1st impression on Dates .., is it everything on a guy or girl |
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1st impression on Dates .., is it everything on a guy or girl |
Jul 26 2005, 07:00 PM
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![]() what do you think it says....if so obvious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
Do you think 1st Impressions on a date are important and should be considered highly recognized by most people ?
i dont know what to say ....sometimes 1st impression is a good thing , youll most likely be happy on your first date . However , sometimes it take time in getting to know someone the 1st time ....and usually people who believes in 1st impression usually blows off people who , if they knew each other a little longer , would have the same likings from them .....1st impression can be a carless mistake for a guy/girl who had just blown someone ....they could have missed someone who is truly special . What do you guys think ? i have no preference ...lol.. |
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Jul 26 2005, 07:13 PM
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think first impression are really important...everyone always remembers the thing that happens first, such as the first thing my firts ex said to me, "do you like dogs?"
a date is like an audition, everyone has one special thing they look for in someone and if you don't portray their "special someone" then they're not going to want to date you anymore. but what a person initially thinks of you isn't set in stone, it can change but first impressions don't. |
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Jul 26 2005, 07:18 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
they are important cause that's how you meet them and it just stays in your head...well usually
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Jul 26 2005, 08:03 PM
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![]() I intend to live forever-so far, so good. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,820 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,137 |
first impressions are important, but you also gotta believe in giving second chances
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Jul 26 2005, 11:48 PM
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![]() n3wbie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,877 |
A first impression is important, but that someone may be having a bad day.
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Jul 27 2005, 12:02 AM
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yerp! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
First impressions will always stick with me, but I don't usually judge a person by it.
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Jul 27 2005, 01:20 AM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 636 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,646 |
i think first impressions are important...
but i wouldnt judge a book by its cover (90% of the time) |
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Jul 27 2005, 10:32 AM
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![]() Pimp Status ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
First impressions are the most important. I took a psychology class at the local community college, and its easy to start something new, and harder to change something old. Its like when you learn something. If you learn something one way, and then all of a sudden learn it another way, you'll more then likely head to the "old way".
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Jul 27 2005, 12:45 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
You'd have to have a good first impression to go out with 'em wouldn't you?
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Jul 27 2005, 03:42 PM
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Lauren loves YOU. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
First impressions are VERY important.
If I had a horrible first impression of a guy on the first date, it would be a cold day in hell before I went out with him again. |
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Jul 27 2005, 06:07 PM
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeah i think it means a lot i mean... if you act like a player on the first date, you definitely would not be getting a second one from me.
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Jul 27 2005, 06:59 PM
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You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
it depends how good/bad first impressions are. like, if the guy said something very offensive or is a total jerk or w.e. i probably wouldn't want to pursue anything with him. but if he was just a bit boring, i would probably go on another date, because you never know. he could feel more comfortable and be more fun. etc.
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Jul 28 2005, 12:50 AM
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yerp! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
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Jul 28 2005, 09:46 AM
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![]() omigosh its jackie ;] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,620 |
first impressions are always important, but you shouldnt make your entire judgement with it. some people always save the best things for last ;)
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Jul 28 2005, 11:33 AM
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![]() Dark Lord of McCandless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
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Jul 28 2005, 03:31 PM
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![]() Assistant Manager of Personal ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,922 |
Yeah, first impressions are pretty important. I took psychology like some1 up there did, and we all get an impression off people-called schemas. It's basically set up to save us time when reading people.
UMMMMMMMMMMM, yeah when i meet some1 and i think of them later i use how they acted the first time to judge their personality and stuff. |
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Jul 28 2005, 04:04 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
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Jul 28 2005, 04:05 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Not really. To me, I think first impressions are stupid. They try to be all nice and stuff but when u finally become their's, their true side comes out and can ruin everything. I like it when we go out to dinner and he burps and acts himself cause thats what I do. I like a open REAL relationship. He has to be sweet though..
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Jul 31 2005, 12:41 PM
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speechless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
I think first impressions matter most. Because someone people I have dated wouldn't give me a second chance to prove that I'm a normal person.
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Jul 31 2005, 12:51 PM
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![]() it's our chemistry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Of course first impressions are important. That's what either gets them interested, or turns them off...
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