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 Sep 5 2005, 11:02 AM
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okay not sure where to post this but i know this awesome guy whom i like, it's frusterating because my friend say's all the signs are there that he likes me as well but he is as shy as i am. (so frusterating lol) anyway's whenever i'm near him it's always good vibes i just never know what to talk about because i think about it in my mind but when it comes out of my mouth it i sound like a complete dork. hah. it's kind of funny because whenever i'm near him talking to him and such and if we are walking or whatever he is always running into thing's or tripping over his feet.. it's kind of cute in a way.. i dont know, i like dorks- hah. SO my question is should i just wait for him to come up to me or what? i told my friend if he was really interested in me he would of already asked for my phone number or something, but it's kind of hard because we work different schedules, and we are always around other employee's... bah, it's like wtf man. :P any ideas? normally i would figure this one out on my own but the last time i told a guy i liked him we exchange phone numbers went on two dates and never herd from him again, turns out he was a total player(swinger). so now i'm in doubt about alot of things...
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Sep 5 2005, 11:04 AM
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Well, coming from a guy who used to be really shy, I can tell you that he might really be interested, but is just afraid to ask for your number. So if you think he's cool, why don't you ask for his, and call him? Nothing wrong with the woman taking control sometimes.
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Sep 5 2005, 11:07 AM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 5 2005, 11:04 AM) Well, coming from a guy who used to be really shy, I can tell you that he might really be interested, but is just afraid to ask for your number. So if you think he's cool, why don't you ask for his, and call him? Nothing wrong with the woman taking control sometimes.  thanks for the advice, now it's just getting the gut's to do it.. lol i dont want him to think i'm a total loser or something......... but some times i just need to suck in all the glory and go for the gold... muwah all though i like sterling silver better, hah- okay that was lame lol ^_~ |
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Sep 5 2005, 11:20 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ yeah. dont wait for him. take charge. he might be eve shyer than you so sometimes you gotta get what you want .
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Sep 5 2005, 11:28 AM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(hiphop junkie @ Sep 5 2005, 11:20 AM) ^ yeah. dont wait for him. take charge. he might be eve shyer than you so sometimes you gotta get what you want . yeah.. now it's just hoping we actually have some alone time for a few mins lol.... should i just tell him right off the bat? this is what i was thinking of saying lol i love getting opinions and suggestions so i can make thing's better, that's how we learn in life is by getting suggestions/advice/opinions etc... "So i don't know if you have a girlfriend, or what your situation is but i just wanted to let you know that i like you, i dont know if you are even interested or even like me but i just wanted to tell you that." does it sound lame? or should i just ask for his phone number first lol. i'm horrible at talking to guy's i like.. hehe ooo wait is it bad we have only known each other for a month? |
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Sep 5 2005, 12:16 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
a month seems to be enough. after all when you're in a relationship you do all that get-to-know-you stuff in the beginning anyway.
i think you should just ask him out for like a casual date and see what that's like and maybe he'll get the message that you're interested. |
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Sep 5 2005, 01:45 PM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(chii @ Sep 5 2005, 12:16 PM) a month seems to be enough. after all when you're in a relationship you do all that get-to-know-you stuff in the beginning anyway. i think you should just ask him out for like a casual date and see what that's like and maybe he'll get the message that you're interested. lol a casual date? how do i go about asking him out for a casual date, i feel odd asking a guy out.... gah. :( |
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Sep 5 2005, 02:11 PM
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Ask him out for coffee, or a movie.
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Sep 5 2005, 02:32 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, just ask him if he's interested in seeing a movie with you or something. Plan a day to see the movie, and then ask him for his phone number to remind him or something.
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Sep 6 2005, 12:54 AM
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To Live is to Dance Group: Member Posts: 791 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,074 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Sep 5 2005, 2:32 PM) Yeah, just ask him if he's interested in seeing a movie with you or something. Plan a day to see the movie, and then ask him for his phone number to remind him or something. yeah i'll keep that in mind, thanks for all the good tips..hehe my friend greg said he would keep his ears open to find out if he is taken or not, i'm to shy to ask if he has a girl friend or anything like that....... 
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Sep 6 2005, 12:58 AM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(thatgirlmarcy @ Sep 6 2005, 1:54 AM) yeah i'll keep that in mind, thanks for all the good tips..hehe my friend greg said he would keep his ears open to find out if he is taken or not, i'm to shy to ask if he has a girl friend or anything like that....... then ask him about seeing a movie...during that he'll have to mention his relationship status because it's kind of like a date. |
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