what kind of guys do girls like???, really Options

[JoJo_x]

Depends on the girl...

Anyways, any guy that is nice, sweet, caring, funny, and doesn't try to be someone else..

I hate guys that are too full of themself, seriously, it's cute, but it gets annoying...

[mistaken_identit...]

Nice-ness. I think that's what all girls really want in a guy. It's hard to find a guy like that (personally) 'cause they're just guys =P nah. If you're super dooper nice the girls are about the notice you.

[*incoherent*]

that's a very general question. 

it definitely depends on the girl.

yeah. try explaining what you mean. this could mean preppy, emo, skater, etc. or black, white, hispanic, etc.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Personaility
-good listener
-entertaining
-easy to please
-loveable
-sweet
-romantic
-smart
-funny
-& act themselves & not who they think I want them to be

Appearances
-pretty eyes
-nice smooth skin
-straight teeth
-descent body
-clean cutt or curly hair
-smells good
-gorgeous smile
-descent face
-& takes care of himself

If any guy can fit this your my Mr.Right!!!...

[CrazayChristian]

You can fit it into to broad terms:

Strong
and
Sensitive

But, you can't be too sensitive, or you're screwed. You will be seen as an insecure pest that the girl will have to worry about.

In other words, when it comes down to one or the other. You need to be more STRONG than sensitive.

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The short long version:

You need to make her feel good. If she feels good then she'll like you.

And you say "Joshua, you idiot, that's simple" Ha..no.

Here's the catch:
You have to make her feel good, like noone else makes her feel good. In other words...
NOT THE SAME EASY WAY OUT!

You can't just do every little nice thing for her, and jump to the rescue when every little thing comes up. You can't just go into "instant empathy" when she's pissed or sad. WHY?

You become predictable, and boring.

Not making her feel very good...
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The long long version

You already need to know you need to make her feel good. Now, you need to make her feel good like noone else does.

LIEK OMG HOW JOSHUA?!?!?!?!?!1/1/1/1/SLASHONESLASH1

(Stop talking like that for one...) You need to have her attention, make yourself linger in her mind. Lets think of it this way:

Someone walks up to you, and says "Buy this, it's good!". Now, lets pretend you never heard the word good before, and you buy it.
Now, imagine after time, more people say "Buy this it's good!". At this rate, "good" has lost its meaning, and you're bored with "good". Sure, you might buy it if it looks interesting, has value, or you've heard good things about it. But, you're simply not going to buy evertime someone says "good" to you.

Now, imagine someone walks up to you and says " Buy this...you know..nevermind." You might turn around and say "Why aren't you selling me anything?" They respond "You don't seem very qualified for this product." Noone has ever said this to you! You aren't very happy, but you feel you should be given the chance, like you're power is beign challenged. So, the salesman asks you for a number, maybe you can call when you feel qualified.
Now, this guy has stood out to you, he challenged you, and you feel the need to meet this challenge. You call him, and decide to buy this product. It may not be as good as the other flashy products. But it makes you happy that you mastered something.

Let's take a look at what happend:
Product=relationship
You=Girl
Salesman=guys
"Buy this is good"=Adverage "W-will you go out with me?"
"You don't seem qualified"= Unique "I can take you or leave you, so take me before you miss your chance."

As you can see, something stands out here. Girls don't want you to be boring and adverage. It seems LOGICAL to put them on a pedestal, but ulitimatly it will land you in the "friends zone"

When you do adverage, you do the old "I'm not sure of myself, I like to beat around the bush, avoid problems, and wait on you hand and foot." And, this might work for a while. But, it eventually wears out. It becomes BORING AND PREDICTABLE. Just like you expecting everyone to say "buy this it's good".
You also can't do other versions like "But this, you'll like it"ect. You just can't make variations up.

If you do the old "I need you, and I'll wait forever for you" routine. Guess what? You'll wait...and wait...and WAIT. WHY? Because, she know's you'll always be there. You'll always obey like a good dog, and you'll always listen. You aren't relationship material anymore. You're a "friend" that will "always be there", and she doesn't need to pay any special attention, because you gave her so much slack that now, she's holding the leash.

SOLUTION:

You have to be Confident almost to the point of severe Cockiness. You have to be so sure you can suceed, that it doesn't matter if you lost once or twice, because you can always move on. Guys who "look good" or "athletic guys" ect. seem attractive because they have this mind set, they KNOW they can still go on, and don't have to worry if it goes any farther.
This however doesn't mean you have to make a total ASS of yourself. It just means that you should think you're all that, and you'll actually BE all that!

