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 Sep 2 2005, 01:52 PM
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how do u know if a guy is being fake with u? like u told them u liked them and they said they did too but sometimes u feel that they only like u because they think your hott and all they want to do is feel u up and have sex?
-__- if that madeeeee any sense. go for it. |
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Sep 2 2005, 02:20 PM
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 Oh snap! Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,105 |
hm well u cant really tell for sure if a guy is using u. if he's like constantly trying to get into ur pants then hes definitely being fake but if he actually talks to u a lot & actually likes to spend time with u without having to have sex or anything sexual then hes probably for real.
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Sep 2 2005, 02:51 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
If he's always looking at your body, and trying to touch you (either inappropriately, or where you don't want to be touched). Also, if he keeps making comments about how hot you are, etc. then he is being fake.
However, if he stares into your eyes, tells you how beautiful you are, and actually listens when you talk and wants to spend time with you not doing anything sexual, then he is being real. |
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Sep 2 2005, 03:01 PM
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I don't know how you tell...You just have to trust your instincts really.
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Sep 2 2005, 03:16 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
If he looks into your eyes when he says "I love you" etc. you can tell that he is true to you, if not, you should be suspicious of him (that means he might be true to you or fake).
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Sep 2 2005, 04:46 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Instinct. Most girls have an uncanny 6th sense that can feel when something's wrong. Trust your gut feelings.
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Sep 2 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ Sep 2 2005, 4:46 PM) Instinct. Most girls have an uncanny 6th sense that can feel when something's wrong. Trust your gut feelings.  True. Some guys won't move in right away. They'll go out with you for awhile, and then they'll use the "If you love me, you'll do this for me" line. In which case, you say right back to then "If you love me, you won't make me do this." You can't be blinded by the way they act, you have to be able to see through them. If he's always looking at your body and not at you, or if he tries to feel on you or anything. Also, what kinda rep does the guy have? Good luck 
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Sep 2 2005, 05:41 PM
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 跡部様 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,886 |
Trust your instinct. This guy said he liked me, but then made this mean rumor that I was psycho. (x___X) So, people in gym picked on me....And they stopped after I "cried" <--I was pretending so they'd stop....
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Sep 2 2005, 11:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,215 |
i have a problem with guys being fake too
like one of my last boyfriends was always just trying to get some action it sucked cause i really liked him this new guy i like is so gorgeous and he said he thinks im hot so i want to tell him i like him but theres 2 big problems im a freshman and hes a senior i date a lot of juniors so im cool with dating older people in fact i only date older people but i dont know if hed be cool with it who knows but thats a whole other story i heard from my friend that this guy uses girls like just to get in their pants and that he calls himself the devirginizer he told me if i hooked up with this guy then i wouldnt be a virgin after 5 days i dont know if i believe my friend but i really do like this guy so im just hoping that this all isnt true gotta give this guy the benefit of the doubt wait now my story doesnt seem like it fits under your topic whatever |
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Sep 2 2005, 11:24 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
If he is pressuring you into having sex too soon and stuff like that then that's problaly a clue.
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Sep 2 2005, 11:35 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ Sep 2 2005, 5:46 PM) Instinct. Most girls have an uncanny 6th sense that can feel when something's wrong. Trust your gut feelings. i agree. girls actually do have that scary sixth sense kinda thing. trust your instinct |
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Sep 3 2005, 02:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,603 |
well its like he lives in a different state but i just moved from that state and ive met him before ive known him for awhile and i suddenly start liking him and he likes me to but hes usually like ur hot. ur soo hott. and stuff and i dunno sometimes im just like does he only like me because he thinks im hott and does he only like me because he wants to get in my pants. i dunno.
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Sep 3 2005, 06:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
basically, don't let guys take off your clothes. but you can take it off for him =D no i'm kidding. uh, face it all guys are usually horny if u tease them, so don't get all naughty-ish. or w/e
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