Help Me, please take this poll! Input from any1! Options

[*mipadi*]

Key facts about relationships:

1. Relationships must be mutual. If both parties want to just be friends, it will work; if both parties want to be lovers, it will work; if one party wants to be more than friends, and the other wants to just be friends, it will not work--whether you say anything about your interest or not.
2. Why? Because most likely, there will always be stress on the relationship. Whenever you hang out, you'll always want more, even if you try to play it as "just being friends." The other person will sense the stress, too.
3. Solution? Tell her how you feel. Best-case scenario, she feels the same (or is willing to date and see what happens), and it works out. Worst-case, she isn't interested, and maybe you stop being friends--but as #2 points out, that might happen anyway.

[baby-girl2987]

i say tell her or at least talk about how u feel about each other and that way u can get a feel about how she feels about u

[shortiiex]

let your feelings out...if she doesn't feel the same way then wait

[JessBur1981]

I made another post about thoughts on life. Read that and maybe your answer is there.

[angelrevelation]

tell her. if she doesnt like you... she should be gracious and polite about the whole thing. things can go back to normal lots of the time

[xrytx]

ummmm.. i think u better do nothing but keep on as usual. perhaps she will tell u she falls for u someday!

[sweetest-emotion]

holy crap u sound like my ex-bf!! grr...we broke up because he said he "didn't want to ruin the relationship we have now", so we're "just friends" now cuz he's scared that sumthin's gonna happen where we never talk to each other. grr. got me pissed. if u luv her then GO FOR IT! i kno he luvs me, but he's scared. and ya never know what the end is gonna be like, we'll cross that road when we get to it...

[maia_dc]

Tell her how you feel about her, but don't put any pressure on her.

"I just want you to know that I've always really liked you," not "I like you. Do you like me?" That way your relationship won't be ruined, because she won't have to feel guilty. No matter what her answer is, try as hard as you can to remain close.

[xtreme_<3]

couldn't help noticing you spelled disappointed wrong. hehe but um not to be raining on your parade or anything but i can't help thinking you don't actually love her, call it instincts. because if you did, you wouldn't be asking us what to do, you'd have your own instincts to tell you. now, if you really love her, tell her. if you don't, then all you'll have are regrets that will always gnaw at you until you're in a pool of misery. if you want to wait a little bit before jeopardizing your friendship with her than give her subtle hints or try to see if she likes you back. if she doesn't like you, then it wasnt mean to be. you'll live. at first it'll hurt a lot and you'll feel like you want to die but you'll find someone better.

[lipstickvanityx]

tell her. maybe she'll tell you she likes you. or maybe... you could just hang out with her more than usual. maybe she'll get a hint... just don't annoy her. don't call her everyday unless she calls you everyday. haha its complicated but yeah...

[Paradox of Life]

Don't tell her anything at the moment because if she doesn't like you back, you're putting her in a bad position. Remain friends until you feel comfortable enough to tell her without so much hesitation or if she shows signs of 'liking' you back.

[raenbow*]

i fell in love this this friend of mine.. a guy, but it might relate to you... and we started going out and now its not working out so well. id say you should build up a very strong relationship as friends and better the chances of a closer relationship actually working. id really hate to lose this guy as a friend. i wish we were closer to begin with.