problems with friends, .. Options

[xxbebot]

okay so my friends and someone i thought was my friend. lets say the girl is lisa and the two guys are john and nathan.

okay so lisa goes to a different school and she was on a website and found my friends aa. she added john. after awhile, she told john she liked him. then john started liking her. then she met nathan. she said he was hott and that was her reason of liking him. she told him she liked him after two days. two days. so then john found out and started being so depressed. so i try to help him. he start telling me how he just wont be hopeful anymore... and how hes mad at nathan. and him and nathan are like really good friends. and like whats pissing me off is that lisa keeps on acting all close with my friends. she never even met them. and shes making them visit her. john, nathan and their other friends. but john and nathan dont wanna go and they tell her. then she gets mad and now their going. but like once she sees nathan shes gonna be all over him and might ruin his friendship with john. i know i sound jealous. but i just dont want john too get hurt.. and its pissing me off how she acts all close w/ my firends..

[jsmooth4ever]

You don't sound jealous you sound concerned if she is that fickle then she can have nathan cause it sounds like she made up her mind just tell john that he can find someone 1000x hotter cause there is alot of girls out there he just hasnt found the right one yet depression over a female you don't even have anything with is a definite no no I don't know how old these people are but it sounds like a teenage thing to say hey I like this one no I like this one sorry for the run on sentence tell john to cheer up no matter how pretty she is she must not be very bright best friends will always be bestfriends tell john to let her go but not in a way that would make him think you want him.

[*anubis*]

it's great that you sound concerned about your friends. lots of people wouldn't have given a shit and it's good to see that you care about how your friends are treated.

basically, this girl is a controlling bitch. there's so many of them out there these days. they usually have a hot body and use their looks to take advantage of people/situations. sorta like a female-playa.

and the frustrating part is, you can't even slap her or anything. how unfair, right?

but john and nathan dont wanna go and they tell her. then she gets mad and now their going.

...and going along with this bitch, fulfilling her every demands doesn't exactly help the situation. i'm surprised they're being so whipped about it, considering most people wouldn't, so she must be quite a catch.

the honest thing is, there's nothing you can really do. you can only hope that either john, nathan, or preferably both of them see one day just how big of a bitch she is.

and then they might realize she's not worth it. she's not worth them costing the whole friendship ordeal, and she's surely not worth sticking around with.

they might be too confused or dazed, mezmerized by her, whatever, to realize what she's doing, but they'll see.

just try and knock some sense into them.

[bad_girl]

threaten john && nathan. tell them that you'd get mad if they continue being her friend because you kno that what she has done is wrong && that if you let her keep doing what she's doing, she'll end up hurting them; both. tell john && nathan how you dont want to see them getting hurt && leave them alone to think about it. i mean, ruining your friendship for a girl? is it worth it? hopefully they'll come to their senses.

[xxbebot]

it's great that you sound concerned about your friends. lots of people wouldn't have given a shit and it's good to see that you care about how your friends are treated.

basically, this girl is a controlling bitch. there's so many of them out there these days. they usually have a hot body and use their looks to take advantage of people/situations. sorta like a female-playa.

and the frustrating part is, you can't even slap her or anything. how unfair, right?
...and going along with this bitch, fulfilling her every demands doesn't exactly help the situation. i'm surprised they're being so whipped about it, considering most people wouldn't, so she must be quite a catch.

the honest thing is, there's nothing you can really do. you can only hope that either john, nathan, or preferably both of them see one day just how big of a bitch she is.

and then they might realize she's not worth it. she's not worth them costing the whole friendship ordeal, and she's surely not worth sticking around with.

they might be too confused or dazed, mezmerized by her, whatever, to realize what she's doing, but they'll see.

just try and knock some sense into them.

kies thanks for the help. and yeah i guess they "listen" to her b/c of her looks. i know that she is pretty and shit, but like why the hell risk their friendship for a girl right? and yes, you dont know how much i feel like slapping her sometimes. like her ex is myf riend and she keeps dissing him b/c he broke up w/ her. b/c like even if i did wanna slap her, were still friends sorta... and like the guys might go on her side and be like, "oh why you bitching at lisa" or some shit. even if i explain to them, they might just be like, "its none of your business, she never did anything to you" and yeh... idk if they would actually take her side though and thats the problem..

[aera]

nathan and john don't have to do everything lisa tells them to do. you don't have to let them do everything she tells them to do. tell them what a horrible person she is and go with them (if they still want to go) and show them why they don't want to associate with her.

[xxbebot]

nathan and john don't have to do everything lisa tells them to do. you don't have to let them do everything she tells them to do. tell them what a horrible person she is and go with them (if they still want to go) and show them why they don't want to associate with her.

i would but tha thing is me and lisa used to be best friends and were still kinda friends so yeh.. its kinda tough

[*mishyerr*]

you need to talk to her. what she's doing is twisted.

[xxbebot]

you need to talk to her. what she's doing is twisted.

yeh i guess.. thanks.