help me!, love triangles and such Options

[elaboratedream]

I like this guy and right now he's one of my best friends and last night we were talking and he told me that he liked me... and he likes one of my best friends just as much. I don't think she likes him, but I'm not sure... she says she doesn't, but the way she acts sometimes would make me think differently. I don't want to mess up any friendships there... and that's only the beginning.

So today I was talking to another guy friend... and I was bored so I asked him if he had any secrets. He did, so I asked him what they were... then he started talking sorta weird... and although he refused to tell me his secret, I get the feeling he likes me too... but I don't like him.

He's good friends with the guy I like and I don't want to mess up that friendship, nor do I want to mess up my friendship with him.

So right now I don't know what to do... I want to ask the first guy out... but I don't want to mess up any friendships... I don't even know if it would mess up any friendships...

what should I do?

[x3chrissyx3]

Don't assume, you honestly just have to ask for opinions
Ask your girlfriend "do you think I'd be good with _______? I wanna ask him out" and do the same with your guy friend, I mean, they MAY lie, but you'd probably be able to tell.

[lovescream]

Well, that just seems so confusing and somewhat messed up. I don't really know what you should do. If you don't like that guy it's okay. I mean, you think that guy likes you so it's okay. But you KNOW that your guy friend likes you and he likes you back. If you guys get together, there might be a chance of ruining your friendship ESPECIALLY if your best friend likes him. >_> Plus, you call her your "best friend." I know I had a best friend and she'd always flirt with guys in front of me. I thought she was lying to me about her not liking him, but I guess she didn't think of it as "flirting" but more like "bothering." If she was a best friend, she'd be telling the truth, right? So I think you should make a move on your guy friend - ask him out or something.

[Paradox of Life]

Don't do anything. Wait for him to ask you out or just remain friends until things aren't so tight. I don't think you're ready for anything serious at the moment.

[Chii]

^^yeah, just stay friends.

that way you won't mess up any friendships, sh*tty relationships are easy to fall into but good friends are not.

[sheepy]

well first don't assume.
second, what good is a guy who likes 2 people at the same time?

[_sarcastic_]

just stay as friends, ask yourself is he worth maybe losing a friend over? after all he did tell you he likes two girls.
wait and see if he asks you out

[Ilaem]

Don't assume
Bad, bad

But anywho, sounds REAL messed
I was in a love triangle once
I loved jordan
Jordan loved Melissa
Melissa loved me
Hahahaha
SCREWED

Anyway, you shouldn't do with a guy who like 2 girls
AT ONCE
Keep the friendship killing to the minimum
And good luck

*thumbs up*

[elaboratedream]

I decided to just ask him out... I got sick of thinking so much.
so now we're going out!! this topic can be closed now... sorta pointless.

[XtasyHigh]

well, then good luck to yuu.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Good luck, mods please close this