cB counciling, it would be a great idea.-jason Options

[demolished]

It's better to let the mod's duty to be the same.

- Mod would not be a good idea to council people because ..

too much pressure
too much work
not worth it
stressful
more chances of heart attack
stronger pounding heart occur
fusteration occur
etc ..

- abby advice is hardly active. why depend on her/him/it?


Of course, councilers would be nice. i'm with you.

[*Azarel*]

^ HAHAHA. WHAT KIND OF IDIOT ARE YOU?? "MORE CHANCES OF HEART ATTACK?" ROFL. And Advice Abby is active monthly, kthx.

I f**king have a life, so shut up for once.

That's cute. It's also the reason I hate twelve-year-olds; no logic.

(22:07:30) kangsta4LIFE XD: anna, not to be rude or anything but u know the cb counseling topic I made? I was just seeing if people would think if its a great idea that would help..I didnt make it cuz I have no life..
(22:07:31) kangsta4LIFE XD: -_-

Funny, isn't it? That he's utterly rude in his post and then apologizes when he's being polite?

Honestly, though, online counseling is stupid; if you seriously have problems that require counseling, you shouldn't even be online. Let's be practical now: if this were put into effect, exactly what would said "counselors" do? Members are bashed on for making "stupid topics, stupid posts, racial remarks, etc." because they deserve it. Mods know to verbally warn such bashers.

And why not just put your little 'idea' into effect without a thread about it? I'm positively sure that admin will not create another member group just for your idea. Self-proclaimed counselers can do their little thing if they want, but the easiest thing to do if you're annoyed with cB members is to either leave or talk to said members.



God, this idea is so impractical.

[*basick*]

^ HAHAHA. WHAT KIND OF IDIOT ARE YOU?? "MORE CHANCES OF HEART ATTACK?" ROFL. And Advice Abby is active monthly, kthx.

That's cute. It's also the reason I hate twelve-year-olds; no logic.

(22:07:30) kangsta4LIFE XD: anna, not to be rude or anything but u know the cb counseling topic I made? I was just seeing if people would think if its a great idea that would help..I didnt make it cuz I have no life..
(22:07:31) kangsta4LIFE XD: -_-

Funny, isn't it? That he's utterly rude in his post and then apologizes when he's being polite?

you was the one that started it, telling him to get a life... funny how utterly rude you were now you tryna make it like jason is a psycho or something... speakin of being utterly rude.. was that comment to aznxboredxperson necesary? SMH.

[*Azarel*]

you was the one that started it, telling him to get a life... funny how utterly rude you were now you tryna make it like jason is a psycho or something... speakin of being utterly rude.. was that comment to aznxboredxperson necesary? SMH.

Like I said before, if you're seeking this sort of help for your problems, you probably shouldn't even be online. People looking for said help should get off of their lazy asses and go out to get it instead of asking inexperienced teens for their 'advice.'

And, rofl, I never said I wasn't rude, and quite frankly, I'm really not going to change that just because it offends someone. I was just pointing out the irony that Jason was apologizing for stupid shit.

edit- AND LOL. "YOU WAS" HAHA, OH STEVEN, YOU SO GANGSTA, YOU IN DA HOOD. HAHAHAHA. You're from Cupertino, one of the richer cities in the area. Stop e-thugging.

[*basick*]

what am i doing? i am just defending jason who you are bashing on for no reason... you honestly need to get a life.. get off your pc and stop catching feelings onlines... typing 2 page long FAQs for createblog, a recipe list, cb news, buttons list... and you calling jason a loser? hahaha wow you are pathetic... with all that time you have doin this online, take some time to brush your teeth or something.. chelsea clinton lookalike

funny you call me an e-thug.. i doubt you are half as rude and tactless in real life as you are here.. while i am not sayin anything extreme or nothing you the one attacking complete strangers.. its sad

xso0ojo0dilicio: hi annaa
antanAZAREL: You know what I f**king hate?
antanAZAREL: When I come into chat, and shits I don't even know address me by my name.
antanAZAREL: LIKE YOU.
antanAZAREL: GOD. f**king. DAMN.
xso0ojo0dilicio: o sory then i'lll call u azarel.
antanAZAREL: No. Don't even talk to me.

if anybody needs a counsellor on this site its you.. and if anybody needs some crest whitening strips.. its also you

[*Azarel*]

what am i doing? i am just defending jason who you are bashing on for no reason... you honestly need to get a life.. get off your pc and stop catching feelings onlines... typing 2 page long FAQs for createblog, a recipe list, cb news, buttons list... and you calling jason a loser? hahaha wow you are pathetic... with all that time you have doin this online, take some time to brush your teeth or something.. chelsea clinton lookalike

So I wasn't going to sink to your level and post, but I will just one more time anyway. You get under my skin, Steven, you really fucking do, despite however much I hate to admit it. Good for you that you get satisfaction out of doing stupid shit. Good for you that you think you're the shit. You're not above anyone - nor am I - but you just so love to think you are. I'm not the only pathetic one, dear. You are too.

