YOUR definition of true love, ..obvious |
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 Aug 9 2005, 01:19 AM
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My definition would be to like something so strongly that there is no question or in your mind about it.
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Aug 9 2005, 08:37 AM
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 <3  Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
isn't there a topic on this before?
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Aug 9 2005, 10:57 AM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
^ yeah i've seen it but when i tried to search i was lost -_-
Love : an unexplicable feeling that transcends location and is something that connects people so strongly they are almost one person yeah weird definition but thats how i see it =) |
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Aug 9 2005, 11:09 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
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Aug 9 2005, 12:38 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Eh.. my definition of love is compatibility between two creatures. I think it's partly scientific as well. just when you feel like you have someone to be with unconditionally and feel comfortable with. Unfortunately.. I wouldn't know too accurately considering I've never been in true love. At least I don't think so.
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Aug 9 2005, 10:14 PM
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 ha ha ha. you're not funny. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,890 |
ok, so the title of the topic is the same but that wasn't what i was trying to figure out. my question was, is it true that if you can define love then you're not in love. so technically my topic wasn't really like this one ..i didn't want the definition.
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Aug 9 2005, 11:11 PM
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 My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
When you think about someone Night and Day
When you CANT stop thinking about them When you dream about a realationship with him When your stumoch flutters everytime you see him. When you cant find the right things to say around him. |
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Aug 10 2005, 02:52 PM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(xtreme_<3 @ Aug 9 2005, 10:14 PM) ok, so the title of the topic is the same but that wasn't what i was trying to figure out. my question was, is it true that if you can define love then you're not in love. so technically my topic wasn't really like this one ..i didn't want the definition.  Yet, people gave you definitions anyway. Thus, similar topics merged. And because you were, to quote you, "unclear" about what you wanted to ask, I merged it. What else seems to the problem? My response in the original thread was a quote from Oscar Wilde: To define is to limit. Love isn't supposed to be defined, else we limit it. So it's not necessarily true that if you can define love you're not in love, it could mean that there is a limit to your love. That would be my answer to your edited question. |
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Aug 10 2005, 02:58 PM
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QUOTE(RupertGrintluvr15 @ Aug 10 2005, 12:11 AM) When you think about someone Night and Day When you CANT stop thinking about them When you dream about a realationship with him When your stumoch flutters everytime you see him. When you cant find the right things to say around him. See i thought that was love too but its infatuation. |
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Aug 10 2005, 02:59 PM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(Elvis_IzBack @ Aug 10 2005, 2:58 PM) See i thought that was love too but its infatuation. Good one. |
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Aug 10 2005, 03:30 PM
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QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Jan 15 2005, 12:05 AM) Love should not be defined, because "to define is to limit" (Oscar Wilde), and love should not be limited. Oooh, I like that... that's so cute 
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Aug 10 2005, 03:33 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
Basically
LOVE: It`s a short word, easy 2 spell ,difficult 2 define, impossible 2 live without..... Love is something that is great when you`ve found it, and hurts when u lose it... |
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Aug 10 2005, 07:07 PM
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There is no true definition of love. I just think in general, it is basically a true commitment to someone. ^_^
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Aug 10 2005, 07:54 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
"IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO, IF IT COMES BACK IT WAS YOURS TO START IF IT DOESN'T, IT NEVER WAS".
i dont know if this helps! |
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Aug 31 2005, 10:57 PM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,620 |
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. |
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Sep 1 2005, 02:47 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 221,863 |
Just give a one liner about what you think LOVE is?? or may be u can share ur experiences as well and tell us what LOVE is?? What do u think??
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Sep 1 2005, 03:06 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
I guess you're new to CB, right?
In here, we try to avoid creating new topics that have been made before. Thus there is a search button. You can go to this topic to see the definition of love by other members: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=95948 |
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Sep 1 2005, 10:51 AM
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I think these definitions of love are great, but the only way you really know what it means is to feel it. Then you'll understand.
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Sep 27 2005, 06:20 AM
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In response to the recent topic of true love, I want to see what people's definitions of true love are. Mine is:
First of all, you have to be able to love yourself before you love anyone else, that is what I think. People have to be content with themselves before they can be content being with another human being. People without self-confidence most likely end up being DEPENDENT on the other person. They often mistake it that dependency for love when it's not. You should never have to say "I need this person". Need is a dependent word and there is no place for that in true love. This also leads to people who love only because it gives them an identity. These people say things like "What am I without them?" They're only looking for relationship because it gives them a place to be and an identity to assume. These people go crazy when someone leaves them; they start losing all senses of themselves; they lose all track of their lives. They instantly seek out any person who would take them. This isn't true love. My second point has to do with true love. When you truly love someone, you must be able to do that even when you're not with them. Just because someone decided not to be with you, it shouldn't take away the love you have for that person. And that love should always be there, forever. You have to be able to look back at that person after 10 years of no contact and still say you love them. Sure they may have changed but deep down they're the same person and if you truly love them, that's what you love, not the outer layer. Lastly, true love is by CHOICE. Falling in love isn't true love because it's not something you wanted to happen. If you can fall into love you can fall out of love. At first things may seem like love but it doesn't really develop until you've known that person very well. After you've seen all their faults, you can choose to love them or not and that's when it counts. You choose love, love doesn't choose you. Yeah it's kinda long and I don't expect anyone to read it but I'll read all of yours cause I'm like that. |
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Sep 27 2005, 07:45 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i think there's a topic on this but i might be wrong
edit:// http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...ition+true+love |
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Sep 27 2005, 08:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 246,385 |
Eeek...could I sworn I tried searching. Hope I'm not in trouble.
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Sep 30 2005, 11:07 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ I sure hope not. I "love" what you defined up there.
I haven't really thought about the fact that people who "need" someone else isn't really loving them, only depending. This point finally made me realize i'm not in love.  I like the "love by choice" idea. In the past, everyone's been saying "i fell in love with him just like that" but if you really think about it, it would be "i fell in love with his looks just like that" because you can only "love" someone by their looks in a split second. It takes more than that to know them and love them, right? |
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Sep 30 2005, 05:32 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
conan o brien is true love
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Sep 30 2005, 05:46 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
To me, my defintion [ sort of ]
Love cannot be defined. |
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Sep 30 2005, 06:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
True love is something that makes two people think they are pretty even when nobody else does. It also makes them sit close together on a bench even when there's plenty of room. It's something which makes two people very quiet when you are around. And when they think you're gone they talk about roses and dreams. And that's all I know about love until I grow up! -- Tommy, age 10
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