You also MUST be funny, you need to blend this with Confidence. If she can laugh, then she'll feel nice and confortable with you. It will also help you NOT become a total ASS.

HOWEVER, you can't be TOO confident (ASS) or TOO funny (Goof off who never takes anything seriously) BLEND this together.

HOW YOU CAN DO THIS:

Next time you want a girl to notice you, do something no other guy has done to her that day. Tease her.Or ask her a question that you can tease.
Example:

You:Hi
Her:er..hi
You:I've been meaning to ask you somthing.
her:Yes?
You: How do you feel about the whole "Womens Equality" thing. You know, sort of like "We can pay for our own meals" and stuff.
Her:(made up)Blah blah blah blah <HERE COMES A KEY WORD!>Guys Pay blah blah.
You: OH! So, you don't belive in equality?
Her: That's not it at all!
You: It sounds like all of it pretty clearly...

Something like this, what you want to do is find the KEY WORD/PHRASE of her sentence. And actually USE it in your own sentence. This not only shows/allows you listen, but you can use this later on and it drills in your memory.

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX:

Special techniques, such as when she's surrounded by friends, become useful to get her out of that group. Example:

Forceful: Hi, may I borrow her for a second?(Then take her out of the group) "I can't belive your friends would let you leave with a total stranger..."

Subtle(but funny): Hey, (Hand money) I need a drink, can you get that for me? thanks. (85% of the time, she'll be rather pissed and follow you to give your money back.(Yes...I've done this)(No, I don't care it was in Hitch)

Creative things make you stand out of a crowd. But, what really makes you stand out is your body language.

BODY LANGUAGE:

Most women will shoot you down before you ever open your mouth. No, it's not because your fat, no it's not because your fly is open, no, It's not because your hair sucks. It's because you instantly give off the signal that you are completely faking your confidence and you have no idea what you're doing.

We are Pre-Wired with sensors that read body language. We can't help it, they are just there. Women are scientifically calculated to be able to send and recieve Body signals 10 times better than men. So, is this important?
HELL YEAH!
This language is so subtle, that everything from the tone of your voice, to how you look, to how LONG you look, to how you hold something, is important. A friend of mine always holds his drink a certain way when he's trying to hook up with someone.

"Touch the middle of her back. But watch out, Too high means 'I just want to be friends' too low means 'I just want to grab some ass'"

-Hitch
This is serious stuff.

TIPS:

Edit:Avoid the "3 Too's"

Too fast
Too Much
Too soon

Too Fast- you go from "Hi" to "I love you" In days (or less)

Too much- You spill your heart out in days(or less)

Too soon(most important)-You do this all too SOON and ruin your chances by 85% or more.

Just don't rush it, and follow (yes another hitch quote)

"She may not want to see it ALL AT ONCE, but she does want to see it."-Hitch

You can do the romantic stuff. But don't find out her favorite restraunt and take her out there the next day. Wait as long as a few WEEKS then take her. It shows that you listened and you didn't just buy her company.

I'm not saying don't be romantic, I'm saying don't do every little thing that pop into your mind AS SOON AS IT POPS INTO YOUR HEAD. It will be less predictable and more "SUPRISE" that way.(/edit)

Make sure you don't take to fast. Infact, don't make any quick movements. That just shows you're nervous and can't handle yourself.
Make sure your voice isn't higher than normal. (You tense up and actually talk at a higher pitch when you're nervous. If anything you want to go a little lower)
Sit up, and maybe lean back a little. It'll show you're confidence, and if you slouch or look down too much, then you are saying "I'm lazy, insecure, and unsure of myself."

Use a mirror, you can look and see for yourself. If you are doing something wrong, then you'll know. It's natural.

IN CONCLUSION:

Edit: Avoid the "3 Too's"

"Any man has a chance to sweep ANY woman off her feet. Just needs the right broom."
-Hitch

In otherwords. Just make her feel good. Don't bore her.
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(Damn...I need to get some sleep...after all this)
(I have a bad feeling I didn't have to type all that...)

-Joshua

[crazi_in_love_08]

hmm well it definatly depends on the girl ... sum people only go with sumone like them ( preppy, goth, punk) but my friends consider me as preppy .. but i love punk n metal music. and my ex is in to all of that .. but than again this other guy i went out with was sorta a redneck ... they both treated me rite so i guess it just depends on the guy and how they treat me ...

[sheddingtears]

he's cute,
can talk so sweet,
and can make a girl laugh.

