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 Feb 8 2005, 05:29 PM
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I usually don't hold a grudge but when I do, I really REALLY have something against that person for a very long time.
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Feb 8 2005, 08:32 PM
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a bit of both.
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Jul 28 2005, 11:05 PM
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The American version sucked, and the Japanese one was okay.
Anyway, that's not what this topic is about. Do you hold grudges for a long time? How quick are you to forgive? As for myself, it's really easy for me to forgive someone. I really hate that, but it's hard to continue holding a grudge for long, especially when the fight is over between us or anything. Whenever I have a fight, I always tell myself something like, "I HATE her. I'll never talk to her again, I can't believe I was friends with that b*tch." But after an apology or like...a talk or anything, I'm over it. You guys? |
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Jul 28 2005, 11:08 PM
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It depends. Usually I don't hold a grudge for very long - especially if it's a first offense. But when I give people way too many chances and they fail each one of them, that's when I hold a grudge on them for a long long time.
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Jul 28 2005, 11:09 PM
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trust me, im fightin temptations. Group: Member Posts: 399 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,414 |
no not really, but for some special cases i do.
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Jul 28 2005, 11:21 PM
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No, I don't like holding grudges.
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Jul 28 2005, 11:30 PM
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I try..but then I give in..
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Jul 28 2005, 11:43 PM
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Yeah.. .i'm reallly bad at that... i don't forgive people easily ..and i really need to work on that ... i've lost so many firends in the past because i never LET GO of "grudges" that i have against them ...u know?
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Jul 29 2005, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(barelyy_coherent @ Jul 29 2005, 12:08 AM) It depends. Usually I don't hold a grudge for very long - especially if it's a first offense. But when I give people way too many chances and they fail each one of them, that's when I hold a grudge on them for a long long time.  same here |
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Jul 29 2005, 12:15 AM
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It really depends on a situation.
If someone push it waaay too far, i'll hold a grudge for a long time. Untill i can revenge or shove in their face. |
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Jul 29 2005, 12:28 AM
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http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=60615
Search feature, kthx. |
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Jul 29 2005, 12:34 AM
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Errm...It really depends what the person/s did.
I don't think I'm really forgiving. So I'll either forgive you after a period of time. Or QUOTE i can revenge or shove it in their face
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Jul 29 2005, 12:38 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 28 2005, 10:28 PM) I searched! I searched "grudges" and then I tried "forgive" but neither of them had results turn up. You can't even make a topic these days without having a duplicate of it around somewhere... |
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Jul 29 2005, 12:48 AM
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QUOTE(ApocalypseAelis @ Jul 28 2005, 10:38 PM) I searched! I searched "grudges" and then I tried "forgive" but neither of them had results turn up. You can't even make a topic these days without having a duplicate of it around somewhere... You didn't search correctly. Step two. 'kay.http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=82875 Step Two: Find what you are looking for. Type in your key phrase/words in the box named "Enter a keyword or phrase". Then, this is probably the step most of you miss, go down to where is says "Search posts from... and chose ANY DATE. This will show any topic that has to do with what you searched for. |
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Jul 29 2005, 12:55 AM
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its scaryy
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Jul 29 2005, 01:25 AM
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oooooh, I like this question.
I have a hard time letting go of things, so yes, I do hold grudges for a long time. But eventually, I let go and am able to forgive. Or I just act fake--I know, it's bad. I find that I am really quick to forgive guys, than girls. I don't know.. btw, the American version scared the living crap out of me. 
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Jul 29 2005, 01:27 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
No. I don't get mad, I get even.
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Jul 29 2005, 01:28 AM
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I forgive person easily. But... when I'm not in a good mood, I don't forgive them.
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Jul 29 2005, 01:30 AM
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i think it depends on what the person did/what the problem is. i can stay mad a long time, but i can also forgive within the day; so...
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Jul 29 2005, 02:12 AM
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merged
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Jul 29 2005, 04:00 AM
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I hold grudges against people I don't liek, because they piss me off from the beginning already -.-
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Jul 29 2005, 10:26 AM
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I can't hold a grudge. If my sister and I get into a fight over something stupid.. usually after 3 minutes of screaming at eachother we make up. I can't stand holding grudges. I'd rather just have peace with the person.
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Jul 29 2005, 10:27 AM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
I don't hold grudges, I just hate certain people for almost no reason.
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Jul 29 2005, 11:13 AM
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i forgive but never forget.
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Jul 29 2005, 11:54 AM
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 sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
if its just a small thing and they apologized then i forgive and forget. but if its a BIG thing that they did and they still apologized i forgive them but sometimes i can still hold a grudge.
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