Viloence Is the Answer, well in my case anyways Options

[REBELnDISGUISE]

Oh..I though I mentioned that I was gonna hurt her...Ima have some other guys do it for me. I mean...they owe me a favor...and what a better way to repay me than to beat the crap outta Jennifer? Some of the guys here agree with the whole violence thing...So I may just go with that.

[maia_dc]

^ Whaaat? Seriously, stop with the violence idea. Because a couple people agree it's suddenly a good idea?
No.

And anyway, it's kinda sketchy getting some other people to "do it for you because they owe a favor." What are you, a mob boss?

[elaboratedream]

"violence is the last refuge for the incompetant"

I personally love violence, and think that this person sounds like she deserves a good beating, but there are other ways of getting revenge. put more thought into your revenge plan and ruin her in a more creative way.
I love revenge, I'm just evil like that... but resorting to violence for revenge is taking the easy way out... and it can get you in a lot of trouble... when you send people to beat someone up you're facing the possibility of jail time. Think about it, do you really want her to win like that?

what are you, a mob boss?

lmao, that is what that sounded like...

[maia_dc]

Never hit a girl? THAT'S why? Holy shit man, quit the doublestandards. Just because someone's a girl doesn't give them immunity to physical violence. In this post you're basically saying girls are weak, so they need the doublestandards to protect them.

Violence isn't always wrong. But in this case, it's not necessary.

But girls are weak. Women are significantly weaker than men; it's just a fact. Sooo there are always exceptions, but I appreciate the chivalry.

[FlipBoy20]

violence. it does feel good. it does remove the anger faster. but.. i dunno. it does work but it's immature.

[xtreme_<3]

oh wow, my bestfriend of 10 yrs backstabbed me, should i get people to beat her up too? you guys and this whole macho thing. so she backstabbed you, so what? at first i was hurt and very angry(about my bestfriend) but i would never in a millions years resort to violence. she hurt you emotionally so now you gonna hurt her physically? you know, i think you're being a coward. you don't know how to handle this betrayal that just came out of nowhere and you feel the need to get back at her for this betrayal. just take time to cool off, like maybe a few months and see how things go from there. if you're still angry which i understand completely since i know i'll never be over my similar problem, then i suggest you just grow up. forgive and forget. isn't that life isn't supposed be about(sorta)? if you're constantly holding grudges then life will become very troublesome and not that fun at all.

[illumineering]

Oh..I though I mentioned that I was gonna hurt her...Ima have some other guys do it for me. I mean...they owe me a favor...and what a better way to repay me than to beat the crap outta Jennifer? Some of the guys here agree with the whole violence thing...So I may just go with that.

That's really a chicken shit thing to do...have some guys beat up a girl for you because you can't deal with her yourself...wtf is your issue? If this is how you deal with problems on the internet, what are you like in the real world? You really need to put yourself in timeout before you create more problems for yourself.

You're being really foolish for following some guys who think violence is a solution. If you are really that much of a follower and need acceptance that badly, I would recommend getting counseling or some other professional help.