friend's ex dilema, what to do |
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 Jul 29 2005, 10:09 AM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,199  |
ok one of my friends used to date this one guy. trust me, she liked him ALOT.
 lol. they went out for about 4 months and i guess it just went downhill and he broke up with her. then about 5 months later, he started calling her again and they kinda re-hooked up. [she doesn't wanna admit that they did the whole friends with benefits thing, but from what she'd been telling me, thats exactly what they did] and so that only lasted about 2 weeks and shes all obsessed over him again. i understand where shes coming from..not being able to get over her ex so easily, but do you think giving the relationship another shot is the thing to do? should she tell him how she feels? im kinda going through the same thing. 
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Jul 29 2005, 01:28 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,199 |
anybody?!
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Jul 29 2005, 02:01 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
Please don't double post. And to answer your question, I think they should. If they like each other o_o and their like kissing each other but their JUST friends, you might as well be together. And doesn't he know how she feels about him already?
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Jul 29 2005, 02:34 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I know you're new, but no double posting.
It's possible that she never got over him in the first place, and the friends with benifits thing just sparked up her feelings for him again. I'm all for the second chances thing, but each situation is different, yours could be entirely different from hers. |
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Jul 29 2005, 06:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
no... theres always a reason for breaking up... i learned my lesson after i got back with my ex bf, 6 times... i moved on and ot a better life with my new bf... let your friend know that thre are many fishes in the sea... [many boys out there to like, not only him] =)
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Jul 29 2005, 06:53 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 29 2005, 7:30 PM) no... theres always a reason for breaking up... i learned my lesson after i got back with my ex bf, 6 times... i moved on and ot a better life with my new bf... let your friend know that thre are many fishes in the sea... [many boys out there to like, not only him] =)  exactly, the person is your ex for a reason, like if everything was all cool then why did you break up in the first place? your friend needs to take a giant step back and look at the relationship unbiased. she needs to see it the way i see it. they went out and everything was fine then it all spiralled down into the toilet, then they reconnect and he has his way with her and leaves her. this isn't a nice guy, he used her with that friends with benefits crap. is this what she really wants? to chase after some guy who will just use her? |
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Jul 29 2005, 09:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
YUP!
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