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 Sep 3 2005, 06:50 PM
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 Oh snap!  Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,105  |
my worst breakup was about a year ago. my bf of like 3 months all of a sudden said he was moving to florida & that we needed to break up cuz long distance relationships never work out. after he told me that he left & then he ignored me for a week so i gave up & moved on. The next week, i saw him at the mall with this other girl so i walked up to him & asked how his move down to florida went (sarcastically) & he just stared at me. turns out that he was never really moving & he just wanted to dump me so he could go out with her & he didnt think i would catch him cuz we lived in different towns. it really hurt me that he coulnt just break up with me normally but that he had to lie. wat were ur worst breakups?
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Sep 3 2005, 06:55 PM
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Oh man, that is so sad. He could've just told you the truth. Well it was a good thing you asked, my worst breakup...my previous bf was gonna break up with me cause one of my friends told him that I liked this guy who was like my best friend, when I didn't even like him! I really wished she would just ask me about it and trust me then just assume and tell him straight off.
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Sep 3 2005, 06:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Mine was some months ago. My guy cheated on me after a week and then a month later, lets just say he got a concussion
everyone think im a mob boss or somethin.. |
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Sep 3 2005, 10:22 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it was my last boyfriend. his reason for breaking up with me was because "we had nothing in common" which translated into "you don't play handball." that's the only thing he came up with when i asked him. the real reason was because i stood up for myself and confronted him that he always pushed me away when certain people came by.
that ass plus, on the day before we broke up he lied about so much sh*t. when we were talking online, he said that he was going to go kill himself and signed off so i called him since i was concerned. he was talking about what it was like to cut yourself, he told me that he lied and he smoked. i was really freaked out...but i talked to a mutual friend a day or two later and he told me that my ex carried a cheap blade to look cool and he never cut himself or was suicidal. |
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Sep 3 2005, 10:27 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(MischievousLove @ Sep 3 2005, 5:50 PM) my worst breakup was about a year ago. my bf of like 3 months all of a sudden said he was moving to florida & that we needed to break up cuz long distance relationships never work out. after he told me that he left & then he ignored me for a week so i gave up & moved on. The next week, i saw him at the mall with this other girl so i walked up to him & asked how his move down to florida went (sarcastically) & he just stared at me. turns out that he was never really moving & he just wanted to dump me so he could go out with her & he didnt think i would catch him cuz we lived in different towns. it really hurt me that he coulnt just break up with me normally but that he had to lie. wat were ur worst breakups?  That is really really sad. But he's just an immature jerk.  My worst breakup would probably be with my first boyfriend. I was so caught up in being with him that I didn't even notice that he didn't really care about me. I was 2 years younger than him, so for some reason, he was just incredibly self-conscious and wouldn't want to talk to me in public. He wouldn't even say hello. So we communicated through notes and phone the WHOLE 2 month duration. So finally, I got tired of it and just told him it was over. It was really painful because I felt discriminated against because of my age when I thought I had someone that would actually mean something to me. |
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Sep 3 2005, 10:58 PM
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umm i've only had 2....
and i'd have to say my second one was much worse due to the fact that he's my first "love" and i cared about him soo much. but he was justl like "..im sorry..." and didn't even give a valid reason for breaking up. and he did it ONLINE!!! not even on the phone or in person. all my friends thought that was soo wimpy of him. but i still liked him...couldn't help it...and then a week after he broke up with me we got back together HA! weird..now we're still together...*sigh*... |
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Sep 4 2005, 01:12 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
hmm ..
the worst "break-up" i guess you could call it was cos he passed away. =\ he was my first love. the second, which seems so petty compared to my first was on april 21st. he had asked me out and i was so ... elated that the fact i was going out with him didnt even hit me until he broke up with me. so basically it felt like he had said "do you want to go out with me? oh wait. nevermind." |
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Sep 4 2005, 08:30 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
My worst breakup was when my boyfriend pushed me down the stairs and broke my wrist.
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Sep 4 2005, 08:41 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^wow.
so far i've only broken up with one guy, we weren't getting along AT ALL then both of us couldn't take it anymore, i guess he broke up with me before i could. and he did it online. jerk. |
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Sep 4 2005, 08:43 AM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Sep 4 2005, 3:30 PM) My worst breakup was when my boyfriend pushed me down the stairs and broke my wrist. he is still alive? >.< darn mofo.:/ My worse breakup, after we was friends 5 years and after 2 years beein a nice couple,asking her 2 times to be my wife,she had to move to another Country. :( heh darn life... |
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Sep 4 2005, 11:15 AM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Sep 4 2005, 6:30 AM) My worst breakup was when my boyfriend pushed me down the stairs and broke my wrist. you should kick him in the nuts. twice. |
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Sep 4 2005, 11:24 AM
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My ex-boyfriend dumped me for his ex-girlfriend. Right after we broke up, they were instantly in love. This was about 3 weeks ago. I still get really, really mad about it - so mad I start shaking - but we're all still friends so I keep it down.
