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Bobblehead425
post Sep 3 2005, 01:37 PM
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so when you like a guy, do u act normal around him, or try to look perfect? i just act like i do around my friends. even if i am weird. well, i guess i wanna be cuz he liked me last yr. but i dunno if he still does haha rolleyes.gif so, how do you act?
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 02:46 PM
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well, if it's my first time talking to them, I would act normal...like not my normal self but normal-normal...not too crazy or wierd. But if I been talkin to them I'll just act like myself.
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 02:54 PM
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i act normal like any other person...but inside i am really nervous
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 03:09 PM
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I liked my crush for 3 years, so when I see him, I try to look nicer than usual. I tend to act way more stupid and avoid eye contact with him.
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:01 PM
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I try to act normal. But then I get all giggly and end up looking like a ditz. In my defense he does crack a lot of jokes though.
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:11 PM
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I try to act normal. LOL. Then I just end up being myself. Doesn't go to well because I'm mean to my crushes/people I like/boyfriends. x\
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:16 PM
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well last year i cared but this year around the guy i like i dont care i mean I care if I look nice and stuff. but I jsut dont care that much. to me its like if you like me as me then good because Im not changing for you. that may be mean but really the guy should like you for you. wink.gif
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:21 PM
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act normal,be yourself,dont make yourself be all weird or try to be someone your not.a guy wants you to be yourself in everyway.-_-"
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:49 PM
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i try to look my prettiest, but overall i act the same. i just may crack a joke or two than usual, & not act as retarded ;DD
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(Bobblehead425 @ Sep 3 2005, 1:37 PM)
so when you like a guy, do u act normal around him, or try to look perfect? i just act like i do around my friends. even if i am weird. well, i guess i wanna be cuz he liked me last yr. but i dunno if he still does haha rolleyes.gif so, how do you act?
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I act my casual self because acting my casual self caused this guy I like to walk me home one time... which means he was fond of my inside personality... very sweet. When I like someone I act my real self to see if they can like me for who I am. If they don't, I don't want to break my heart any further to learn that I have to be a whore to attract them.
 
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post Sep 3 2005, 04:57 PM
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so, how many topics have we had on this before?

i go up and talk to him about anything. current problems i'm having, problems he's having, how utterly infuriating geometry homework is, violin, piano, cello, music in general.

we're friends.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 10:33 AM
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I don't act, I behave. Meaning I don't put up a show or anything, I just over a period of time become good friends with them. =] Right now I like the same guy I've been liking for a year, but he went to stupid boarding school. =[
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 10:34 AM
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i've crushed on him since forever..
so i usually try to clean up and look a little nicer. :]
but i always get so nervous when i talk to him! -_-
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:21 AM
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I try to act normal, especially if I'm friends with him, and just be myself.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 02:11 PM
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like myself. i don't want someone to like someone i'm not.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 03:12 PM
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i act nervous, anxious and totally spazztic. pinch.gif stubborn.gif and i try to stay away from them as much as possible. but then again... he couldn't be much more away from me then he is now...
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 03:16 PM
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I try to act normal around guys I have a crush on, but I always end up flirting alot. By flirting, I mean giggling at EVERYTHING he says. It pisses me off, but it won't stop lol If I know him well, I will be much more normal and can talk about normal stuff but if I don't know him that well, there will be many awkward silences lol

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post Sep 5 2005, 06:11 PM
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Oh, I always try to talk to them more, and I definitely laugh a lot more than if I were talking to a guy I liked as a friend. Usually so much so that they can tell I like them... ermm.gif
 
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post Sep 5 2005, 06:38 PM
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I'd definately act differently. I've also always been one that that is constantly trying to impress, like I hate it when people look down on me, so I make a point of trying to be on my "best behaviour" all the time. So I guess i'd act normally in that sense.
 
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post Sep 6 2005, 11:13 PM
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... How do you "look perfect?" Or do you mean "act perfect?" If it's looking perfect... Um I don't know what you mean by that. But, if it's acting perfect, I think it's kind of hard to do. There's no exact definition to perfection, so if you "act perfect" around the guy, he'll have a false impression of you.

Personally, I act the way I normally do. I guess that's how I attracted my boyfriend of 2 years 9 months and still going strong happy.gif

Be who you are--the ones that fall for you because they love who you naturally are (your "normal self" as you would call it), are the keepers. They appreciate you no matter what.

I'm not really giving advice, just letting out some of my philosophical love stuff. =P
 
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post Sep 6 2005, 11:27 PM
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Im very quiet and shy. I try to act normal...but it never works.
 
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post Sep 7 2005, 12:10 AM
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you can try to drop a few hints...and hang out with him more often than you usually do. he'll get the picture..
 
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post Sep 7 2005, 08:04 AM
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i act the way i usually do. i dont see the point in him liking me if i werent myself.
 
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post Sep 7 2005, 03:25 PM
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Both. I try to look perfect while I'm acting like myself. Works like a charm. tongue.gif
 
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post Sep 7 2005, 09:05 PM
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I act normally, but on the inside I'm like really nervous and giddy. lols
 
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