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 Aug 20 2005, 12:20 PM
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Okay so I live with my mom. Me and my dad have an okay relationship. My mom and I are like really close. But I want to live with my dad. He only lives about 15 mins. away. I don't know how to tell my mom though. If I move there's no turning back. I think it will make me happier and I think that it is for the better. I don't know how to tell my mom without her getting mad and me crushing her heart. I went to stay with him for 1 month and she freaked. How do I tell her I want to live with him for the next 2 yrs. Then I'll be off to college. Any Ideas? Someone Please Help Me. It's tearing me up inside.
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Aug 20 2005, 12:27 PM
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If you think you'll be happier at your Dad's, than you seriously should tell your mom. Think about the future: Will you regret more leaving your mom or staying at your mom's house? The typical thing to do would be to weigh the pros and cons... and than just open up to your mom about it. I'm sure she loves you very much and would want you be in a place that will make you happy ^_^
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Aug 20 2005, 12:31 PM
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^ Yes I think she is right if you really want to move away to your dads house tell your mom!
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Aug 20 2005, 04:57 PM
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If you want to go with your dad; go !! I mean, if your really afraid that your going to crush your mom's heart by doing that, then don't do it. But have the guts and tell your mom about it !
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Aug 20 2005, 06:32 PM
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tell her you want to live with your dad for two years and you'll visit her on weekends. have a nice long talk with her.
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Aug 20 2005, 11:41 PM
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I think you should either tell her the truth..or jusst be fair & live with your Dad for one year & then your Mom for one year..soOo that it'll be fair between them before you go to college..thats what I would do...but if you really don't like the school your goin to at your Mom's or something..jusst tell her & explain it to her where she'll understand & then move backk in with your Dad..Well I hope one of those ideas helped maybe jusst a little...I'm really feelin what you sayin..cause I'm goin through the same thing...
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Aug 21 2005, 01:28 AM
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QUOTE(akinachan @ Aug 20 2005, 4:32 PM) tell her you want to live with your dad for two years and you'll visit her on weekends. have a nice long talk with her.  i agree. if you're really close with her, just talk it out and i'm sure she'll understand. it's not like you won't see your mom anymore! and if you're going to be happy with your dad, then your mom should be happy for you! |
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Aug 21 2005, 01:33 AM
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oh wow this sounds lyk me.. but i'm closer with my dad then my mom.. and i wanted to tell my mom the same thing..but i guess my mom had that 'mother feeling' that i wanted to live with my dad.. so she said.. if i wanted to go jsut tell her and i can go.. and that's what happened.. i told her that i wanted to stay with my dad and that i still love her just i think it would be better if i stayed with him.. so yup.. but i see my mom lyk everyother daii cuz she takes me places..lol so just tell ur mom.. and tell her that you wil always love her no matter what.. that' the best thnig to do..
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