It's funny, cause the same thing happened 5 months ago, when he dumped her and started going out with me. Like, the same thing. Except he didn't dump her for me. He had just dumped her. |
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Sep 5 2005, 01:43 PM
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my bf broke up with me [twice] but we eventually got back together
[1st time] he broke up b/c i was talking to my ex bf... all we did was talk on the PHONE .. @ school i would totally ignore him... [sry for that lol] [2nd time] he broke up w/ me b/c i was mean to our friend [like i have a huge bitch fit when im sooo mad] so i had it on our friend, then my bf broke up w/ me the next day.. now [since we talked about it] he told me he didnt know why he broke up w/ me [those times] when he still liked me... [we're still together] QUOTE My worst breakup was when my boyfriend pushed me down the stairs and broke my wrist. i would have done some serious damage if my ex did that to me.... shoot; i MAY be skinny & small.. but im not afraid to hit a guy b/c a dude knows better than to hit a girl lol.. but seriously, i would of done something back... QUOTE hmm .. the worst "break-up" i guess you could call it was cos he passed away. =\ he was my first love. aw.. im sry... =( |
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Sep 18 2005, 12:14 AM
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mi worst breakup is... wen i was 8th grade..ryte now im in 10th... and like in 8th grade datz wen i first got a bf... i thot he really liked meh..but instead... many of mi friends told meh dat hes been cheating on meh behind his back...at first i didnt believe them..and still continue to go out with him..den one day... wen i was ova at his house using his computer, i saw a saved file... i got curious... so i clicked on it..and den dis IM conversation popped out..and it was between him and dis other girl... he told her dat he loved her den she said it back to him...i was so angry..dat i ran back home crying... den fo weeks and months... we havent talk to each other..and datz how we broke up... but ryte now... i still have a bf..except hes more sweeter...hotter... more honest..more caring..and loves meh more *^^*
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Sep 18 2005, 06:42 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Ouch.. i'm sorry
 Though if i were you i would sit and stare at the saved conversation until he notices and asks what's wrong.. then turn around and slap him across the face.
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Sep 18 2005, 02:46 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
my breakups never went well.
most of them ive never spoken to ever again. others maintained an awkward friendship. worse one would probably be him moving away.. sad thing is, it's his best friend who informed me. AFTER he moved. eventually i started going out with his best friend.. but i still did miss him
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Sep 18 2005, 07:34 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
my worst breakup was.. he was flirting with another girl.. and then gone out with her.. and eventually told everyone that he hated me and that he just wanted to go out with me for fun. everyone made fun of me .. that school year was my worst year man . i hate him .. LOL ! i wrote on his binder " I'm the biggest bitch" . and then he ended up getting in trouble because the teacher saw it .
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Sep 19 2005, 04:19 PM
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i ve only had 1 bf and we broke up twice already and the second time we re staying broken up. the first time wen we broke up it was caz he stopped talking to me and it was only a few days after out 2months so i asked him after i couldnt take it anymore of him not talking to me if he still want to stay together and at first he said he didnt noe and that meant no and it broke my heart caz i cared for him so much so i asked him again and he still couldnt come out and say it but we broke up that day. we got back together a month later and we broke up 3 months later which was last friday. even though he treated me like crap i still cared about him and everything and all my friends hated him as my bf and they all said i could do so much better but i didnt listen caz i cared so much about him. i couldnt take his crap anymore and his constant not caring about me and broken promises and forgeting things so i asked him is he willing to change and contiune our relationship and at first he said he doesnt noe so i broke up wit him even though i still care about him but he treated me wit such crap i couldnt take it anymore.
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Sep 19 2005, 04:38 PM
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The "love of my life" cheated on me twice. The second time, I found out from a guy bragging at work. Turns out, her two best guy friends ran train on her. You would think it would be the worst because of the severity of her actions, but, I got over it within a week. 2 years well spent.
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Sep 19 2005, 04:40 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I've only had 2, but the first one was the hardest, I loved him so much, and he broke up with me for some other girl. It was so awful, all my xanga revovled around him, and I cried forever, while I was removing all the files from my computer. I felt I was ugly and just over all felt like shit. My second one I found quite amusing though. It was with this really hot popular guy I've been dying to go out with for 2 years. I found out ,ew, he was a bad boyfriend, he only said "I love you" once. It was more like " i luv u" but whatever. When he broke up with me I'm like, Hah, loser. I can't face him anymore though, it's weird. I can face my first one, it's really cool, unlike number 2.
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Sep 19 2005, 04:44 PM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Sep 4 2005, 9:41 AM) ^wow. so far i've only broken up with one guy, we weren't getting along AT ALL then both of us couldn't take it anymore, i guess he broke up with me before i could. and he did it online. jerk. Wow. I hate boys who break up with me online. Which, all of them have.. QUOTE My worst breakup was when my boyfriend pushed me down the stairs and broke my wrist. Push him off a balcony and break his leg =D |
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Sep 19 2005, 04:51 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Well, I've only had one breakup because I'm currently only in my second relationship but anyway the guy I broke up with, well he had asked me out online which in my opinion is pretty lame/pathetic so because I'm mean lol, I broke up with him online. I mean he didn't even have the decency to ask me out in person so why would I have the decency to break up with him in person? Anyway, we broke up and it took HOURS, no joke, HOURS. Then he stopped talking to me and all of the friends I had that were also his friends stopped talking to me as well. Then he turned to drinking and drugs and basically into a "bad" guy. So I would say that's kind of bad? haha
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Sep 19 2005, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Sep 19 2005, 5:38 PM) Turns out, her two best guy friends ran train on her. damn 
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Sep 19 2005, 04:53 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Sep 19 2005, 4:44 PM) Push him off a balcony and break his leg =D He outweighed me by more than 100lbs and was a foot taller than me. I was a little intimidated. |
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Sep 21 2005, 04:45 PM
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hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Well scratch that before about that being my worst breakup. I just now broke up with my boyfriend last night. This is a horrible breakup. We kind of had a long distance relationship so that was hard. Then school started and that made it harder. Then he got in huge trouble and got his car taken away and his cell phone cancelled and that made it harder. Then his cousin and my friend died and that made it a million times harder. Then we got into a stupid little fight like we always do and we broke up. This is such a bad breakup because in the matter of a few days I lost two friends - one to death and my now exboyfriend. I can't stop crying.
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