hi, i'm an ugly 15 year old girl, =) Options

[x_shattered]

like my title?

Anyway, i'm just here to rant. I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'm okay with this, but it gets worse. It just seems like guys don't like me. at all. The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago. It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks. -sigh- stupid shallowness. I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either.

Any tips on how to cope?

[Paradox of Life]

Lucky you. And I'm not saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

[Chii]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

[Nicolatofu]

I'm in total agreement with Katt. The only reason guys like the "hott" girls is because of how they look. Their personality could suck- which shows what they're really after. You don't have to worry about guys like that if you aren't the prettiest person ever; if they like you, you know they like you not just how you look.

Try getting to know a guy you're interested in. They usually are physically atrracted to a girl first, but if you start talking with him, then he might see your great personality- which is what really counts in the end!

[*mishyerr*]

well, it's not really surprising that you haveN'T had a boyfriend, based off the fact that MANY & MANY & MANY of my friends haven't had a relationship either. so, don't worry about it. the more you fret about your looks, boys, etc, the farther away it'll move from you. just relax. everyone is beautiful.


ps, i'm also fifteen.

[x_shattered]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

haha it's always great to see another person's point of view, no matter how harshly they phrase it..

[hi-C]

I know how you feel.

But you don't want a stupid high school boy anyway. They're quite immature. Eventually, someone will come along who likes/loves you for who you are. And when it happens, all those losers who don't like you won't even matter.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

STEP ONE
Get over yourself...people aren't going to like you if you don't like yourself

STEP TWO
Not everyone needs to have a boyfriend at a certain age...some people go out young and some people go out when they are older...

ok i'm out of steps

[silver-rain]

So what? When I was 15, I haven't had a boyfriend yet either, and I didn't think I was so good looking. But I didn't wallow in self pity, instead of chasing after boys, I devoted myself to my work and friends. But, gain some confidence and become friends with the guys. If you can project and aura of self confidence, they might overlook your physical appearance (if you really are as ugly as you think you are) and like you for your personality.
Don't worry about it, the right guy will come along some day.

[anniepiee]

yes.gain confidence and devote your time to something else for a while. everyone's prettier than they think they are. besides, your still young. all you need to remember is to smile and the right guy will come.

[shortiiex]

the right guy will come in like 10 years....right now you should get a make-over, buy a nice dress and just have fun, be moree flirty but not easy, have some high school memories

[*jeanna*]

like my title? 

Anyway, i'm just here to rant.  I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life.  I'm okay with this, but it gets worse.  It just seems like guys don't like me. at all.  The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago.  It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks.  -sigh- stupid shallowness.  I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either. 

Any tips on how to cope?

i didn't get my first kiss/boyfriend [who i have been going out for 6 months now] till i was 16. and i'm 17 now. and i wish i waited to go out with a guy till maybe my senior year or later. don't worry, your time will come. just wait,.

[aznhunnie6o1]

You should have confidence in yourself. What you think about yourself is what other people think about you.

[mind_of_its_own]

don't even worry about it. The right guy will come along. And it won't help if you describe yourself as ugly. Remember, love the skin your in. lol too much tv...

[pandamonium]

dont worrie you will find someone, your probably a late bloomer lol but to be serious your time will come. you will find someone . it will be alright. i havent had a real relationship yet either. so dont worrie i am still looking for that person also.

[Joss-eh-lime]

STEP ONE
Get over yourself...people aren't going to like you if you don't like yourself

STEP TWO
Not everyone needs to have a boyfriend at a certain age...some people go out young and some people go out when they are older...

ok i'm out of steps

"gettin over yourself" isnt the same as being confident enough to like who you are. you have to feel good about yourself or it will show to others. its obvious when a person isnt comfortable with how they look or what they say.

dumb boys anyway

[sprezzatura]

Boost your self-esteem. That's all I can say.

[*mipadi*]

I think your problem is not your looks or your personality, but a lack of confidence. Guys dig confidence. Guys are just naturally more comfortable around a girl who is sure of herself and happy with herself. Basically, you won't find a guy until you know who you are and are happy with who you are. So maybe you're not the prettiest girl in school, right? Well, first of all, you probably look fine; but don't focus on looks, focus on something else. Carry yourself right, and people will admire you, including guys. Take some time to get to know yourself and get to know who you are, and everything will work out.

[mouse_3k]

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

[*x____duckii*]

I can relate, kind of, 'cept that I'm only 13. Anyways, go out there & try to meet new guys. And if you like someone, try getting closer to them & stuff. Ask them out to dates & shit like that. Hopefully, that guy will feel the same way about you, & WHAM! You have a new boyfriend. But be careful, though. Some guys can be total assholes.

Or you can just try waiting it out.

[ParanoidAndroid]

Hey it's alright if you don't have a boyfriend. At 15 it doesn't really matter. You have all your life.

First of all,
I know idk what you look like, but trust me, you're beautiful (everyone is...except my sister *I accept hate replies to anyone who disagrees*)

Second of all,
When you DO get a bf sometime now, don't date him because you don't want to be lonely, date him because you do like him

Third of all,
I am fugly myself (wow I am SUCH a hypocrite) but I think I am pretty in a certain way so feel good about yourself

Fourth of all,
everyone has their bad years and everyone has their good years. You shouldn't think your ugly JUST because all the boys are after sluts!

Fifth and Final of all,
Don't be in a hurry. Relationships aren't as fun as you think (depending on the guy)

[x_shattered]

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

Learn how to read. I am simply asking for tips on how to cope, and I'm not crying/sad/whatever because I don't have a boyfriend, mkay? maybe if YOU were more helpful, i wouldn't be writing this post.

& it's satisfaction, dear.

[*tweeak*]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

social situations can be more akward for some than others.

not all guys are completely shallow, no, but when they have a choice between two girls they like about the same, they're going to go with the more attractive one. don't give them too much credit.

putting it that way doesn't f**king help anything, because yeah, it does help to have other people like you back.

I think your problem is not your looks or your personality, but a lack of confidence. Guys dig confidence. Guys are just naturally more comfortable around a girl who is sure of herself and happy with herself. Basically, you won't find a guy until you know who you are and are happy with who you are. So maybe you're not the prettiest girl in school, right? Well, first of all, you probably look fine; but don't focus on looks, focus on something else. Carry yourself right, and people will admire you, including guys. Take some time to get to know yourself and get to know who you are, and everything will work out.

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

don't be obnoxious

I'm 16, perfectly mature and I NEVER whine about these things offline, but yeah, sometimes you do have to wonder what makes you so undesirable and lets the world pass you by socially. I'm 16, and have never had the slightest embyo of a relationship. But, you kmow, you just have to remain optimistic and hope things will eventually come around. Don't be prematurwly bitter like me; things don't seen to be looking up anytime soon

[misoshiru]

Lucky you. And I'm now saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

i completely agree.

anyways, there's nothing wrong if you haven't had a bf by 15. jeez. i'm 16 and i've never had a bf, but i'm perfectly fine with it.

[xoxoxx]

why get a boyfriend. get a girlfriend. yes yes yes.