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 Sep 15 2005, 12:47 PM
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ok it all started this summer 05! i was with this wonderful guy lets call him bobby. well me and bobby were in this summer camp i mean perfect environment beaches,hammocks,sunsets.. etc.. we were together for like the whole camp (the whole june) and then we kept on seeing eachother after because we were both in argentina and we were together july and well august came and hes been living for a year in venezuela well i live in miami so i had to leave too so we both left and now were nothing its so sad he was like sammy i love you with we dont live in the same city. anyways im going back in a year to argentina again and so is he and were both going to live there but right now i sware i would even go to venezuela 4 him but we have to b something you know what i mean? HELP ME PLEASEE!!!
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Sep 15 2005, 05:49 PM
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i...dont...get..you.
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Sep 15 2005, 05:56 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
^She's attracted to him, no logic is going to be accepted here. That's why you don't get her.
I say move on, if you see him again, go ahead an get back together. But if you can't make it work (expecially with him not being willing to try) then you'll hurt yourselves in the end. |
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Sep 15 2005, 06:56 PM
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ask yourself right now: is he worth it? is he worth a year of patience? is he worth a struggle of pain?
and be honest with yourself. if you answered yes, then the only thing you can do is wait it out. honestly, i don't think a relationship could work out that way. i mean--not only are you guys not in the same city but you live in different countries!! you'd have to be edgar allan poe or shakespeare to sustain a love like that. it has probably a 95% chance of not working out in the end. but if you've realized that, there's a lot of other guys out there (3 billion in fact), then what's the point of making yourself wait or struggle in pain waiting to see/talk to him again? unless you really love him. but that's not nearly what it seemed according to what you wrote. so be honest. is he worth it? once you have an answer, you'd know what to do then. |
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Sep 15 2005, 06:57 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Sep 15 2005, 6:56 PM) ask yourself right now: is he worth it? is he worth a year of patience? is he worth a struggle of pain? and be honest with yourself. if you answered yes, then the only thing you can do is wait it out. honestly, i don't think a relationship could work out that way. i mean--not only are you guys not in the same city but you live in different countries!! you'd have to be edgar allan poe or shakespeare to sustain a love like that. it has probably a 95% chance of not working out in the end. but if you've realized that, there's a lot of other guys out there (3 billion in fact), then what's the point of making yourself wait or struggle in pain waiting to see/talk to him again? unless you really love him. but that's not nearly what it seemed according to what you wrote. so be honest. is he worth it? once you have an answer, you'd know what to do then.  Yup. I concur. ...it is fairly complicated. Dustin, you have become the god of Relationship advice. |
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Sep 17 2005, 10:09 AM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Sep 15 2005, 6:56 PM) ask yourself right now: is he worth it? is he worth a year of patience? is he worth a struggle of pain? and be honest with yourself. if you answered yes, then the only thing you can do is wait it out. honestly, i don't think a relationship could work out that way. i mean--not only are you guys not in the same city but you live in different countries!! you'd have to be edgar allan poe or shakespeare to sustain a love like that. it has probably a 95% chance of not working out in the end. but if you've realized that, there's a lot of other guys out there (3 billion in fact), then what's the point of making yourself wait or struggle in pain waiting to see/talk to him again? unless you really love him. but that's not nearly what it seemed according to what you wrote. so be honest. is he worth it? once you have an answer, you'd know what to do then. I agree with everything; quote on quote |
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Sep 17 2005, 11:53 AM
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it's a summer fling. a quote i once read along the lines of
"a summer fling is like a shooting star, it's a moment of instant beauty, but it will fade away as fast as it first appeared." i believe that is true. don't waste your heart on a summer fling, honestly. |
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