anyone hate their parents?, specifically their mothers??? Options

[aud_chua]

i just feel soooo mad...!

read my xanga's latest entry.. but beware ofthe high amount of profanity...

(here's the link: http://www.xanga.com/aud_chua )


anyone share the same hatred or just feels mad at their parents??
wanna share your experience and ways to help repress the anger...??

[*CEP*]

Heh. I'm in that list.
And not because im angsty.
It's seriously..just hate.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[aud_chua]

haha...!! i know how it is..!!
mothers just don't understand..!
even though they say they know what's going on in our lives...
they don't..!!
so they better just shut the f*ck up
and stop trying to say they love us (well.. in my case, just me)
cuz they really don't...!

[dukesoccer07]

i dislike my parents because they always frown down on every action i make or every decision in my life

[Note]

was 'bout to post this topic. #@!*! i hate my #@!* brother! annoyes me to much when i go to the web.

::jerry::

[mznina]

i love my mom and dad. i guess because they arent ordinary mothers and fathers...i tell them everything...they accept me..

[aud_chua]

yea.. i guess some parents are cool like that...
but i swear.. my mother is just sooo annoying....!
she always puts me down and never has anything good to say about me..!
if i was really a bad kid, i wouldn't care... but i'm not...!!
i get good grades in school, i don't do drugs, i don't drink (well... maybe only in social events), and i don't have sex with my bf...!
so.. i really hate my mom for that...!

[triipinfserious]

i dunno my mom iites ... but my dad`s pretty jankee but yeah he`s cool at times ... but just too strict

[Mireh]

They get on my nerves often.
But they just mean well.
I can forgive them for that...

Plus, theyre asian (takes it to a whole nother level)

[Winter]

My dad's okay, he doesn't care about what I do or what grades I get. But my mom is UGH.

[sweetlyz]

i know it sounds really disrespectful .. but i hate my dad the most. its like he finds every possible way to make me feel like sh*t. like i`m some big disappointment .. and he rubs it in my face. he`ll completely ignore me or be rude to me when i try to talk to him and joke around about anything .. but then just a few mins after my sister would do the same and he`s perfectly fine, even dorky! and when i try to jump in .. he gets quiet. i don`t know what his problem is, we used to be so close. now i HATE him! god, forgive me ..

[LaZazn]

[Size=1]Well. Parents are like that. Worse if you're asian.

Asian parents...
They have too much pride in themselves.
Tey're too proud of their culture, heritage, and family.
They expect you to be the GREATEST.
They only care about their reputation, and what other people think about them.
They compare you to the one in a million genius you don't even know.
They will always think you're inferior.
Nothing is good enough for them.
Everything is good enough for you.
They think you shouldn't date til you're married.
Girl, no guy friends.
Guy, no girl friends.
They take your hard-earned money away because they think you're too young to carry money.
They want you to become an outcast.
They don't care about what you want, only what they want.
They think they're protecting you, but they're only pushing you off a clff.

Well, I'm not sure if that's ALL asian parents, but that's my parents. I wish they would give me a break.

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

well for the most part my parents are cOOL. the only times that i do DISLIKE them as parents is when my dad is pissed off and he puts all his anger on me...and when my mom doesnt think i do things right and lectures me. but other than that im grateful for them and all that they've done for me. parents will be parents and kids will be kids...thats just life.

jackie

[Winter]

[Size=1]Well. Parents are like that. Worse if you're asian.

Asian parents...
They have too much pride in themselves.
Tey're too proud of their culture, heritage, and family.
They expect you to be the GREATEST.
They only care about their reputation, and what other people think about them.
They compare you to the one in a million genius you don't even know.
They will always think you're inferior.
Nothing is good enough for them.
Everything is good enough for you.
They think you shouldn't date til you're married.
Girl, no guy friends.
Guy, no girl friends.
They take your hard-earned money away because they think you're too young to carry money.
They want you to become an outcast.
They don't care about what you want, only what they want.
They think they're protecting you, but they're only pushing you off a clff.

Well, I'm not sure if that's ALL asian parents, but that's my parents. I wish they would give me a break.

Sooo many of that is true...

[whomps]

The only thing I hate about my parents (mainly my mom =\ ) is when she compares me to my brother.. just because he's a little askhfskdlg doesn't mean that I am T_T. And how when she's yelling at me, she says "you guys". She always seems to think I'm him..

And when my grandma makes me do all this crap, but never tells my brother to do it.. Sometimes I think it's because she's afraid of him T_______________T. Or maybe it's just because she likes the guys in our family better than the girls..


