what does HATE mean?? |
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 Sep 9 2005, 08:14 PM
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when people say they hate someone, i dont think they know how big of a word it is. when i tell someone i hate them, i feel weird after words, especially when i say it to family members. i think hating someone is just crazy . my mom told me she hated me once, and i went into my room and just broke down into tears.
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Sep 9 2005, 09:18 PM
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real hate is just horrible
i have a lot of i hate her/him because their annoying but not like i hate her and if i ever see them i'll kill her blah blah blah |
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Sep 9 2005, 09:23 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
depends on context.
kinda of like the word love. they get thrown around so often that they're not as meaningful. |
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Sep 9 2005, 09:27 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Sep 9 2005, 9:23 PM) depends on context. kinda of like the word love. they get thrown around so often that they're not as meaningful.  True. and Right. IMO, too. |
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Sep 9 2005, 09:40 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Sep 9 2005, 8:23 PM) depends on context. kinda of like the word love. they get thrown around so often that they're not as meaningful. Yeah.. people use the word way too loosely. Hate to me means absolutely 0% compatibility between two people. Which I believe is impossible because someone has to have at least ONE thing in common with another. Hate is an unnecessary thing and leaves a burden on you.. |
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Sep 9 2005, 09:41 PM
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 The Noob Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,647 |
it means i dont ever want to talk to u and dont ever talk to me cuz ur annyoing ;)
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Sep 9 2005, 09:50 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
it means that you really reaaally dislike that person beyond reason and you just want that person to go away and die. . or something. eeh, hate's horrible.
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Sep 10 2005, 10:54 AM
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usually you can tell when people are kidding, but the word is used way too losely these days to understand the full meaning of it.
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Sep 10 2005, 10:59 AM
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 M.a. x. Group: Member Posts: 1,913 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,641 |
QUOTE(anovation @ Sep 10 2005, 11:54 AM) usually you can tell when people are kidding, but the word is used way too losely these days to understand the full meaning of it. I agree with that and now these days it doesnt mean that much. you can tell your parents "i hate you for not letting me do this or that", and actually you really dont hate them. you tell your friends "you didnt call me last night, you probably hate me". little things like that give the word less meaning these days, but hate is a strong word |
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Sep 10 2005, 12:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
People use the word "hate" without even meaning it.
It's mostly like a joke. And when you mean it, it doesn't hurt that much. |
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Sep 10 2005, 01:06 PM
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hope this helps
 Definitions of hate on the Web: the emotion of hate; a feeling of dislike so strong that it demands action dislike intensely; feel antipathy or aversion towards; "I hate Mexican food"; "She detests politicians" wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn Hate is a humorous, cynical, semi-autobiographical comic book by Peter Bagge, published by Fantagraphics Books. Beginning in 1990 and running for 30 issues, it tells the story of sleazy, disenfranchised Generation X slacker Buddy Bradley's increasingly futile search for love and happiness in modern day America - specifically Seattle and the suburbs of New Jersey. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hate_(comic) Hate or hatred is an emotion of intense revulsion, distaste, enmity, or antipathy for a person, thing, or phenomenon; a desire to avoid, restrict, remove, or destroy its object. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hate Obsessive dislike accompanied by restraint and character. www.cosmicledger.com/glossary/h.html |
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Sep 10 2005, 01:08 PM
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 ich heisse Meli. Group: Member Posts: 909 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,016 |
hate: n. The emotion of hate; a feeling of dislike so strong that it demands action. v. Dislike intensely; feel antipathy or aversion towards.
Boy, that helps. I too think it is a word that is thrown around too much, just like LOVE. |
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Sep 10 2005, 02:05 PM
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^^
i agree on that last point of yours...mind you, i know i'm guilty about using the word 'hate' like that but its true. |
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Sep 10 2005, 02:09 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
When I say I hate someone, I really do mean it. When I said I hated my sister, I did not regret one syllable and actually felt good not in a sadistic way but good in a way that I finally told her how I feel after all these years. But I don't like saying hate on people who I really don't mean it to. Sure, hate is a strong word, but just because it hurts someone doesn't give people a right to tell them not to use the word hate because that'll be like lying to your feelings (unless the person doesn't mean it). Generally I would say, "Don't say hate unless you really mean it." I don't know how to tell if a person really means it. But there are certain points in their life where someone actually and really does hate someone. If I hate someone, I hate them, no one can tell me what to feel. I know it hurts people to say that but honestly, I only say "hate" to the people who ALSO hurt me severely emotionally and physically. Make long story short, hate is something stronger than dislike that is inside everyone's hearts. It doesn't matter how innocent they are, I'm sure they hate something or SOMEONE.
