breaking up Options

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

Tonight I just broke up with my "boyfriend". It's strange, because after all that we've been through, I thought breaking ties with him would be strange and awkward, but it went rather smoothly. Maybe that's a bad sign. I don't know, and quite frankly, it doesn't matter anymore.

What about you?

[silver-rain]

Hmm, well my breakup seemed OK; it seemed mutual and ended on good terms. However, starting the next day, he ignored and avoided me whenever possible...

[latinprep12]

^ dang thats not cool..well if it was me and i broke up with my girlfriend. i will still call her and make sure shes ok with it and try not to turn into a enemy, but back down to a regular friend

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

Hmm, well my breakup seemed OK; it seemed mutual and ended on good terms. However, starting the next day, he ignored and avoided me whenever possible...

I'm worried that that's what's going to happen to us. I hope not. He's a good guy, I still want to be friends.

[*stephinika*]

^^
aw naomi, i hope everything works out for you.

and all of mine have been different. my last one, i broke up with him and he took it pretty harshly...so we didn't quite talk properly for awhile but now its okay if we're in a big group, but we don't directly talk that much still..

[lovescream]

For me, it was really hard. I eventually did it.. and he thought I was joking. But we got everything straight, and we're friends. Not good friends.. just friends. Back from where we started.

[KELLYYY]

For me, it was really hard. I eventually did it.. and he thought I was joking. But we got everything straight, and we're friends. Not good friends.. just friends. Back from where we started.

But he's still obsessing over you, right? :x

[lovescream]

Haha. Yeah. Stalked me until I moved.

[*stephinika*]

^^
creepy. yeah my last ex still has a thing for me apparently thats why my new relationship is kinda...hush hush still.

[dahding]

my breakup with my ex went...horrible. she became like....the satanic *bleep* from nowhere. now she's fine.

and steph, ooh la la. frisky are we.

[Winter]

Most of my breakups have been pretty easy since it's either mutual or I lose interest. The last one however, was a killer. having to break up with someone you love is truly the worst thing to do.

[snoox]

^ dang thats not cool..well if it was me and i broke up with my girlfriend. i will still call her and make sure shes ok with it and try not to turn into a enemy, but back down to a regular friend

yeah. i agree. and one thing...^ i think its pretty cool that u would do that coz most guys today...or at least the guys that ive met are friggin petty, anoying and stupid. u break up with him/ vice versa...they'd act so childish and like start picking on u and be ur enimii.

[BOOGERSHAHA]

actually when i broke up with my boyfriend, it was alright. it was mutual (college stuffs) and we carried on afterwards like normal. of course, minus the holding hands, kissing, etc. but we still talked like normal.

um.
and then we got back together. it was random.

[Nicolatofu]

Awww.. naomi. I'd so go out with you if I were a guy..

I try to make things smooth, but the guys never want to talk to me afterwards. It makes me sad, but I know I tried my hardest to end it in good terms.. so yeah.

[Paradox of Life]

Tonight I just broke up with my "boyfriend". It's strange, because after all that we've been through, I thought breaking ties with him would be strange and awkward, but it went rather smoothly. Maybe that's a bad sign. I don't know, and quite frankly, it doesn't matter anymore.

What about you?

Sounds like a mutual relationship and it was really for the best. No regrets or anything.

And my breakup was horrid. I can't stop thinking about it. Il'l talk to him this Monday though.

[littlewhite]

Never broken up because I have never had one, but I really don't really care about it.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Breaking up is really emotional for me..I feel like sometimes its more emotional for me than the person I break up with...in middle school if I wanted to break up with someone I'd get someone to do to it for me or I'd tell the person do dump me & they'd be like okayy!!...but now I'm really picky about getting into relationships...cause the nexx one I want to really work out...ya knoo?..

[*Tainted Euphoria*]

It's always good to try to work things out, but if there's no more spark, then there's pretty much no point.

[annalucky]

Haha. Yeah. Stalked me until I moved.

How creepy. I'm currently with my first boyfriend, but when I think about a possible breakup, it's hard.

[alincute28]

i'm with my 1st bf too.. we have been for couple of years.. and breaking with him is my worst 'nightmare' that i have too face... i had fight regularly and sometimes we almost approaching my 'nightmare'....

dont worry... he is not meant for u.. u will find a better man soon

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

It's hard to break up with someone without hurting their feelings so much

[sheepy]

well at this point, i franky dont give about him anymore.

[pyrochick19770]

My last one was fast, quick & painless.
I never really liked him anyway.. so I decided to end it.
But now we totally hate each other.

[mzislandpinay]

hmm i only had one break up.. so i didn't vote.. cuz there's nothing to compare with that..

But wen he broke up with me.. i never knew that i was so "into" him and i creid it out for lyk three days.. but i mean i couldn't stop crying.. the tears just fell out .. ya knoe..

[x-klutzibabi-x]

I just broke up with my bf (now ex) today. He took it pretty easy and told me to have fun being single. Then all the waterworks went out when he came back to give me a necklace which was suppose to be saved for tomorrow, since it would've been our anniversary.