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 Jul 29 2005, 09:30 AM
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 Super Junior<3  Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560  |
Heh. My best guy friend has 2 sisters. I'm friends with his older sister but his lil sis just plain hates me. I don't know why though, I never did anything to make her hate me. Could it be because she's just too overprotective of her brother(since she thinks that I like him)? X.x help would be much appreciated. =]
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Jul 29 2005, 09:34 AM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
Is the lil sis older then the brother? Or is it it lil sis, bro, older sis?
Anyway, like you said she might be overprotective if she's older then him (or younger) or maybe there's just no reason. Maybe she heard some things about you? The best way I think would just be talking to her and finding out why she dislikes you |
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Jul 29 2005, 09:49 AM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
It's his little sister. And she is 9 or 10. gahhhh...jealousy because I hang out with him..? X.x
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Jul 29 2005, 10:10 AM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Yes, it's definetly jealousy. She doesn't want you to take her brother's attention away from her.
Actually, that's kinda cute. Hahaa.. |
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Jul 29 2005, 10:20 AM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
really? gahh...she must hate me alot then...since she spammed my xanga. X.x
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Jul 29 2005, 11:38 AM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Probally she hates you because you are taking her brother attention away from her. Maybe she was really close to her brother before, and then suddenly when you became friends with him, her brother no longer pay attention to her. Ask her why maybe? And talk to him and ask him why she might hate you so much..
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Jul 29 2005, 12:16 PM
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 she's like tacos on a tuesday morning =) Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,283 |
maybe she thinks you're taking her brother away from her. maybe you could try including her in a few things. that way she'll be more open with you.
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Jul 29 2005, 02:29 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
well, i've only seen her once, when she came afterschool. but...umm...i guess..i could ask her...X.x thanks for the advice. so its basically just jealousy?
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Jul 29 2005, 02:32 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Like everyone said, jealousy. He's her older brother, it's a pretty important person in her life, basically she's depending on him to protect her in a way. She's just afraid that you might take some of that protection and care away from her. My boyfriend's sister is kinda like that. She doesn't hate me, but she doesn't like me. I"ve only ever talked to her on msn, and I haven't said or done anything to her. O well, just be nice to her, and make sure not to take her big brother away from her
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Jul 29 2005, 03:46 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
thanks for the advice...=]
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Jul 30 2005, 04:20 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i think she hates you because.. maybe she's jealous of you? i dont know. oh and i sometimes heard that it brings a girl down when another girl comes into the scene.
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Jul 30 2005, 04:33 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
She's a kid. Just ignore her when she's nasty and be nice to her other times.
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Jul 31 2005, 11:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
many peopel have werid reason, she is either over protective, she hates how you look, you did something to her that you can't remember, ask the older sister to ask the little sister her problem with you
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Jul 31 2005, 12:53 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
she hates you cos your getting her brothers attention.
im like that with my brother. if any female tries to hang out with him a lot im always sticking around nagging at her tryna see whatsup. its just cos im protective of him, and hes if not worse the exact same with me. i guess shes just trying to see if your "good enough" for what she thinks her brother deserves. dont worry too much about it. |
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Jul 31 2005, 02:37 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
Thanks. =] yeah, i asked the older sister. she said she doesnt hate me, its just that she's suspicious.....><;;;
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Jul 31 2005, 02:45 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
QUOTE(xbloostarx @ Jul 29 2005, 10:30 AM) Could it be because she's just too overprotective of her brother(since she thinks that I like him)?  it could be... i know alot of people like that. my best opinion to you is to just ignore it for a while... |
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Jul 31 2005, 07:11 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
thanks =]
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Jul 31 2005, 07:28 PM
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 i honk for centaurs Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,983 |
My little sister usually hates my friends, even though she doesn't seem to like me much....but my best friend and I think it's because she's jealous of other people getting attention from me, even if it's subconsciosly, and she's afraid she'll never see me again. Or something like that.
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Aug 1 2005, 12:11 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
RAWR. gahhh...X.x she thinks that i'll take him away from her? WTH??
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Aug 2 2005, 10:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
ASK HER! sheesh... not to be mean, but we're in the girls head!... just ask her why...
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Aug 2 2005, 12:29 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Okay, so you know the reason she hates you. She's jealous. You should try to include her sometimes, if you guys are hanging out. You might want to talk to her. Ask her what the problem is and try to explain you're not trying to steal her big brother away from her.
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Aug 2 2005, 02:21 PM
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 Mr.Charismatic Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,383 |
be nice to her... do her hair? go on a date and take her along
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Aug 2 2005, 02:31 PM
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 .:.Da Kid Vash.:. Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,945 |
jealousy thats all i have to say....she is scared that ull take her place in his life...
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Aug 2 2005, 05:41 PM
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Super Junior<3 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,560 |
go on a date and take her along? i'm not going out with her bro. X.x
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