And when you say "bash for no reason," when is there ever reason to bash? Exactly. There's not - you're just being a hypocrite when you say that I'm doing it for no reason - because what reason do you have? Since when have you ever been Mr. Righteous? Never, so you have no room to talk shit.

And at least I don't look like a fucking retard who can't close my mouth in my pictures like you do. Watch your ass, bitch. Cupertino High isn't that big. I'm done with you; don't think I'm backing down, I'm just sick of your bullshit. I'm not degrading myself any further for you.

[*basick*]

Watch your ass, bitch. Cupertino High isn't that big. I'm done with you; don't think I'm backing down, I'm just sick of your bullshit. I'm not degrading myself any further for you.

speaking of e-thugs... hahahaha

[hi-C]

Okay, y'all, chill out. Can you please handle this with PMs or instant messaging?

[*basick*]

this is no issue carrie

she attacked me out of the blue and i replied... back to counseling lol

[hi-C]

Yes, back to counseling.

I actually don't think it's that bad of an idea. And as easy as it is to say "Don't let internet beef get to you," "stop coming to a site," people have a natural need to be liked, or at least accepted somewhat, no matter the setting, so it's hard to just let things go. However, I don't think we need a special member group devoted to counseling. Perhaps some volunteers from People staff (since they're in and around the community a lot more) to act as peer mediators?

[demolished]

puwahahahaha.

^ HAHAHA. WHAT KIND OF IDIOT ARE YOU?? "MORE CHANCES OF HEART ATTACK?" ROFL. And Advice Abby is active monthly, kthx.

That's cute. It's also the reason I hate twelve-year-olds; no logic.

(22:07:30) kangsta4LIFE XD: anna, not to be rude or anything but u know the cb counseling topic I made? I was just seeing if people would think if its a great idea that would help..I didnt make it cuz I have no life..
(22:07:31) kangsta4LIFE XD: -_-

Funny, isn't it? That he's utterly rude in his post and then apologizes when he's being polite?

Honestly, though, online counseling is stupid; if you seriously have problems that require counseling, you shouldn't even be online. Let's be practical now: if this were put into effect, exactly what would said "counselors" do? Members are bashed on for making "stupid topics, stupid posts, racial remarks, etc." because they deserve it. Mods know to verbally warn such bashers.

And why not just put your little 'idea' into effect without a thread about it? I'm positively sure that admin will not create another member group just for your idea. Self-proclaimed counselers can do their little thing if they want, but the easiest thing to do if you're annoyed with cB members is to either leave or talk to said members.



God, this idea is so impractical.

shut the f**k up witht he smarty talk. god, you pissed me off every freaking remarks you make. Now, you pissed me off even more when i'm already in bad mood. i know you dont give a shit but you get a bit over reacted.

i can see you have bad taste in kids but DEAL WITH IT. I wonder is .. that how you solve your problem ?

[*mzkandi*]

shut the f**k up witht he smarty talk. god, you pissed me off every freaking remarks you make. Now, you pissed me off even more when i'm already in bad mood.  i know you dont give a shit but you get a bit over reacted.

first off, youre late and second pm is there for a reason buddy

Back to counseling....I'm not care for the idea, helping is great but I dont think it'll work IMO

[*Azarel*]

shut the f**k up witht he smarty talk.    god, you pissed me off every freaking remarks you make. Now, you pissed me off even more when i'm already in bad mood.  i know you dont give a shit but you get a bit over reacted.

i can see you have bad taste in kids but DEAL WITH IT. I wonder is ..  that how you solve your problem ? 

Learn to speak English properly before replying, you stupid fuck.

[demolished]

0h, wHy yOu cArE? do you need glasses?

oh. i'm really soorrrrry. I know you like to be the boss of grammar and start cussing shit at people. =D


wahh wahh .. you're mean mommy .. mommy .. mommy .. MOMMMMYYY .. MOMMY .. WAHH *cries*



oh annaa, i'm boredD ..

o hey areal .. !! oh hiyaaAaaAa !!

[*disco infiltrator*]

Steven, Anna, and aznxboredxperson, this is your verbal warning. Take it to PM or AIM or something else that ends with an M (standing for message).

I actually don't think it's that bad of an idea. And as easy as it is to say "Don't let internet beef get to you," "stop coming to a site," people have a natural need to be liked, or at least accepted somewhat, no matter the setting, so it's hard to just let things go. However, I don't think we need a special member group devoted to counseling. Perhaps some volunteers from People staff (since they're in and around the community a lot more) to act as peer mediators?