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Sep 10 2005, 02:26 PM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ Ooh, I have to add to that.
QUOTE(sweetjuice @ Sep 9 2005, 7:14 PM) my mom told me she hated me once, and i went into my room and just broke down into tears. What kind of girl are you? I am not trying to beg for sympathy by saying this, but things like that happen to me every day. My parents often say they wish I would die or that I'd go ahead and commit suicide and sometimes lock me out in the backyard. There are people who are suffering a lot more than you. Grow up. Don't just sit on your ass and cry. |
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Sep 10 2005, 02:39 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 10 2005, 2:26 PM) ^ Ooh, I have to add to that. What kind of girl are you? I am not trying to beg for sympathy by saying this, but things like that happen to me every day. My parents often say they wish I would die or that I'd go ahead and commit suicide and sometimes lock me out in the backyard. There are people who are suffering a lot more than you. Grow up. Don't just sit on your ass and cry. I thought that was kind of harsh. She's not used to being hated on so give her a break. I'm sure when you first heard your family tell you they hate you felt SOMETHING. For me the most painful thing to happen is if my parents reject me because they're the people I care for the most. I'm sure she felt the same way. Some people deal with pain by crying. I do the same (but with some action). *edit* but I agree with robb0. People will dislike/hate you no matter what. |
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Sep 10 2005, 02:45 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
pssht my whenever my mom says she hates me, i dont care cause i know she gets mad so easily, lol she'll say it if i didnt clean my room "I HATE YOU!" haha, im like okay mother.
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Sep 10 2005, 02:48 PM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Sep 10 2005, 1:39 PM) I thought that was kind of harsh. She's not used to being hated on so give her a break. I'm sure when you first heard your family tell you they hate you felt SOMETHING. For me the most painful thing to happen is if my parents reject me because they're the people I care for the most. I'm sure she felt the same way. Some people deal with pain by crying. I do the same (but with some action). *edit* but I agree with robb0. People will dislike/hate you no matter what. I'm a harsh person, but sometimes kids need tough love. We can't always treat everyone like little babies who can't handle anything. There's a lot of hate in the world. GET USED TO IT. There are so many other things you can do. Think about what you've done wrong and improve. Crying and complaining does nothing. |
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Sep 10 2005, 07:33 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
there is a fake hate and real hate. i do a lot of fake hate. i dont really do the real hate. i only use dislike to replace the word hate. if people see my use the word, hate. im not using the real hate word. im using the fake hate word. lol... does that make sense? lol.
anyways, hate means..... for me, i think hate hate hate is a baddd harshhh word you ever can get. i feel weird and scared if someone say "i hate you" in a real way T__T; it hurts me. but when someone say "i dislike you" im fine with that lol. *((random: I SAY LOL BECAUSE IT'S MY HABIT. IM SORRY. IT'S STUCK INTO MY HEAD. I CANT STOP SAYING LOL. NOW IGNORE MY LOL. GOSH.))* |
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Sep 10 2005, 07:36 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Hate... it means a lot.
To me, hate doesn't mean shit. Hate me, hate you, hate him, hate her, hate that, hate food (haha never), hate whatever... It's all how you think about it and how you react to it. I don't think that its such a big word. Its just overly exaggerated, there is no way in hell that you will never feel or have hate. Its all up to you, how you take it and respond. |
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Sep 10 2005, 07:51 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Hate is the opposite of love...I guess people all have different opinions of the importance of either word..and it's often said without meaning..
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Sep 10 2005, 07:51 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Hate is the opposite of love...I guess people all have different opinions of the importance of either word..and it's often said without meaning..
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Sep 10 2005, 10:11 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
hate means that if the person died, you'd be happy... pure hate means that you might just be the one who killed them.
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Sep 10 2005, 10:17 PM
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 Love_101_213 Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 |
Hate - two diffrent types i hate you now and talk to you tommrow not real hate
hate you now and dont take to you again thats real hate .simple 
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