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 Jul 27 2005, 06:52 PM
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im thinker than you smart i am.  Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,093  |
umm this may seem kinda weird but i just wanna know if anyone feels the same. ok lol like when i see a spoiled kid, i start crying. mostly because im thinking how hard it would be for the parent. a few days ago i went into a pony keg with a friend, and there was a girl in there yelling at her mom and crying and sayin "mommy i hate you" and stuff becasue her mom didn't buy her starburst. it just...made me quiet for a while and for some reason i like...couldn't talk. is this a phobia or something???lol that wud b some weird phobia. cuz im weird. but like, the other day i watched pinnochio, the non-aniamted version, (lol) and in the beginning there are all these kids going to a toy shop asking for a million of things and crying when their parents dont want them and dont want to pay. i mean...these were greedy kids. i was crying, and nobody else felt the same way i did. also, my grandparents apoil me, and i absolutely HATE it. i ahte the feeling that theyre giving me all this andya dn giving me thigns when id rather jsut be tlaking to them and aslo when kdis in porer countries dont ever get treated liek this. half of u r probably like, jeez this girl is stupid and weird, but i jsut want to know if this is normal.. errr or WHY am i being like this????lol sry that was long/
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Jul 28 2005, 02:29 AM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
I think you responded that way because it stirred a memory of an experience or something else that you associated with it. You might have been relieving stress or something that you haven't dealt with grabbed you when you saw that happening. I've had that happen to me, too. I get even more emotional than that sometimes when I see kids that are really sick from cancer because of the memory of my treatment. I do that sometimes when I see extreme abuse, neglect, incest...stuff that happens to kids that they didn't cause.
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Jul 28 2005, 03:09 AM
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I KNOW. Little kids who are spoiled piss me off sooo much and I feel so bad for the parent. But then, at the same time, I get mad at the parent for spoiling them, even though it's not their fault. I don't cry though.. it just makes me think of how spoiled I was as a kid. Except when I was little, if my parents got me something that I had to cry or get mad about to get, I would feel sooo guilty I'd give it back immediately.
Some people really DONT know the value of money though.. Ever since I started working with my friend this summer, I feel so guilty accepting my parent's money because they worked so hard for it and I just SPEND it. Bleh. And those kids are going to grow up with no one liking them because they're so used to getting what they want and they're NOT gonna get it in the real world. |
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Jul 28 2005, 08:02 AM
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Yes, it is VERY weird. Let's be honest, it is. U crying when looking at spoilt kids makes you seem spoilt. You're crying for no reason. Get over it. Rich kids get what they want, and that's the way it is.
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Jul 28 2005, 09:59 AM
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 I am tako <3. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,052 |
QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Jul 28 2005, 11:36 AM) Who cares how hard it would be for the parent? It's their fault they spoiled them.  true, like my little brother. you can feel sorry for the parenst but its no use, its their fault anyway. |
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Jul 28 2005, 11:35 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
uh...mayber you are just really sensative.
 but whenever i see spoiled kids, i just get mad because i literally want to beat them; they are SOOO anoying. >< |
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Jul 28 2005, 02:30 PM
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 It's anything but cute. Group: Member Posts: 403 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 185,571 |
Ok...I'm spoiled...and I don't act like that.
It all comes down to whether or not they are grateful for what they recieve... I'm happy for everything I have and I cherish it all. And if they aren't thats the parents' fault for letting their child walk all over them. They need to take charge. But I don't think crying is necessary... |
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Jul 28 2005, 03:51 PM
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maybe you just have feelings for everyone/like to help people.
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Jul 28 2005, 06:43 PM
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Mostly everyone wants and whines for at least something.
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Jul 28 2005, 07:54 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
You're very very very deep and sensitive on those stuff. Wow I can never do that. I would just get mad at those spoiled kids and say poor parents.
But anyways in the last sentences of your speech. Umm... lots of spelling corrections needed to do. |
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Jul 30 2005, 07:36 PM
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 My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
its normal to want to be spoiled...and enjoy being spoiled.
you should enjoy it while it lasts. if they start thinking you dont want to be spoiled..it might hurt their feelings. its a sign of you being their favorite granddaughter..hehe i enjoy it  i hate the kind of spoiled kids like the ones on MTVs SWEET SIXTEEN or Laguna beach the ones that could get whatever they want like 600 dollars pair of shoes, when they could buy much better stuff |
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