hi, i'm an ugly 15 year old girl, =) Options

[HappyHeart]

Lucky you. And I'm not saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

Wow you're smart. But I agree with what you said.

[ahoytheremate!]

haha

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[demolished]

i'm 14 and dont got one =)

[steezahh]

join a club and meet some new people; that should encourage your self esteam; or read the book GOD DON'T LIKE UGLY; its a good book; not about ugly people tho. but about a girl who thinks she is, then one day she meets a girl who is soo pretty but has no friends; but their is a lot of stuff in between i would guarantee it!

[itsnever4ever]

"gettin over yourself" isnt the same as being confident enough to like who you are. you have to feel good about yourself or it will show to others. its obvious when a person isnt comfortable with how they look or what they say.

I agree, when someone has confidence and is comfortable with themselves its alot more attractive because it shows

[dao]

theres always ppl out there..

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

idk i could work

[*mipadi*]

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

This isn't going to get twisted into a guy-bashing session, is it?

[VarsMOlta]

hey every girl is pretty dont ever think you are ugly.. you think those popular pretty* girls are really pretty? they spend an hr or so to fix their face in the morning... and im sure youv seen those in the bathrooms durin the break...e veryone all up on the damn mirror....

so think it this way
if they can look the way they do
you can too.. just dont ever go the slutty look
you can definately be pretty i guarantee you
if you kno how to fix yo face nd what can compliment yo looks nd stuff

and always remember ...
personliaty DOES count...
i have so many confusions in ma life...
(hey i got ma first bf when i was 15 i got ma first kiss when i was 15)
and iv got hurt and stuff
but at the end of the day
i knooo.....

i am a good person.
and by that, i beat them all.


so you can do it too!!!

lookin good def get you self confidence.. and i personally think itz all about the attitude not the lookz... you can make them THINK you look good when you don in fact llook good ... or as much as they think you doo... if u kno what i mean

[hammers and hear...]

hey have some confidence! just because the right guy hasnt come along doesnt mean you should feel discouraged. 15 is still young, and a boy should like you for whats inside.

[*suddenly she*]

chin up. confidence is awesome.

i can't say i'm beautiful, but i won't call myself ugly either. trust me, character does matter to a guy that's worth anything.

[BOLIN_Vee]

i think maybe u need to get out more. thats what builds everyones confidence. i dunno but telling by how many posts you have, you probly spend alot of time on cb. i know some girls who r never home, there always out and about with a bunch of ppl, boys like them, there nice, funny, and awsome, and THERE NOT PRETTY AT ALL!!! they just have alot of confidence because they get out alot.



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woops sory...i thought it said like "15,000 somthing posts" but that was ur member number lol. sorry

[xbby_charmz]

try having a little more confidence. i got broken up at prom well homecoming and i still danced and had a good time try to look at things positive and trust me your guy will come! so get out more cant be shy all the time. think about it

[Olive]

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

Oh yes, great advice.
But since your mind is already set in being on guy-repellant mode, then why not go for the girls Problem solved!

Best of Luck
Olive.

[*danielle_x3*]

when the time is right, you'll find the right guy. just let things fall into place. and have confidence =]

[ParanoidAndroid]

You know you really shouldn't go working on getting bf, work on much more important cases... for instance, school, i know it may sound nerdy but you got the rest of your life to worry about relationships, you can never get a second chance on getting a good future (with lots of money ).

[FREEcandies]

like my title? 

Anyway, i'm just here to rant.  I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life.  I'm okay with this, but it gets worse.  It just seems like guys don't like me. at all.  The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago.  It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks.  -sigh- stupid shallowness.  I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either. 

Any tips on how to cope?

Wow, your "entire life" of 15 years huh? I don't mean to sound condescending but this is a kid problem and I'm not surprised you're having it. Believe me, it does get worse, A LOT WORSE. This isn't a problem you "cope" with. This is something you'll just have to grow up and accept. If you can't love yourself, how can you love another? You are a long way from being in a loving lasting relationship hun, but don't rush.

Let me tell you something. I went out with this girl for 3 years. I admit that she wasn't good looking or anything. All of my girl friends look better than her and I've had girls better looking than her like me. Still my heart was for her and you know what happened? She left me to be with someone else! Think about that...and then think about your problem.

[yummy_delight]

Deal with it. A lot of us are in the same boat. Want to know what's even worse? Having a boyfriend, suffering a breakup, and then being single again for a REALLY long time. But this time, you know exactly what you're missing.

THAT, my dear, is much worse than your current state of affairs.

Don't fret. You'll find someone one day, they'll find you, everything will click and you'll be happy.

[*jooleeah*]

Gain some self respect and confidence. Don't call yourself ugly, or else other people will.

[tommyhilfiger_gu...]

if your personality is good, then i would say get over it cause someone will come-- and they won't care about how you look

but first.... try a makeover or something or gain LOTS of self confidence

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

^Please make your signature smaller. It's stretching the boards.

Some boys dont really take you by your looks. They would take you on who you are and how you is. Dont worry. There should be someone good for you.

[CrazayChristian]

You could be the hottest woman on earth, but if you don't have the attitude, all you'll get are stares and one conversation.


NO GUY (and I do me NO GUY) wants someone who is self-concious(damn spelling..) It's as simple as that.

Naturally, yes, guys are suppose to be quote unquote "shallow". Why? because back in the day, it was the mother that had the bigger breast ( abundant nursing milk), the bigger hips ( Much better to support and birth children) and the more "slender body" (Shows that they're healthy, and can survive). WOMEN however just needed (pardon my cruded and blunt comment here) to be impregnated and that's all it took to survive. So, a woman has to look for a man who is strong, providing, leading, and maybe smart.

So, excuuuuse us that we got the short end of the morality stick of nature, but not everyguy is stuck in prehistory.

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

Hey Hun,

I know this may seem hard for you. I never been through it but highschools rough and I get a idea. No matter what you need to have self-confidence. It really is the only way to get by. If you dont appreciate yourself, no one else will. Also if you let people walk all over you, thats not helping at all either. Go to school happy, dont let anyone get in your way, and pertend that you are the best looking girl in school. Dont take attitude from anyone else, and i garantee the day you do that, the day you respect yourself, other people will to. Good luck hun! Sorry if i didnt help.

[bad_girl]

you can do it, just believe that you can. have more confidence in yourself..

one more thing.. makeover!!?? if you dont like your looks or style or whatever, then make it right! (im not telling you to go get surgery or whatever.. but yeah)