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 Aug 31 2005, 11:49 AM
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 ..hawaiian pride..  Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,150  |
i'm a freshman in high school and my cousin is a senior. i just met her at the beginning of summer, but we hung out almost everyday and we became so close, like sisters, and best friends. But then school started and things have been so hectic, with our own classes and friends and we've started to drift apart. We both know that and are trying to get close again but I need advice. How can we do it?
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Aug 31 2005, 12:05 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
My friends and I have been drifting apart too. Well it's obviously very difficult so I really don't know what to say since it was a failure for me. Do the stuff you guys used to do before you were drifting apart. The thing that caused both of you to stay together in the first place.
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Aug 31 2005, 02:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
hang out with her after school or invite her to your house, she's your cousin so there should be some family dinners
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Aug 31 2005, 04:14 PM
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On weekends you guys can see each other, I mean your cousins. Watch a movie at her house, or bake some cookies at yours. I have a problem similar to yours but me and her find a way to work it out.
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Aug 31 2005, 06:23 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
If you actually THINK about a SOLUTION it may dawn upon you.
Coordinate schedules yadda yadda yadda. Come on, just THINK. and Communicate. |
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Sep 2 2005, 07:34 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
hang out with her at lunch and on the weekends.
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Sep 2 2005, 07:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
^^^ yeah.. i dnt blame the fact that your drifting b/c its school you know? but if i were you i'd try to spend alot of time with her as i can [like lunch] or after school
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Sep 2 2005, 08:00 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
Go out together. A day after school, on the weekends. Whenever you can. Call each other, email. I know what you mean though, but it happens.
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Sep 2 2005, 09:01 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
have a day where it's always just you two. like every saturday or something.
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