, 12:47 PM
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why do guys have to act so wierd when they miss you..instead of telling you they miss you and they wanna see and talk to you, you have to go thru a total WW3 for them to tell you anything str8 up! grrr mike u make me sick!
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Sep 14 2005, 03:03 PM
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<-- lindsAy Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 234,906 |
I guess it depends on their age? Men my age don't do that. Remember, boys mature slower than girls. I'm not trying to say guys are slow, but it is a proven fact.
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Sep 14 2005, 03:49 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ i agree.
but then my bf doesn't do that. he tells me straight out that he misses me? |
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Sep 14 2005, 04:04 PM
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...I don't understand people in general
*shrug* |
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Sep 14 2005, 04:20 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.
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Sep 14 2005, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Sep 14 2005, 5:20 PM) Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.  I so second that. |
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Sep 14 2005, 06:52 PM
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Sep 14 2005, 5:20 PM) Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off. That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden. |
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Sep 14 2005, 07:37 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
^^ haha.
Well, yeah it might depend on your age. My boyfriend and my ex never did that, they would usually tell me when they missed me. |
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Sep 14 2005, 08:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Boys aren't as good as expressing their feelings like girls are. Most girls are mushy gooshy.. and a lot of guys think they should play tough. saying "Imiss you, baby" might make them feel.. less "manly"
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Sep 14 2005, 08:53 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 6:52 PM) That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden. LMAO! I think it's just...a guy thing. They dont want to show a sensitive side, ok some guys sure but the ones i know? Nah. They need to "Be A Man"... pffttt...Cheap excuse. |
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Sep 14 2005, 08:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
I tell my girlfriend that I miss her and love her all the time.
._. How old are you anyway? I'm guessing your boyfriend is like, 12 or 13. I'm 14, and have no problem saying that stuff. Well, I do act older than I am though. :\ |
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Sep 14 2005, 08:56 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
usually i'd find a girl annoying and i wouldn't actually miss them...
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Sep 14 2005, 09:54 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
my boyfriend tells me straight out if he misses me...
but anyway, i think it's fantastic that you say that your boyfriend makes you sick. |
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Sep 14 2005, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE([f) eleeza,Sep 14 2005, 1:20 PM]Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off. That's because they pissed me off too. I think it's natural for everyone to be pissed off. |
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Sep 15 2005, 12:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 3:52 PM) That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden. Amen, brother. |
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Sep 15 2005, 03:16 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Sep 15 2005, 8:55 AM) How old are you anyway? I'm guessing your boyfriend is like, 12 or 13. ^ good pointTo all the guys out there, it's so cute when you say you miss us. |
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Sep 15 2005, 02:58 PM
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QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Sep 14 2005, 8:56 PM) usually i'd find a girl annoying and i wouldn't actually miss them... Way not to sound sexist, Justin 
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Sep 15 2005, 04:51 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
...It's kinda weird. When It comes to certain things between my gf and I, I just can't find the right words to express my point. I tell her I miss her when I don't see her for a while...
...like right now... |
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Sep 15 2005, 06:01 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
QUOTE Boys aren't as good as expressing their feelings like girls are. Most girls are mushy gooshy.. and a lot of guys think they should play tough. saying "Imiss you, baby" might make them feel.. less "manly" Yes, this will make a guy feel confortable enough to respond most of the time. And girls are thought of as "cute" when they get all mushy. Guy's are thought of a total wusses who are easy (By women and men) BAD! Because either: 1.They don't miss you 2.They know they shouldn't tell you. 1:Pretty straight foward and you're just forcing them to lie 2: Every guy with half a mind about women knows not to lose control of themselves (I.E stop pouring out compliments/emotions) and if you get a guy started, he won't stop and you'll eventually break up with them(Gaurenteed) if they become overly open. And, not saying they miss you, makes you constantly think about them that sub counciously just makes you love them even more. -Joshua |
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Sep 15 2005, 06:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Maybe if his friends are around?
Or maybe he just wants to show you he's tough no matter what? @_________@;; |
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Sep 15 2005, 06:22 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 6:52 PM) That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.  I dunno I matured pretty quick in life but ...Boys = 1-12 -might be going thru puberty. Teen =13-17 - body still changing. Adult =18-wheneva- this is a rare case but some have emotional supressed memories having a hard time showing emotion either through a tramatic experience or if they don't like showing it or even distant maybe. ...I dont think I had a problem communicating in that manner or I dont remember but hey whos counting. 
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Sep 15 2005, 06:29 PM
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I don't have this problem. My boyfriend always tells me when he misses me or wants to see me because even though I'll see him in the halls for like 5 seconds everyday we really never hang out because we're both SO busy.
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Sep 15 2005, 06:40 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
eh..i dont have that prob. my "very very close friend" just tells me if he misses me.
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Sep 15 2005, 08:04 PM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
QUOTE(tweeak @ Sep 15 2005, 2:58 PM) Way not to sound sexist, Justin never had a relationship with a guy, so it wouldn't be fitting to include guys in that statement, would it? 
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Sep 15 2005, 08:12 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
QUOTE(baybeelovesoemo @ Sep 14 2005, 12:47 PM) why do guys have to act so wierd when they miss you..instead of telling you they miss you and they wanna see and talk to you, you have to go thru a total WW3 for them to tell you anything str8 up! grrr mike u make me sick! WOW!!! i know huh? they just sweet talk you; yet they dont let the real words come out! jeeze; going through the same thing don't worry!! hehe...he alwyas wanna see me when he misses me; yet has no good excuse for it!! haha... |
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