friends and boyfriends, Ugh. Someone help me. Options

[ashlierae__x]

Okay. So I met Zack about 2 months ago. We talked through computer and at work and stuff. Well then he asked if I would want to hang out with him. I said yes. Of course. So he invited me to his house. So me and acouple friends went down there w/ him and his friend. We just hung out. I liked him but he didn't know it. So we hung out for a couple days and I wrote in my xanga that I liked hiim but I didn't think that he liked me back. We were sitting together one night and he bent over and whispered in my ear. I like you too. So then things progressed from there. We started cuddling and stuff. Then we started kissing. We hung out for about 4 more days then he "hung out with his friends" and started ignoring me. He still calls me but he never wants to hang out. He always has other plans. Then I found out that he was with another girl. Which that doesn't bother me but the lying part does. He told me he was single and he didn't like this girl he likes me. But he acts completly diffrent sometimes. Like he gets mad if I hang out with other boys or talk to them. His bestfriend and me are really good friends too. && Since Zack doesn't hang out with me Dan does and he gets mad at me for calling Dan. Should I just wait or move on? heeelp me please.

[mai_z]

If he liked you he wouldn't be with another girl. Ignore the fact that he seems protective of you because it sounds like he just sounds possesive, it's retarded. If he actually cared, he would show it. All the time.Move on, this isn't the type of guy you want to be with.

[mouse_3k]

forget bout him he obviously is just lookin for booty and not a real relationship. I say instead of begging for him to stay, I say just pack his bag so it shows him that u could care less.

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

If he really liked you he would have broken up with that other girl. He sounds like a possesive jerk. You're allowed to call other guys. Just forget about him. He's not worth it.

[Ilaem]

Agree with above

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[ldy_kari]

agree with the above too
hes a self sentered jerk who thinks that just because you like him he can control you.
Tell him you dont want to be in a relation ship with a kiniving little prick and forget about him.

[ldy_kari]

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srry fer double postin'

[Paradox of Life]

Eh, he sounds kind of sweet and I wouldn't go to the assumption that he's cheating on you like the above statements. I know how you feel.

Talk to him if you want to pursue the relationship. Straighten things out.

[maia_dc]

You should move on. He isn't treating you right, and if this happens in just the beginning of a relationship, think how things will be when you get more involved.
Not too good.

[shortiiex]

that is so mean...he shouldn't be mad at you..it's his own fault
you just move on and find someone that won't lie and someone who will be there for you

[Chii]

move on, he's trying to use you as his back up.

[i can break]

Forget about him.

[demolished]

move on. He's hogging two girls at once.

[_sarcastic_]

you should just forget about him, he lied and is just using you as a back up just incase that other girl dumps him.
he's not worth your time.

[steezahh]

eww. thats wrong yes he probably is just looking for booty agreed with mouse_3k.

[aera]

if he liked you, then he wouldnt bewith another girl. he doesnt want you to be with other boys because hes scared of you doing what hes doing to you.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

What do you mean "with" another girl just hanging out or what? I agree with mouse_3k either way, move on. Obviously he has his eyes on someone else

[ashlierae__x]

Alrighty.

with another girl. hanging out && stuff.
he doesn't have sex. ; )

tonight.
I hung out with him and dan told me that he said him and nayla(the other girl) were dunzo. He also said he likes me alot. I want to work things out w/ him. I still kind of feel as I'm wasting my times.

&&

he isn't just looking for booty. not trying to be mean. He doesn't and I don't do that kind of stuff.

What should I do?

[ashlierae__x]

Alrighty.

with another girl. hanging out && stuff.
he doesn't have sex. ; )

tonight.
I hung out with him and dan told me that he said him and nayla(the other girl) were dunzo. He also said he likes me alot. I want to work things out w/ him. I still kind of feel as I'm wasting my times.

&&

he isn't just looking for booty. not trying to be mean. He doesn't and I don't do that kind of stuff.

What should I do?

[XtasyHigh]

If they were actually "dunzo" as yuu say, then that must mean they were something to begin with. I think yuu deserve better than that so I say trust yuur first instinct and dump his ungrateful ass.

[iiTsDAYNA]

move on. He's a jerk. Dan sounds sweet. If he really liked you you would know it.

[ashlierae__x]

that's the thing dan is soo sweet and funny and cute. lol.

i am just giving up on him.
like i still like him.but he's
going to have to make the
moves not me. I'm hanging
out w/ dan today
<3