Asdfghhjjk
I love them though.

[LiNHy POO]

my daddy is cool... he's open-minded about a lot of things... but my mom... sumtimes she bitches about stupid things...

[silver-rain]

[Size=1]Well. Parents are like that. Worse if you're asian.

Asian parents...
They have too much pride in themselves.
Tey're too proud of their culture, heritage, and family.
They expect you to be the GREATEST.
They only care about their reputation, and what other people think about them.
They compare you to the one in a million genius you don't even know.
They will always think you're inferior.
Nothing is good enough for them.
Everything is good enough for you.
They think you shouldn't date til you're married.
Girl, no guy friends.
Guy, no girl friends.
They take your hard-earned money away because they think you're too young to carry money.
They want you to become an outcast.
They don't care about what you want, only what they want.
They think they're protecting you, but they're only pushing you off a clff.

Well, I'm not sure if that's ALL asian parents, but that's my parents. I wish they would give me a break.

OMG, that is soo true of my parents. grr- they get on my nerves A LOT

[xxplicit]

last year, i used to hate my parents soo much. they wouldn't let me go out when i wanted to go out.
i snuck out a lot & lied to them a lot. my mom thought i was a slut & shit. & used to talk bad shit / my dad&mom used to hit me all the time. nowadays, i tell them things & i don't go out as much. i'm trying to regain their trust back. & we've gotten along fine. me & my mom have bonded a lot now.

all they're doing is looking out for you. which i found out. so don't hate your parents. unless they're really that evil.

[tinababy143]

i never hated my parents..i was upset when we had to move but that was it..my mother and i are so close..i dont know what i would do without her..she is the most wonderful person in the whole entire world

[pbear]

[Size=1]Well. Parents are like that. Worse if you're asian.

Asian parents...
They have too much pride in themselves.
Tey're too proud of their culture, heritage, and family.
They expect you to be the GREATEST.
They only care about their reputation, and what other people think about them.
They compare you to the one in a million genius you don't even know.
They will always think you're inferior.
Nothing is good enough for them.
Everything is good enough for you.
They think you shouldn't date til you're married.
Girl, no guy friends.
Guy, no girl friends.
They take your hard-earned money away because they think you're too young to carry money.
They want you to become an outcast.
They don't care about what you want, only what they want.
They think they're protecting you, but they're only pushing you off a clff.

Well, I'm not sure if that's ALL asian parents, but that's my parents. I wish they would give me a break.

Ack, that is so true of my parents.


They don't understand me.
But I still love them.

After all, they are my parents.

[aud_chua]

[Size=1]Well. Parents are like that. Worse if you're asian.

Asian parents...
They have too much pride in themselves.
Tey're too proud of their culture, heritage, and family.
They expect you to be the GREATEST.
They only care about their reputation, and what other people think about them.
They compare you to the one in a million genius you don't even know.
They will always think you're inferior.
Nothing is good enough for them.
Everything is good enough for you.
They think you shouldn't date til you're married.
Girl, no guy friends.
Guy, no girl friends.
They take your hard-earned money away because they think you're too young to carry money.
They want you to become an outcast.
They don't care about what you want, only what they want.
They think they're protecting you, but they're only pushing you off a clff.

Well, I'm not sure if that's ALL asian parents, but that's my parents. I wish they would give me a break.

ah! you hit all the points right on the spot!!!
i swear.. most asian parents can be doing too much..!!

[Flaunted]

oh man, i hate it when they compare u to someone! like my cousins. they are all so super smart and work hard. and like tell there story of how tought they had it back in the day. i get it. but i hate my dad mostly because he repeats stuff constantly and after we stop arguing 10 minutes later he bring back the subject again. i hate it. i hate it when parents do that.

[aud_chua]

i swear!! parents have to stop comparing us to other people!!!
i hate it especially when my mom constantly repeats this:
"why can't you be smart like me? how did i end up with a child like you who doesn't help out in the house? who isn't smart like the other kids?" "i was valedictorian in my class and i didn't have it easy like you. so why aren't you smart?!?!"
i hate it so much when she keeps repeating those lines..!

[k00alah]

that's what you call tough love.. parents can be bitchy sometimes but they are actually doing you a favor by deciding what is right for you.. we just dont realize it.. i've learned that personally when i used to do bad things.. lies and all that bs.. but if you learn how to open up to them.. life will be great.. just remember that they will always have your back no matter the situation..

[Luster Soldier]

I love my mom, she's nice. I can't stand my step-dad sometimes though. He's nice in general but he minds Every single thing about me. How I use too much tissue to wipe my hands...Argh.