[Smilessss]

hmm lets c...wat kinda guy i go fo?...lol well here it is...
~very sweet
~ hmm he doesnt havta b hot...but he does havta b cute *winks and smiles*
~trustworty
~honest
~ funneh
~fun to hang out wit
~respects yoo
~loves yoo and meant it

hmm..couldnt think of nething else.... XP

[*mipadi*]

hmm lets c...wat kinda guy i go fo?...lol well here it is...
~very sweet
~ hmm he doesnt havta b hot...but he does havta b cute *winks and smiles*
~trustworty
~honest
~ funneh
~fun to hang out wit
~respects yoo
~loves yoo and meant it

hmm..couldnt think of nething else.... XP

Proper spelling/grammar not a must?

[dancingkait]

for me he has to be kind, has a good sense of humour and can make me laugh, romantic, sweet, relaxed, not too serious, carefree...just a fun person :)

[gnarly_d00d]

Hm, well, I like guys that are funny, intelligent, sweet, outgoing, honest, etc. As far as looks go, I like the pale, scrawny, nerdy types. Heh, no joke. Or, metal heads with long flowing hair.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

If a guy can make me laugh I'm in love

[pyrochick19770]

-Respectable
-Loyal
-Funny
-Honest
-Romantic
-Layed back [but responsible]
-Can take care of himself and me.
-Knows when he can put me in my place.
-Someone who can take charge.
-Someone who'll defend me.
-Doesn't have to rely on anyone to get what he needs.
-Has to be able to open up to me.
-Good looks are a BIG bonus.

[shortiiex]

for me
-has to be cute...he doesn't have to be hot
-has to smart but not smarted than me
-has to be funny
-laid-back
-romantic
-trustworthy
-doesn't try to hard
-someone you can talk to and have fun with

[YoUr HeRo]

cute, funny, nice, not afaid to say how he is feeling, puts me before himself,sweet and romantic

[cheerbee07]

has to be
- nice
- not egotistical
- friendly
- understanding
- not sadistic
- or evil
- (and preferably cute, although it doesn't really matter to me lol)

and generally i end up falling for guys who sing or play soccer... no clue why though lol

[Tiffany_Prep_Gir...]

nice, handsome, have money (maybe more than 50 dollars is already good), popular, cool, have a good style, who is always in fashion...

well, is the type of guy whom most of girls in my school wanna have, sure!

[Atobe_Keigo]

1 - Musical Talent - Piano or a bit of singing
2 - Nice voice
3 - Looks good and is intelligent
4 - Lets me support him in his goals
5 - Is rich
6 - Is trustworthy....

[redpeony]

I tend to be attracted to guys who are honest, straightforward but considerate, genuine, caring, responsible, practical, funny, cheerful (as in not seemingly depressed 24/7), not eager-to-please... because he is comfortable with himself.

Athleticism is also hot... devoted time to at least a single sport can be very appealing. It's probably the whole "devoted" part that does it for me (plus the fact that he cant keep in shape and all, haha)

Bonuses = Nice eyes.

But then again, when I think about it... most of the guys I become interested in don't really match my description. And some guys who do have the qualities described won't really do it for me. Because even though we all like to write out these things as if we've got it all figured out... I think we just like guys because there's "something about them"... and they seem right for us.

Heh, that's true in my case, at the very least.

[malimars]

THE KIND OF GUY THAT IS WILLING TO SPREAD MY ASS CHEEKS AND JUST EAT MY ASS RIGHT THE f**k OUT THEN I DO IT TO HIM AFTER THEN WE MADE OUT WITH SHIT ALL OVER OUR LIPS THEN HE CUMS ALL OVER MY MOUTH AND MAKES ME LOOK LIKE I HAVE A MILK MUSTACHE

[Bianka2005]

i like guys with long penises ...i like chewing then smakin them on my chin and talking to them with a funny voice.......but dont grad to hard cuz you'll get callises....gosshy mushey penises

[AngryBaby]

haha wow^ to the both of you

[CrazykidXD]

idk

[ParanoidAndroid]

SK8ER BOYS!

[rinchan089]

Well, for JUST physical attraction, Tall, Dark and Handsome.

For someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, I'd want them to be intelligent, UBER-CONSERVATIVE, honest, sincere, strong (mentally or physically), protective, ambitious, kind, stable, wants to have a family, and makes good money.

If I really like a guy:

90%-> personality
10%-> appearence (physical appearence, whether you're ghetto or a slob... that stuff)

Rin-chan