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 Sep 12 2005, 05:19 PM
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 I love you, I hate you, I can't live without you!  Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,526  |
mmk....so ive been flirting back and forth with this chick online for liek a few months and i just met her in person today....i really wanna ask her out....should i do it now or wait till after we hang out again? What do you guys think? Fast replys are appreciated!
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Sep 12 2005, 05:29 PM
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personally, id rather be asked out face to face b/c its more personal... online.. idk its too weird
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Sep 12 2005, 05:39 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Get to know her first to make sure she wasn't playing you online.
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Sep 12 2005, 05:42 PM
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 when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
Deff wait, Dont rush so it wont feel akward when u guys are in persn.
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Sep 12 2005, 05:49 PM
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I love you, I hate you, I can't live without you! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,526 |
eh.....im an idiot....i asked neway....ugh....this is what she said...anybody make any sense of it?
"wow….umm…I kinda thought about that, but I don't know, we've only hung out once, and I think I wanna hang out a little more, just, I don't know, before we get serious….im sorry." " are you sure? dont be upset...its not like its always gonna be no." "it deffinatly wont be no forever." "i just think thats its early, since weve only hung out once." mmk any explanations? bcuz i totally dont get it |
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Sep 12 2005, 07:49 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, you kinda rushed it, and you did get to hang out only once. Don't push her anymore. Just be friends and hang out more and get to know her. If after a while you still like her, then ask her again.
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Sep 12 2005, 07:52 PM
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you went for it too fast, you should've waited till you hung out with her a little longer.
wait for awhile see if she's still interested |
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Sep 12 2005, 08:33 PM
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Well, how did you do it? Did you ask her out like just asking her on a date, or ask her out like as part of a committed relationship?
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Sep 12 2005, 08:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
hang out withh her so yuo know you's not a fraud tehn make your move
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Sep 12 2005, 10:06 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
you've only hung out with her once though, don't you think it's abit fast to even ask her out?
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Sep 12 2005, 10:22 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(DEbmxer553 @ Sep 12 2005, 6:49 PM) eh.....im an idiot....i asked neway....ugh....this is what she said...anybody make any sense of it? "wow….umm…I kinda thought about that, but I don't know, we've only hung out once, and I think I wanna hang out a little more, just, I don't know, before we get serious….im sorry." " are you sure? dont be upset...its not like its always gonna be no." "it deffinatly wont be no forever." "i just think thats its early, since weve only hung out once." mmk any explanations? bcuz i totally dont get it  give her the benefit of the doubt and listen. just hang out with her more in person. she'll come around if she really likes you. if she lied then it's on her because she's missing out. |
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Sep 13 2005, 02:03 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
ew online is just very 5th grade. Grow some balls and ask her face to face, thats when u know the relationship will last a while.
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Sep 13 2005, 03:47 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 13 2005, 3:03 PM) ew online is just very 5th grade. Grow some balls and ask her face to face, thats when u know the relationship will last a while. i agree. asking people out on the internet is lame imo. but yeah, it does seem a bit rushed, so just give it some time |
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Sep 14 2005, 11:18 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
if I were you, I would wait. I would want to get used to being around her first.
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Sep 14 2005, 04:24 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
^ Yeah, what she said. Just take some time to get used to her. Dont rush. If yall went out already, it probably feel a lil awkward since yall hung out once.
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Sep 14 2005, 10:53 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
wait longer. try again.
dont rush. |
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