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 Aug 24 2005, 06:02 AM
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any advice on what to do when your trying to be friends with your ex but he's being a total a-hole?
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Aug 24 2005, 06:31 AM
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Obviously hes not worth it if your still trying to be friends and hes being a loser ha tell him to grow up and get over it
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Aug 24 2005, 09:17 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hah, that's my situation too. Well, I suppose it depends on how long it's been since you two have broken up. But, just give it time or go up to him and talk to him. If he still ignores you, forget about it because then he isn't worth your time.
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Aug 24 2005, 10:42 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Forget about him, if hes bein an a-hole then why be friends? Eventually he will come back realizing u were a good person even before you guys started dating, in time, everything heals
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Aug 24 2005, 10:45 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
yeah i had this problem too.. you jsut gotta give it a lot of time.. cuz sometiems he's not ready to talk about it..so just leave him alone for awhile.. (lyk weeks/months) or however long it takes.. but don't "force" ur self to be friends..
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Aug 24 2005, 12:21 PM
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it's all about timing, baby.
ughh. i'd add more but this is something i need to deal with soon. my ex won't be back for awhile and school starts soon... 
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Aug 24 2005, 12:23 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
This is why I don't date often. I only stick with one guy and once we break I stay single and let myself be unavailable. You know if your ex is just being a total jack@$$ then don't talk to him at all. Obviously he's too pathetic to move on.
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| *Tainted Euphoria* |
Aug 24 2005, 12:37 PM
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Just let him be. If he's being that much trouble, is it really worth fighting to establish, or keep, some sort of friendship?
If you leave him alone and he finds that he wants to try being nice, he'll come to you. Don't worry. Take a break. Things will work out. |
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Aug 24 2005, 01:16 PM
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i`m in the same situation lol..in time things will probably get better ^-^
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Aug 24 2005, 01:25 PM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
just ignore him.. if hes being an ass... den just ditch him.... im in dis situation.. but a little different...
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 24 2005, 04:01 PM
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Who broke up with whom?
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Aug 24 2005, 05:33 PM
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Stop trying to be friend with him...cause if he's an a-hole whats the point your jusst wasting valuable time trying to be friend with him when he doesn't wanna be yours...soOo go waster your time on someone new & be a friend to someone that needs a friend..
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Aug 24 2005, 08:56 PM
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none but just ignore him.......
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Aug 24 2005, 09:41 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
forget about him, he clearly doesn't wanna be friends
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Aug 25 2005, 12:34 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Well...all my ex's (except one) and I have always become pretty good friends after we dated. But there was a time inbetween that where we didn't speak for a few months. And then we'd talk online, or chill in groups. And so yah, you become friends again. You can't force it. sometimes you can't go back to becoming friends (like that one ex i have) But i suggest you not force this whole friends thing with your ex. Give it some time. Then just let it happen. Just give it time.
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Aug 25 2005, 02:57 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 24 2005, 4:01 PM) Who broke up with whom?  i broke up with him... but the only reason i did it was because i was moving and i didnt want to go long distance. |
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Aug 25 2005, 10:01 AM
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QUOTE(idiotic_dork2719 @ Aug 25 2005, 3:57 AM) i broke up with him... but the only reason i did it was because i was moving and i didnt want to go long distance. Well, with all due respect, I don't know if you can expect a person to immediately maintain a friendship with you if you break up with him (even though the situation was somewhat out of your control). |
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Aug 25 2005, 01:07 PM
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ohh ohhh hes just mad right now. trust me. he'll call you a b*tch and say bad stuff about you to his friends. my ex...hah i dumped him n he got all a-hole ish for a long time. and he started dating my BEST FRIEND too like WTF u moron. but oh well. at first i tried to be friends with him but he was just being unbelievably retarted. so then i gave up n just said "w/e" and completely ignored him. about 3 months later, we started talkin again and now we're cool. oh btw my best friend dumped him =)
lalallala girls RULE!>=) |
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| *danielle_x3* |
Aug 25 2005, 06:31 PM
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Communication. Try to talk to him.
He's probably still a little mad right now, just give him time. Eventually, you guys will start talking again
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Aug 25 2005, 06:38 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
^
 My Line, dammit. Just give him some time. And then start talking. Guys need time to "heal" |
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 25 2005, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Aug 25 2005, 7:38 PM) Just give him some time. And then start talking. Guys need time to "heal" I don't think needing time to heal after a breakup is gender-specific. 
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Aug 25 2005, 09:55 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Aug 25 2005, 6:38 PM) ^ My Line, dammit. everyone says that. yeah talk to him, if he ignores you then i guess don't bother trying anymore, he doesn't seem to be interested |
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Aug 25 2005, 11:35 PM
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 Ms. I Can't Tell Pants From Math Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,034 |
Be an a-hole to him, too, make tension!
I was kidding, you did figure that out, right?!!?  I hope so...Anyways, maybe he's not ready yet. You've gotta be patient.
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Aug 26 2005, 12:11 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Either he's not worth being friends with because he's being an ass or he just needs more time to get over the fact that you two aren't together anymore. That's how my ex was. He was a jerk to me after we broke up but about a month later he apologized and asked to be friends and now we're cool. Just be patient.
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Aug 26 2005, 05:36 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,016 |
well we broke up about two months ago....
at first he was ok about it but npow, hes a total a-hole |
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