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cheating, ...how far is too far?
ELizabethx143
post Jul 23 2004, 10:13 PM
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i was just wondering what guys think cheating is. like having sex or basically flirting?
 
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post Aug 15 2004, 08:51 PM
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i think if the person does anything that has something to do with tounching each other or flirting is beyond the line already _dry.gif and isnt cheating far enough already? _unsure.gif
 
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post Aug 18 2004, 05:45 PM
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i don't think flirting is cheatin...but sex is cheating....
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 03:06 AM
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u can talk n u can hug..n u can flirt..since the guy i like flirts wit girls alot..but its part of y i like him...but if they hold hands then ima kick the BI@tch who's touching MAH man! mad.gif haha~
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 01:04 PM
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Getting kissed by another is cheating and ne thing beyond that.

But, flirting is bad enough to make me dissapointed in my baby....

Hmm.... lol
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 01:11 PM
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look but don't touch is what i consider not cheating.. any hand holding, pecks on the cheek, "incidental" touching is out of the question
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 11:43 PM
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Flirting passes it for me...well atleast in this relationship. In the others I've had...it didn't matter much. But, when your in love...holy moly...I care sooo much about who he talks to and who he's looking at. But I know that mah babii wouldn't cheat on me...we're juss cool like that. cool.gif
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 11:52 PM
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i agree w/everyone else... kissing. my friend actually said he personally thinks as long as your not emotionally involed, your not cheating... altho i think that came from the time of hitler...
 
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post Aug 14 2005, 09:59 AM
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Would it be considered cheating if someone else kissed you? Not you kissing them? W/O your consent?
 
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post Aug 14 2005, 02:34 PM
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Would it be considered cheating if someone else kissed you? Not you kissing them? W/O your consent?
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Probably would depend on how you reacted.
 
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post Aug 14 2005, 02:52 PM
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your decesion of how far it goes it up to you and your own thoughts...some people have sex with random people while married. And think it isn't cheating... it's just sex...so it depends on the person really... huh.gif
 
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post Aug 14 2005, 07:18 PM
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I think FLIRTING is crossing the line...yah im very strict
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 02:21 AM
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A little flirting is okay, but not kissing pinch.gif
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 09:06 AM
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It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)


And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows?
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 09:06 AM
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It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)


And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows?
 
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I think cheating would be actually going out with them, and having a girlfriend/boyfriend already blink.gif
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 09:18 AM
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cheating is uhmm; when the guy/girl your going out with now is going out with some other guy/girl
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 11:05 AM
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Cheating is kissing and anything after that. rooooooooar
 
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i define cheating as kissing another guy. it just shows that the girl doesnt know what she wants and probably isnt worth your time.
 
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post Aug 17 2005, 02:19 PM
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I think cheating is a lot of flirting and anything after than that; kissing, excessive touching, etc.
Hah, my friend thinks that looking at porn can also be cheating...
 
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post Aug 18 2005, 02:54 AM
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pshh. even THINKING about a girl in a more than friendly way is cheating. *grawr* i'm extremely needy, insecure, and possesive. the bf's just gonna have to bare w. me. lol.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 10:50 PM
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my partner has to be faithful 100%, so any little thing would count as cheating.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 10:51 PM
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sexualy comments & any physical behavior.

flirting is okay. we all have hormones and sometimes they go out on their own and we have no control.
 
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post Aug 31 2005, 11:02 PM
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QUOTE(hiphop junkie @ Aug 31 2005, 11:51 PM)
sexual comments & any physical behavior.
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that, and hugs are all right, just as long as the girl really needs one.
anything beyond a helping hug is hammer.gif.
 
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post Sep 2 2005, 12:33 AM
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QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Aug 14 2004, 10:51 PM)
Looking >> Okay.
Hugging (If it's a close friend of theirs.) >> Okay.
Hugging (If it's someone who's not as close.) >> Right by the edge of the line.
Flirting >> Moderate. (Make sure it's not going anywhere.)
Holding hands and Kissing >> GET THE EFF OUT BIATCH!!!! nuke.gif nuke.gif  

That's how I see it.   huh.gif
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^I totally agree with that. But also, any sexual comments is way outta line as well.
 
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post Sep 2 2005, 12:42 AM
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I think cheating is being physically unfaithful to your partner. Just looking at a TV screen and saying "Wow, Pamela Anderson is HOT" is not cheating. That is seeing beauty and appreciating it. But if there is a girl in your office and you seduce her for weeks and then kiss her passionately in the break room, that is cheating. You are using time and affection and emotions that SHOULD be lavished on your partner, and instead spending them on someone else.

Cheating is NOT only about sex. It is about intimacy happy.gif
 
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