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 Sep 11 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3  Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215  |
I just found out that my best friend has a major crush on my boyfriend. I don't know what to do.
Before we started dating, he liked her a lot but she liked someone else and she just wanted to stay friends. And now that we're together I just feel like she's been trying to break us up. I just can't talk to her anymore. I'm afraid that he might start liking her again. I know her pretty well and she's such a naive person. |
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Sep 11 2005, 10:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
bang bang. i can't kill you. i don't want to go to jail. =o [haha lame humor]
hm. i'm not sure. i think she might be jealous. |
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Sep 11 2005, 10:20 PM
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 M.a. x. Group: Member Posts: 1,913 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,641 |
well its ok and i dont think he will have feelings for her. if hes loyal to you as a b/f then he wont, but all guys are differ so idk. well dont worry and if i was you act like everything is normal. dont make anything obvious, and if its bothering you alot talk to her and tell her how you feel
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Sep 11 2005, 10:40 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Aaah.
I went through the same thing. Okay; So my ex, Jordan liked melissa before we went out And when we went out she had a b/f, Ryan But then he dumped me for Melissa And Melissa dumped Ryan from Jordan Ends up, me and Ryan went out  ANYWAY I say, grab a gun and put it to her head hehe Or you can tell your bf how you feel Tough situation. |
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Sep 11 2005, 10:55 PM
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first of all, if your best friend likes your boyfriend, why the hell would she tell you?
unless you assumed it. in that case, if it was just an assumption, you can't entirely know for sure, but if she actually blatantly said it, then why should you worry so much? it's your boyfriend--so you have nothing to worry about. unless he's unfaithful to you. which i doubt it. the point isn't whether she likes him or not but whether he likes her back or not. i'd hope that he wouldn't betray or cheat on you, nor your best friend, but as long as you still have his romantic interest and undivided attention, you shouldn't have to worry about it. and he would only be some eye candy to your best friend. if she switches around that fast, then she'll get over it. |
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Sep 12 2005, 07:11 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
talk to him about it, and talk to her about it.
separately. don't sound like a possessive/jealous gf though. |
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Sep 12 2005, 07:18 AM
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i hate it when friends stab friends in the back like that ... its a feeling that no one should ever feel ... im sry that you are having to go threw that girlie ..
i say take your friend aside and talk to her about it tell her that she is making you unconformable and that you love him and that he loves you ... she had her chance she blew it so it sounds to me like she’s just jealous that you got the guy that liked her and she doesn’t like not having all the attention from him... she cant have every guy that comes along .. and a TRUE friend would not go after your boyfriend there ARE rules about that ya know. that’s just cruel |
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Sep 12 2005, 12:27 PM
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Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Sep 11 2005, 10:55 PM) first of all, if your best friend likes your boyfriend, why the hell would she tell you? unless you assumed it. in that case, if it was just an assumption, you can't entirely know for sure, but if she actually blatantly said it, then why should you worry so much? it's your boyfriend--so you have nothing to worry about. unless he's unfaithful to you. which i doubt it. the point isn't whether she likes him or not but whether he likes her back or not. i'd hope that he wouldn't betray or cheat on you, nor your best friend, but as long as you still have his romantic interest and undivided attention, you shouldn't have to worry about it. and he would only be some eye candy to your best friend. if she switches around that fast, then she'll get over it.  it was not an assumption. She went out and told me |
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Sep 12 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell her that she can go screw herself cause hes yours.
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Sep 12 2005, 04:31 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 12 2005, 1:19 PM) tell her that she can go screw herself cause hes yours. SO TRUE. But yeah, just inform your boyfriend of her motives and ask him if he were to choose between her and you, who would he choose? He's your boyfriend which means a mutual friend. He should be honest with you. If he says you, feel happy and just know he won't compromise. If he says her, just say screw him. |
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Sep 12 2005, 07:52 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Talk to your boyfriend, and see how he feels about her and who he likes better. If it's you, then be happy and tell your friend to forget about your boyfriend. If he picks your friend, then dump him.
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Sep 12 2005, 08:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
if you BFF is tryign to break you guys up...you should kill yourself...kill her
well usually a best friend is always trying to outshow the other you should watch your back on her but if you have a fight with her..she might try really hard to break you guys up you should just talk to you bf and see how he feels |
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Sep 12 2005, 09:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Talk about it with him.
Assuming isn't going to help. Neither is waiting. 
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Sep 12 2005, 10:01 PM
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she had a chance and she didn't take it. now that you're with him, she can't do anything about it. have you ever thought about the fact that your bf might over her already?
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Sep 12 2005, 10:08 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
she has to get over it. you shouldn't worry too about him liking her, i mean he's going out with you isn't he?
talk to her i guess |
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Sep 12 2005, 10:24 PM
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With no trust there is no relationship maybe you should have a sit down and talk with him or something might make you feel better depends on the outcome of what he says.
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Sep 13 2005, 07:04 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
kill me now.
I'll be up shortly...(A cookie to anyone who gets that) |
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Sep 13 2005, 07:34 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
He's your boyfriend for a reason. If your friend likes him, okay, but he's still your boyfriend. Don't worry about this, she'll probably just start liking someone else if you talk to her early on that you feel uncomfortable that she likes the person who you're going out with.
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Sep 15 2005, 03:58 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(SSJ Kenshin @ Sep 14 2005, 7:04 AM) kill me now. I do i do. I'll be up shortly...(A cookie to anyone who gets that)  I'm in the same situation. My other friend tells me to wait and see what happens.. 
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Sep 15 2005, 06:40 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
yeah... I have a bi friend who likes both me and my bf... lol
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Sep 17 2005, 03:59 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
jealously.
i know girls like that. they come back to him because they dont have him anymore. they want the feeling of being wanted.even if she doesnt want to be with him. and they cant stand the fact that he's with you. the question is, do you trust your boyfriend? if you do, there's nothing to worry about. i've gone through that. 5 months of insecure-ness. what's worse is, it's his ex. the one that he was still obsessed for quite a whil after she broke up with him. but i chose to trust him. and i believe i made the right decision. good luck! =) |
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Sep 17 2005, 08:56 PM
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She's not flirting with him or anything, is she? Anyways, talk to her as soon as possible & settle things. Besides, I don't really see how you call her your best friend, & yet you can't talk to her.
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Sep 17 2005, 09:17 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
You know what you should do? back stab that back stabbing bitch back... nah jk
You know if your friend is like that, maybe she's not really a friend. A person who likes someone but likes the other shouldn't put herself beyond anybody else. In short, she's a one-sided selfish bitch who cares only about her |
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Sep 17 2005, 10:20 PM
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My honest... opinion/prediction:
I think she's gonna take him from you. You're already screwed. That sucks. |
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