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 Jul 28 2005, 12:47 AM
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 ^-^  Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668  |
Problem solved
thanks for all the advice guys 
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Jul 28 2005, 12:51 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
well i guess your parents will start having to get used to you having some friends that are guys? it's bound to happen! just take it slow i guess!
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Jul 28 2005, 12:52 AM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Take note guys: She is unsure.
He already just flat out told you he doesn't have balls to tell you this in person. So, he sent an email. If you are unsure, then just say no. It will save you both the trouble. What guy likes someone after 2 days? Sounds like a fast one who want's to get in your pants. Personal Opinion mind you. |
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Jul 28 2005, 12:57 AM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
hmm
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Jul 28 2005, 09:55 AM
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 omigosh its jackie ;] Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,620 |
i`m with the people who commented before me. its a bit fast. you`ve only met him once, and he asked you through an EMAIL. thats even worse than an instant message. he`s unsure, you`re unsure. i think you should just say no and save yourselves the effort.
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Jul 28 2005, 01:14 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
If you don't like him in that way then tell him you don't & say no to him. Don't feel like you have to say yes just because he wants you to be his girlfriend.
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Jul 28 2005, 01:29 PM
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invite some of his friends and yours to go the movies with you guys. as soon as your mom gets used to the idea, she probably won't mind.
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Jul 28 2005, 01:49 PM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jul 28 2005, 10:29 AM) invite some of his friends and yours to go the movies with you guys. as soon as your mom gets used to the idea, she probably won't mind.  That's not a half bad idea. Although my friends would tease me non endlessly, it might be worth it. 
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Jul 28 2005, 01:56 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Communication, and friends.
Talk to your mom about it, so she wont make it a big to-do. and Someone already reccomended the friend idea. I would make it a nice big group date. It does seem a bit fast..but..If you are uncomfortable tell him that you wanna move at a slower pace. |
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Jul 28 2005, 01:59 PM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
Yea, build on the whole "friend" idea & see where that takes you.
It'll give you time to MAKE SURE that you really like the guy. 
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Jul 28 2005, 02:12 PM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 28 2005, 10:56 AM) Communication, and friends. Talk to your mom about it, so she wont make it a big to-do. and Someone already reccomended the friend idea. I would make it a nice big group date. It does seem a bit fast..but..If you are uncomfortable tell him that you wanna move at a slower pace. lmao, "big group date" hehe 
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Jul 28 2005, 09:27 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
lol u just met the guy and hes asking u to be his gf? he barely knows u...How about move on cause he can be a rapist or w/e.
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Jul 28 2005, 09:33 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Haha, I had trouble telling my mom too since I didn't have very many guy friends. I got my friend to BLURT it out.
 . Just ask her, it will be fine.I think you should wait awhile since you've only known him for a week. Get to know him better. |
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Jul 28 2005, 10:06 PM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
yes, I completely agree ---^ It's far too fast
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Jul 29 2005, 02:07 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Tell him that you are unsure about you guys getting together within the period that you guys has spent together. You guys has just spent one whole day together and now he says that he loves you and he wants to know if you are willing to go out with him. Think about it..
- For your mom part, I agree with you about you wondering what your mom thinks. Your mom may wonder about tons of stuff between you and him. Just discuss it with your mom if you are not afraid so. Don't rush things between you and him. If you rush, you don't know the ending of what is going to happen. You may produce problems between your family if you do that. ( thats my opinion ) |
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Jul 29 2005, 04:10 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Wow I'm in a really similar situation. I met a guy for the second time at my friends house and then we started making out and doing things I regret because we went way to fast, now he wants to see me again to go out with me and so far I have just avoided him, but there is only so much of that you could do. Anyway, sorry to go off on a tangent but, are your parents ok with you dating? Cause if they are you could just tell them that he is your boy friend if they ask you who the guy is once you get to the movie theater. But yea I suggest getting to know him first, whether it is with a group of people or just you and him (I learned that the hard way). Also, you say your friend knows him, so maybe you could talk to her about his personality and ask her for advice if her is a good guy to date or just to stay friends with. Goodluck =]
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Jul 29 2005, 07:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,641 |
i'd say the best thing would be to hang out with him and yours/his friends.. as someone mentioned above 'group date' :p ..... it'd let u know each other more.. and in company of others so you both will know how u are in general (its diff when u are alone)
n yeah going to his place n stuff.. esp if there wont be other friends around...i woudlnt say its such a great idea lolz@ at getting butterflies in the stomach and mum wont let him hang out - gotta love the kids! |
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Jul 29 2005, 08:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just say...you just want to be friends...and if we ever become more than friends..tne we'll just let it happen
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Jul 29 2005, 08:44 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
replying to your topic name -- its not too fast, its pretty normal.
if its been a week its actually pretty normal time for him to ask you out. just take it easy and wait until your ready to say yes. |
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Jul 29 2005, 11:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 797 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,144 |
From a guy's standpoint I suggest you talk on the phone with him and interact with him more so your parents naturally get to know his parents. When you feel right then just flow right into it. Don't rush things if you don't feel comfortable doing it because things might get out of control and be over before you get started.
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Jul 30 2005, 12:24 AM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
prob solved
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