Do your friends often BETRAY you?, what is a friend anyway? |
 Aug 26 2005, 02:19 PM
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 GANGSTA-FIED  Group: Member Posts: 464 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,643  |
Is it ONLY me. Everytime I turn my back my friends are like always doing something behind my back. This time...
MY friends are talking to my ex... that they met through me. Giving him their numbers and stuff. HELLO!!!???? Why do you need to give him your number for. Plus he was talking about me. And they just stood their like  Didn't hold me down or anything. Or.... Am I just being a drama queen?  I didn't know. Everytime I saw I had a GREAT day. My friends ask me WHY? Like I'm suppose to be miserable everyday of my life. And when I say I am miserable they're like "OH well today my crush asked me out" WTF???!!! So really. I wanna know. Cuz someone give me a CORRECT definition of a friend. And does this type of stuff happen to anyone else? |
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Aug 26 2005, 02:46 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Used to happen. But don't let them walk all over you like that. I don't ever take that kinda shit from anybody!
But anyway. A real friend is someone who's there for you and actually cares about you and what you do. They also have your back in any kind of situation. Your 'friends' obviously aren't living up to what they have to be to you. Just forget them. |
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Aug 26 2005, 02:54 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
Well those ain't your friends. If they doin all that to you. A real friend wouldn't be messin round wit you ex or anything like that. This doesn't happen to me because I know how to pick my friends and associates.
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Aug 26 2005, 09:22 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Your friends should be understanding, caring, listens to you.
I don't think the friends you have right now is not your friends at all. From what I read, you look like a stranger and you just had a happy life and people are just like ignoring you or be sarcastic to you "Oooh she has a happy life. What a loser" That's them of course. And no, you're not being a sucha drama queen. It's just your so called friend problem. I don't even want to say your friends because they don't act like it. But you know, before you dump them as a used to be friend. You should ask them why they are acting like this. If you think you're not a good friend, ask them what to change so you can be that good friend. Good luck. |
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Aug 26 2005, 09:31 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
Well, hopefully not.
 My friends are, all things said, pretty honest and truthful. They're not the best friends I could wish for, but. Yeah. A friend is a person that sees you but doesn't critisize you, and says things that're right, and at the right mo'. |
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Aug 26 2005, 11:27 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
Yeah, only one. She ended up not keeping my secret and after that, I've been through alot.
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Aug 26 2005, 11:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
I really dont know the actual term of real "friend" because all of them are like whatever so i dont have any experience.
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Aug 28 2005, 04:33 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well the definition from dictionary.com is
QUOTE 1. A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. 2. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance. 3. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade. 4. One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.  but i guess your friends don't really understand you, or are just really unobservant or considerate. maybe talk to them about it...
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Aug 28 2005, 04:35 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Yeah my friends stab my back sometimes (except for one). But hey? I stab everyone's back so I have no problem. LOL me and my best friend's quote is "You stabbed my back, BACK STABBER!"
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Aug 28 2005, 06:14 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
yah one of my *best friends* which i dont even think she is NE more just starts bitchin at me because I wouldnt tell her my whole life and everything thats going on in my life. Shes also bein very jealous of me and my bf because he lives farther away *She lives on the next blocks while he lives 10 minutes away* and shes tellin me I dont hang out with her enough blah blah blah. Shes being a hypocrit...childish...bitchy...
Oh well she aint worth my time NE more. Its not my fault I can keep a bf for more then 3 days *unlike her* so w/e she can go fist herself  I got better people who treat me betta then dirt. |
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Aug 28 2005, 06:40 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
well, i never had a friend exactly 'betray' me, but i've had friends that changed as a person and turned into reeeally annoying bitches and started acting all gay towards me.
a REAL friend is someone that genuinely cares about you, is always there for you, gives you a shoulder to cry on, and will always be honest to you. i wish i had real friends, buut yeah, can't get everything you want in life. |
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Aug 28 2005, 06:55 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Nope
I <//3 my friends They're the shh... |
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