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 Aug 13 2005, 02:27 AM
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Well..
I had a boyfriend recently.. We dated for about seven months and he broke up with me.we promised to be friends and all but this one time i was soo angry i wrote in my xanga about like angry thoughts... and he got pissed off and just didnt talk to me since. I think i still might have feelings for him but when i try to talk to him he blocks me on msn and i see him and he stares at me and then walk away. I've tried e-mailing him asking to be friends and all but he just doesnt respond. Also.. He talks to my friends about me saying that hes just getting over me and all that.. and when I return to school he'll be in at least 6 of my classes Should I keep pushing for the friendship or should I just leave it as it is? |
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Aug 13 2005, 05:12 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 167,314 |
mm... well you shouldn't have wrote that in your xanga. i mean, any guy would get pissed off. anyway, are you sure you still have feelings for him? or are you just having trouble letting go?? if you still have feelings for him, talk to him face to face and admit it's your fault. even if you don't like him, it's better to get things sorted out so try to work things out. if he's still mad, just leave him alone...
[edit] i'm sorry, but truthfully, if you do like him, i don't think things would work out... he broke up with you, didn't he? maybe it's better just to be friends, but to do that, try to make him listen. or as i said before... leave him alone? 
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Aug 13 2005, 07:16 AM
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If he's going through that much trouble to avoid contact with you, it's pretty much a clear sign that you should leave it be. Too much more effort, and he might feel as if you're harrassing him.
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Aug 13 2005, 07:56 AM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
he obviously doesn't wanna be friends anymore. just leave him alone
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Aug 13 2005, 08:12 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think he's mad because he's trying to get over you and move on with his life but you keep popping up reminding him of the past.
just leave him alone, when he comes around and makes a fully recovery you two can probably patch things up again. |
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Aug 13 2005, 03:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
dont send him anything or try to talk to him for a while. if he wants to be friends he'll come back. and if he doesnt, it's his loss.
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Aug 13 2005, 04:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think you should just move on...wait for him to come to you
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Aug 13 2005, 04:12 PM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
ok well you should not have done what you did. no wonder he is pissed off. just walk up to him at school and be like im sorry that i did what i did and i hope you can forgive me and then see waht happens from there.
EDIT- if still nothing happens then just leave im alone he does not want ya 
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