In love..., But what should i do? |
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 Sep 1 2005, 02:30 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =]  Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660  |
Okay, see the thing is, i'm in love with someone. But he moved to Florida, and i don't think he's going to be able to move back. I want to move on, but then i don't, because i'm scared of hurting him, and also hurting the person i'm going out with. He'll understand if i go out with someone else, but i just don't know what i should do. I can imagine myself in the future with him, but i don't know how long i'm going to have to wait for that. I'm going to high school now, and theres gunna be a lot of people there, and i'm stuck on if i should move on with him or not. I love him, and he loves me, but it seems there's nothing i can do about that. He's willing to wait for me, but i just don't know if i could wait so long to have a relationship with him. It could be years. What should i do?
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Sep 1 2005, 02:34 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
are you sure you are in love? Because if you were in love there would be no one else. And is the person you are in love with in love with you? Is he moving on? if he is, then you should too, because u both arent really in love. Now if hes truly willing to wait for you, I'd say go for it. Just remember, loving someone and being in love with someone are 2 different things. How old are you? That makes a big difference as well.
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Sep 1 2005, 02:43 PM
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Since your are going to HIgh School, people change. Your feelings may change if you want it or not. Since there is nothing you can do, you should just think positive and don't think about your love life. You need to move on and just go party with your friends. and maybe you'll meet someone better.
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Sep 1 2005, 03:21 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
i dont no .i mean do u really love him? ur so young..at this age u think ur in love after the first kiss or date..but if u really thing you are try keeping a distance relationship? believe it can work out..but u have to work for it.i hope this helps!
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Sep 1 2005, 04:17 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
QUOTE(karamelle @ Sep 1 2005, 2:34 PM) are you sure you are in love? Because if you were in love there would be no one else. And is the person you are in love with in love with you? Is he moving on? if he is, then you should too, because u both arent really in love. Now if hes truly willing to wait for you, I'd say go for it. Just remember, loving someone and being in love with someone are 2 different things. How old are you? That makes a big difference as well.  Word, she has a point. you only just began highschool too. shittz you dont know what love is. and these upcoming years, your going to learn what love really is. |
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Sep 1 2005, 04:29 PM
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 i'm 11,386. back off BITCHES!! Group: Member Posts: 1,596 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,386 |
i'd just break up and get it over with. especially if i were dating another guy.  |
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Sep 1 2005, 04:47 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
hey that kinda like me. just...hold on, i guess.
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Sep 1 2005, 05:01 PM
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Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
Ugh, why is everyone saying i'm too young to know what love is? Just because i'm "too young" to know what it really is, doesn't mean i don't love in the way that i know how.
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Sep 1 2005, 05:12 PM
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 跡部様 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,886 |
If he moved away and he's going to high school too. Then, he's going to change a lot. Let me see...A 85 percent chance of him not coming back.
You should move on....There isn't a point in hanging on to someone that's far away from you. Unless you're true lovers then you should've hid in his luggage when he moved to Florida, if by plane. There are many guys in the world. Find someone that's close and good to you. Besides, you're still young.... |
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Sep 1 2005, 05:21 PM
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if you love someone, you have to learn to let go
haha cheesy, i know :] |
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Sep 1 2005, 05:42 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(BitterSweetness @ Sep 1 2005, 6:21 PM) if you love someone, you have to learn to let go haha cheesy, i know :] That's true. If you do love him, let him go and if you two think you are meant for each other, then he will come back and find himself in your life again. So at the moment, I say just break up with him, and concentrate on enjoying high school. Move on, and you might meet someone better. |
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Sep 1 2005, 05:45 PM
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Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Sep 1 2005, 5:42 PM) That's true. If you do love him, let him go and if you two think you are meant for each other, then he will come back and find himself in your life again. So at the moment, I say just break up with him, and concentrate on enjoying high school. Move on, and you might meet someone better. ^I think that's what i'm gunna do. Thank all of y'all for your advice, it really did help 
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