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 Jul 18 2005, 01:42 AM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,812  |
I'm friends with this guy and I like him. I have known him for about a year. He sends mixed signals so it's hard to tell if he likes me or not. Could you please help me out, thanks?
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Jul 18 2005, 01:45 AM
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 URBZ rock Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,761 |
well i personally like it when the girls make the move, so i would say just tell him how you feel, and he likes it then go out have fun... but trust me, guys love a girl who makes the first move...
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Jul 18 2005, 01:46 AM
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 The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
omg same with me too!! but here's the advice that kinda made for myself.
Just play the game. Show him that you are intrested in him. Nut don't go too far into the game until yo0h knoe if he lyks you. Just play the game lyk flirt alot and talk to him and not just about lyk friends and drama talk to him about ur life and ur family. Ask him to go places with yo0h. And then wen yo0h feel comfortable ask him how he feels about yo0h. and then go on from there. But don't play the "hard to get" cuz boys are stupid(if a boy is reading.. sorrie..lol) cuz then they'll think that you don't lyk em. Just Play the game. Cuz only time will tell if you both have feelings for each other haha kidna long but i hope it helps |
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Jul 18 2005, 01:49 AM
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URBZ rock Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,761 |
boys are not stupid, actually it is hard to understand signs unless they are really convincing, so we just need more evidence, so just go up to him and say something sweet and make it worth his while... you will be dating in no time, trust me
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Jul 18 2005, 01:50 AM
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The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
okai wen i mean stupid.. it's not lyk stuid.. it's just.. lyk wut yo0h said... just put into one word.. well it'z my definiton.
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Jul 18 2005, 01:53 AM
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URBZ rock Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,761 |
well yeah, so basically, give him direct signals, DO NOT make him confused, because then he will try to understand you and end up dating another girl... just ease your way in: flirt, go to the library to study, talk, get to know everything about eachother... and when things are perfect ask him out and make it calm, say it medium, not too slow, not too fast... and when you do, pm me okay
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Jul 18 2005, 07:36 AM
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QUOTE(osidepinay33 @ Jul 18 2005, 2:46 AM) omg same with me too!! but here's the advice that kinda made for myself. Just play the game. Show him that you are intrested in him. Nut don't go too far into the game until yo0h knoe if he lyks you. Just play the game lyk flirt alot and talk to him and not just about lyk friends and drama talk to him about ur life and ur family. Ask him to go places with yo0h. And then wen yo0h feel comfortable ask him how he feels about yo0h. and then go on from there. But don't play the "hard to get" cuz boys are stupid(if a boy is reading.. sorrie..lol) cuz then they'll think that you don't lyk em. Just Play the game. Cuz only time will tell if you both have feelings for each other haha kidna long but i hope it helps  Here's a better idea: don't play the game. People always do this, and does it ever work? No. You want to get something started with this guy? Make some kind of move. Say to him something like, "Hey, I'm not doing anything on Friday, want to go see a movie?" or something like that. |
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Jul 18 2005, 09:55 AM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
YES! Finally someone gets it ^^. Just be straight foward...guessing isn't much fun.
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Jul 18 2005, 10:17 AM
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 not da vinci's mona lisa <3 Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,781 |
QUOTE(urbz @ Jul 18 2005, 1:45 AM) well i personally like it when the girls make the move, so i would say just tell him how you feel, and he likes it then go out have fun... but trust me, guys love a girl who makes the first move... that's pretty helpful. haha |
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Jul 18 2005, 10:42 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
how bout talking to him? [my story] this dude , that i also liked, kept doing the meanest things to me... it was so annoying & during the time i was with my bf, ex bf now... so one day in class [gym] he kept playing around with me... i finally had enough so with all my stength [im pretty weak] i tried to pin him against the wall..but he kind of got away, so i put him in a head lock... i asked him why he kept playing his games with me... why he kept teasing me... he was like "okay...im sorry, its just b/c i like you..." lol... so yeah just talk to him "or wrestle your way to get your answer" haha
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Jul 18 2005, 03:54 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,442 |
I would have to say ask him
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Jul 18 2005, 04:15 PM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
ehh, i wouldn't suggest "playing a game" just talk to him and try to see where things are going?
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Jul 18 2005, 04:39 PM
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 emaleth Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,513 |
spend some alone time with him
it does wonders. |
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Jul 28 2005, 11:57 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,812 |
thanks to all who posted and gave ideas, hes different from most guys, if u are to foward with him he doesnt like you. hes not that foward either tho, i straight out told him that i liked him, he didnt act differently and at the time or sometime before i had heard he liked me but nothing ever happened im not really sure what kind of signs to look for with him.
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Jul 29 2005, 01:38 AM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I've been off and on about posting a thread on my "Joshuas advice on women-Not your normal cheesy stuff".
Was that random? my bad. Girls locker room chica. |
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Jul 29 2005, 04:36 PM
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 I intend to live forever-so far, so good. Group: Member Posts: 2,820 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,137 |
well if your really scared to ask a guy out [lol like me]
then maybe you could ask one of his closer friends  .. like snoop around and ask them.. so who does * likemaybe they have an answer but thats probably the more difficult way i suggest you be brave and just ask him! if he doesnt he'll say no and life will go on, but if he does.. then who knows you guys could get married sum day!! |
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Jul 29 2005, 04:56 PM
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 Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 18 2005, 11:42 AM) how bout talking to him? [my story] this dude , that i also liked, kept doing the meanest things to me... it was so annoying & during the time i was with my bf, ex bf now... so one day in class [gym] he kept playing around with me... i finally had enough so with all my stength [im pretty weak] i tried to pin him against the wall..but he kind of got away, so i put him in a head lock... i asked him why he kept playing his games with me... why he kept teasing me... he was like "okay...im sorry, its just b/c i like you..." lol... so yeah just talk to him "or wrestle your way to get your answer" haha hahaha^. =] well,Ii think you should just get to know him more. The guy I like is my best guy friend, so we know each other really well, but he's and idiot that comes to things like this. Anyway, I think you should spend more time with him. =] |
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Jul 29 2005, 05:07 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 18 2005, 7:36 AM) Here's a better idea: don't play the game. People always do this, and does it ever work? No. You want to get something started with this guy? Make some kind of move. Say to him something like, "Hey, I'm not doing anything on Friday, want to go see a movie?" or something like that. My god YES! What he said. Its not THAT hard. |
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