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 Aug 30 2005, 09:39 PM
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ok so i like this guy named Chris, and hes a seinor, but im a sophmore. i know it must sound crazy, but it gets worse. he has a girlfriend and i have been trying to not like him for my entire freshman year, but it hasnt worked if anything i like him more. i know hes completly out of my reach, but im crazy about him
 hes such a fun sweet guy. and his girlfriend i knew briefly in middle school and shes a nice person my friend keeps trying to help me get over him, but its not helping and im probably going to never see him again after he graduates this year im not sure if i should tell him before he graduates because i dont want to go through life thinking "what if" but i definatly dont want there to be awkwardness between us i mean he calls me "kid" all the time so he probably thinks of me as like.. a younger sister or something so maybe i was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to maybe move on or just help me cope until i get over him ill accept any advice! thanks!
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Aug 30 2005, 10:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just tell him you like him. but you still have to accept the fact that he has a gf. just stay really good friends with him, and keep in touch with him when he leaves for college this year.
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Aug 31 2005, 07:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Well you telling him doesn't mean he'll break up with his gf and you'll live happily ever after. And think of it this way- would you call a guy you liked "kid"? It doesn't seem like he likes you back, and depending on how serious his relationship's status is right now, it seems a little risky. Maybe you should just remain friends. What would you gain if you told him? Do you just want him to know?
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Aug 31 2005, 09:22 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I agree, don't tell him. It doesn't really sound like you like him, and you don't want to break up his relationship or anything. Just remain friends with him and over time, you'll get over him and find a better, single guy who is also interested in you.
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Aug 31 2005, 11:35 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Don't pressure him to pick between you and his girlfriend. I think your best bet is just being friends for the moment and letting time pass. Whatever that was meant to happen will happen.
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Aug 31 2005, 12:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 217,916 |
Everytime anyone likes someone, they just ALWAYS have to be taken or out of your league.
I HATE MY LIFE! Lol |
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Aug 31 2005, 12:08 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
The same is happening for me. If he has a girl friend don't get one-sided if you know what I mean. If you don't, well to put it bluntly, he has a girl friend right? To tell the truth that means he has feelings for HER (sorry if I sound mean
 ). It's no use if he's happy with someone else. It's just a krush. I was once crazy over a guy but after accepting the fact that he has someone else I soon forgot about him. Same will happen for you I hope. There are plenty of other guys out there. But if you want to tell him how you feel, I suggest to make sure it doesn't seem like you want him to break-up with his girl friend. When I confessed my feelings for a guy who has a gf I said, "I like you but I wish you to find happiness." You can say something like that. Just make sure it doesn't sound like you're a control freak.
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Aug 31 2005, 02:25 PM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
Uhm 1st if you're just curious what he thinks or what feelings he has for you,just spit-it-out,but if you really wanna get-over-it and move one,just tell him what you think/feel about him,i know this is not so nice for a girl to put all her feelings on the guy table,but heh,i guess it will be more easy for you to move on,if you just tell him all those things.
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Sep 1 2005, 11:53 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well he has a girlfriend, get ova it. I doubt he will leave her for you if ur his *little sister* dont be a boyfriend stealer.
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Sep 2 2005, 05:13 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Honestly, get over him. If you started falling for him even more, it'll be trouble for you.
And if he finds out, it might cause problems in his relationship too. |
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Sep 2 2005, 05:16 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
umm..I think you should get over this one. I think its obvious that he thinks of you as a younger girl, not someone he could seriously be interested in. theres nothing wrong with dating guys 2 years older than you by the way, you just have to find one thats not taken and not keen on reffering to you as kid.
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Sep 2 2005, 11:32 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
senior and a sophomore going out isn't that bad
 he already has a gf though, so you should just get over it and move on |
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