Older dudes., Man. They freak me out. |
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 Jul 24 2005, 12:22 AM
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Thought this should be in the girls locker since it's more directed to girls and what not.
Not long ago on vacation this older guy approached me on the beach when I was alone (around 25-28) and the first thing he said to me was that he worked for the resort. ( He didn't really though, when I went back inside to our room I was reading something where it said all the watersports people have nothing to do with the resort) Anyhow. He started up a conversation and asked for my name and was asking me all these questions. I let him know I was only 17 and he still wouldn't go away. I seriously felt really violated.. he was making all these remarks and what not I just wish I had my pepper spray with me. Right now this 20 year old keeps trying to talk to me and it kind of freaks me out. I guess the age difference isn't too big but I still feel like his too old for me. I get all wierd. I always get this nervous feeling when older guys try to seek something with me. I just have always preferred someone my age or a year older. I don't know. Basically my question is, Do older guys make you feel uncomfortable when they try to "holler" at you. I guess you could put it that way. |
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Jul 24 2005, 12:27 AM
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I usually date older guys, they dont creep me out (of course if I date them). Then again I am 20.
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Jul 24 2005, 12:29 AM
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older guys freak me out yes, although Iv'e never had an experience like that really.
Thrusday I went to Whistler with a spanish exchange student group because my freinds mother was hosting the trip and on the bus like five spanish guys were asking me all these questions like my phone number and what my grades were and if I had a bf etc.  obviusly I didn't tell them my phone number but anyway...one went so far as to touch my hair  freaks.I moved to the back of the bus with some of my freinds. The spanish guys laughed at me for running away but I really didn't care, they were just idiots 
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Jul 24 2005, 12:29 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
... I'd tell them to go away. If they persist, call the police. When the police come, make a report. You'll be helping yourself and others that way.
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Jul 24 2005, 12:30 AM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
Yes. It's a little weird. IMO it's like they're gonna rape you.
I had 1 experience when I was 14 & I was in the car and this like 25-35 year old was going to his car n he was all trying to talk to me and it was just weird...I blew him off & his friend laughed at him. (: [edit]I'm 15[/edit] |
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Jul 24 2005, 12:34 AM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
a guy that was yea around that age came up to me before and im only 16 btw. haha well after he kept following me around and then sat right behind me. i just got kind of hmm mean? haha so i got him to leave. woohoo. haha but thats only when my bad side comes out. i cant help it its a self defense type thing.
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Jul 24 2005, 12:47 AM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
yea, it does freak me out. i mean, i'm 17 which is too young anyway but to make things worse, i look way younger than i really am. just thinking about how they'd try to get at some young girl. yuck. pedophiles. lol.
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Jul 24 2005, 12:52 AM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(smilz2dasun @ Jul 24 2005, 1:47 AM) yea, it does freak me out. i mean, i'm 17 which is too young anyway but to make things worse, i look way younger than i really am. just thinking about how they'd try to get at some young girl. yuck. pedophiles. lol.  Hah. No kidding I agree with you on that.. I think I look younger than 17 too. |
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Jul 24 2005, 01:32 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
I'm 17. My fiance is 35.
He did not "holler" at me to try to get my attention. He simply bought me a drink and started talking to me. Dirty old men, older men. There is a difference. 
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Jul 24 2005, 01:39 AM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Jul 24 2005, 2:32 AM) I'm 17. My fiance is 35. He did not "holler" at me to try to get my attention. He simply bought me a drink and started talking to me. Dirty old men, older men. There is a difference. Heh, you are right about that. Maybe I should of included the word "dirty" I actually thought about you as I typed that. I was like Ah Felicia's fiance is much older than her.. hope this doesn't offend her in any way :x |
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Jul 24 2005, 01:44 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
QUOTE(say_what_you_mean @ Jul 24 2005, 1:39 AM) Heh, you are right about that. Maybe I should of included the word "dirty" I actually thought about you as I typed that. I was like Ah Felicia's fiance is much older than her.. hope this doesn't offend her in any way :x Of course not dear. I was just making a point so other people didn't assume that all older men were dirty. 
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Jul 24 2005, 02:11 AM
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hm yeah not all older men are...it really depends. *shrug* like i was totally comfortable once with this guy who was 20 and i was 16, mind you thats not too old...but there are some pretty dirty older men out there who've hit on me when i used to work at this pizza place...ugh.
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Jul 24 2005, 02:12 AM
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yeah they're freaken creepy... the older they are, the creepier... these people that check young girls out.
my sister's friend once got approached by like a guy in his 30s, and luckily her dad was there and he stepped to the guy and said "want me to kick your ass?" |
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