Well, we're always here if people wanna PM us. I don't think there needs to be certain special people; members can PM us asking for help or whatever anytime they want.

[*basick*]

not to be rude or anything.. and this is sort of a weird question .. but when you name names why am i always first? its not alphabetical order... not whoever posted first order...

maybe i should go to sleep

[*disco infiltrator*]

I don't know, you just popped up first in my head. Does it matter?

[*basick*]

no thats why im going to bed lol

[Spirited Away]

This is close to a debate so let me break this down to make things as easy to understand as possible for those who is confused.

It's better to let the mod's duty to be the same.
- Mod would not be a good idea to council people because ..

too much pressure
        too much work
        not worth it
        stressful
        more chances of heart attack
        stronger pounding heart occur
        fusteration occur
        etc ..

First, who are you to say we have "too much pressure"? Have you ever been a mod? I thought not, then how would you know if it's "too much work", "stressful"... etc?

Second, I'm sorry but those have got to be the saddest compilation of "evidence" or "proof" I've ever seen. Why? Though not all moderators may want to counsel, a few of us wouldn't mind because "People Staff" are here to communicate with members. It's already one of our job description.

Third, if you need someone to get you through all your life's problem, then you either need a friend (on or off cB), or a shrink. Hint: the former is the more cost-friendly alternative.

abby advice is hardly active. why depend on her/him/it?
Of course, councilers would be nice. i'm with you.

What do you mean Abby is hardly active? You want someone to solve your problem for you, but you want it RIGHT AWAY? Wow, life doesn't work that way. When you were conceived, your parents had to wait 9 months for you.

Abby is featured on cBn each month. As much as she would like to be more active, cBn currently only runs once a month so it's not possible for her. It's not like she doesn't respond to her mails. She gives her response to us now on a monthly basis like we've agreed on. If she fails to do so, then sure, she's not dependable, but so far, she's pretty dependable to me.

Maybe you're too young to understand what dependability is, but don't use your ignorance to judge others harshly.

[*mzkandi*]

^

Couldnt have said it better.

[demolished]

i was playing around. puwahahaha.


[quote=mzkandi,Jul 29 2005, 6:26 AM]
^

Couldnt have said it better.

[/quote]


you're telling only me about my problems?


"No wonder .."

[QUOTE]This is close to a debate so let me break this down to make things as easy to understand as possible for those who is confused.
First, who are you to say we have "too much pressure"? Have you ever been a mod? I thought not, then how would you know if it's "too much work", "stressful"... etc?

Second, I'm sorry but those have got to be the saddest compilation of "evidence" or "proof" I've ever seen. Why? Though not all moderators may want to counsel, a few of us wouldn't mind because "People Staff" are here to communicate with members. It's already one of our job description. [/QUOTE]

But i'm just posting my thoughts. Well, if it's okay with the mod about counciling then the mod do not have to belive what i say.



[QUOTE]Third, if you need someone to get you through all your life's problem, then you either need a friend (on or off cB), or a shrink. Hint: the former is the more cost-friendly alternative. [/QUOTE]

i dont think i need one.

[QUOTE]What do you mean Abby is hardly active? You want someone to solve your problem for you, but you want it RIGHT AWAY? Wow, life doesn't work that way. When you were conceived, your parents had to wait 9 months for you.
Abby is featured on cBn each month. As much as she would like to be more active, cBn currently only runs once a month so it's not possible for her. It's not like she doesn't respond to her mails. She gives her response to us now on a monthly basis like we've agreed on. If she fails to do so, then sure, she's not dependable, but so far, she's pretty dependable to me. [/QUOTE]

I dont see her posting every month anymore. Do you?


Maybe you're too young to understand what dependability is, but don't use your ignorance to judge others harshly.

[/quote]

i was being ignorant? how?
i mean, i dont see her posting in her own thread in relationship forum

[*disco infiltrator*]

Um, did you read what Fae said? Perhaps she doesn't post in that thread because she works for the CB newspaper now and every time a new issue comes out, her respsonses are there.

[demolished]

hm. a few responses? Does that count as counciling members for those need help on cB.



wait .. she's cBnews or cBnews asked her to feature someone's mail.

[*basick*]

hm. a few responses?  Does that count as counciling members for those need help on cB. 
wait ..    she's cBnews or cBnews asked her to feature someone's mail.

i believe advice abby does a feature in cBnews every issue where she answers select questions sent to her.

[juliar]

Yay, fun.
You can really talk to anyone that you figure is a good person and wants to talk to you.
What if that counselor doesn't acutally er...like you at all? THen what ? Huh?