would u go out with....ur friends ex, even if they said it was ok?? Options

[starlette]

lol..I am right now. I have been for 2 and a half years. She doesnt care. in fact, she supports us 100%. Yall need to get over this whole uncomfortableness and not wanting to hurt your friends feelings. Some things are unstoppable. Besides, she only used him for his money. He was in love with her ( he thought so, it was hi school) and she threw him out when she got bored. SO he and I became friend throughout their relationship because he wanted to understand her better. She and I have been friends for 10 years now. I know her better than she does. So after that I helped him get his life back together, and 8 months after their breakup, we got together. She was a little shocked at first because she thinks he a loser, but now we all get along really great.

[deadendgirl]

To an extent I use the best friend's rule, if they were together for a REALLY long time (6 months+) and broke up badly then No. Because for me that is not right, especially if you were there for your friend through the whole break up and supporting them and all. Now if they were together a really long time, but broke up over mutual reasons and their are still good friends and don't care about dating each others friends, then its okay.

Basically I did the same thing once, my use to be friend was dating this guy off and on. She pretty much cheated on him, and was very abusive to him, part the reason why we aren't friends anymore, and so he ended their relationship. Now I had known him before she did, and infact me and him had been friends for a REALLY long time. About 3-4 months after they broke up, and we stopped being friends, he asked me out. Well of course when she found out, she went nuts. She tried telling her mother that supposedly they were going out and I had broke them up so that I could go out with him. And she spreaded a ton of rumors of how I had backstabbed her and done all these horrible things. It was a bad beginning for our relationship together, because between the both of us constantly trying to tackle all these rumors and with her still calling and harassing us both, it was rough. At one point her own mother cussed me out calling me all sorts of names and saying how I was a horrible friend. In the end, me and the boy lasted about 4 months together before we realized that we were more like friends than like g/f and g/f.

Basically what I'm trying to say is that be careful before you get into any relationship that has an iffy past. Especially if the friend is still wanting to get back with their ex. It can cause a lot of issues and hurt feelings. In the end its really all up to you and what you feel for the person, and if they feel the same way.

Man I feel like some sort of love doctor hah.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

yes i would if i either had "permission" from my friend saying it was okay, cuz i mean come on , if hes not banging her, why shouldnt i? ROFLMAO IM JUST KIDDING. or am i?hah. seriously though, if i loved the girl and i have my reasons, nothings gonna stop me.

[Cwlplover]

If my friend said it was okay, then yes...If they really meant it, but if they didn't, then no, unless I was in love with the guy or something.

It's just something that really depends on the situation.

[cheerbee07]

depends on how close i am with the friend...if it was one of my best friends, than def. not...i them too much for that...but if it was a casual friend than yea, i don't see why not.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

Probably if I liked the guy.

[latinprep12]

Even though they'd say they were perfectly fine with it, I'd feel uncomfortable. Especially if we were all haning out and we were hugging or something. It's just toop weird.

I agree.....the same with me..i will but then i wont..its differ..and depends on who and how is the relation between me and my ex's friend

[sharerol]

Maybe...but most likely not. That would be too awkward, plus there is a possibility that it would cause some issues with my friend even if they did say it was okay.

[pSyCHoBanana]

in one word: NO

[PrettyBrownEyez3]

I don't know. I guess it all depends...

[technicolour]

If they said it was okay, well then, OKAY!

Just talk if it's uncomfortable.

Yeeeesshh. I've done it before. Nothing bad happened. She didn't mind at all. But we weren't all over eachother...

[pinayprincess]

no way! thats like against the book oF BEST FRIENDS... if it were just A FRIEND.. then sure.. why not?.. but if it were a BESTFRIEND and she said it was okay still.. i wouldnt do that!