i want her to like me Options

[lbjshaq2345]

[quote=Pineapplepower,Jul 19 2005, 6:41 PM]
[QUOTE]Guys that wear pink don't stand out. You know what you can do to get her to notice you though? Talk to her. Seriously. It works. :o

She is right. Guys that wear pink don't stand out and and it's kinda creepy in a way, but thats up to you. Try talking to her and get to know her. If it is just a physial apperance then really talk to her before you decide to like her or not.

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lol you forgot to end ur quote but yeah anyway back to the topic like everybody else said jus go up and talk to her like a normal person dont be shy or timid or nervous girls can smell fear lol but really she'll think ur jus a P**sy (which you might be i dont no)

[chaoticchrissy]

hmm i think guys that wear pink are sexy. but thats just what i think
ya like almost everyones sayn` just talk to her.

[aera]

say something funny to her in class or something and she'll remember you. and she'll make an effort to talk to you more is she thinks youre funny. thats how my best guy friend became my best guy friend.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

how about you try talking to her instead of wearing a pink shirt.
dont you already have a girlfriend though ? [referring to that topic where you posted you had a gf of 2 months]

[*incoherent*]

just talk to her. dont try to dress all "preppy". its overrated.

[audiodemon]

Quick tip: Don't give her a motherboard for her birthday.

[*mipadi*]

Rule of thumb: if she doesn't like a motherboard as a gift, she's not worth going out with.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well I say if you can pull the color pink off then that's hott..she should notice you!!!...& if she's the most prettiest girl in your school be confident about being the hottest guy in your skool & get her to notice you!!...cause confidence is the sexxiest partner a guy could have!!..

& if your a hott normal guy that's a plus..

[CrazayChristian]

I already wrote a long speech about "How to get girls to notice you"

Here is a cut from it that I think might be all you really need:

You need to have her attention, make yourself linger in her mind. Lets think of it this way:

Someone walks up to you, and says "Buy this, it's good!". Now, lets pretend you never heard the word good before, and you buy it.
Now, imagine after time, more people say "Buy this it's good!". At this rate, "good" has lost its meaning, and you're bored with "good". Sure, you might buy it if it looks interesting, has value, or you've heard good things about it. But, you're simply not going to buy evertime someone says "good" to you.

Now, imagine someone walks up to you and says " Buy this...you know..nevermind." You might turn around and say "Why aren't you selling me anything?" They respond "You don't seem very qualified for this product." Noone has ever said this to you! You aren't very happy, but you feel you should be given the chance, like you're power is beign challenged. So, the salesman asks you for a number, maybe you can call when you feel qualified.
Now, this guy has stood out to you, he challenged you, and you feel the need to meet this challenge. You call him, and decide to buy this product. It may not be as good as the other flashy products. But it makes you happy that you mastered something.

Let's take a look at what happend:
Product=relationship
You=Girl
Salesman=guys
"Buy this is good"=Adverage "W-will you go out with me?"
"You don't seem qualified"= Unique "I can take you or leave you, so take me before you miss your chance."

As you can see, something stands out here. Girls don't want you to be boring and adverage. It seems LOGICAL to put them on a pedestal, but ulitimatly it will land you in the "friends zone"

When you do adverage, you do the old "I'm not sure of myself, I like to beat around the bush, avoid problems, and wait on you hand and foot." And, this might work for a while. But, it eventually wears out. It becomes BORING AND PREDICTABLE. Just like you expecting everyone to say "buy this it's good".
You also can't do other versions like "But this, you'll like it"ect. You just can't make variations up.

If you do the old "I need you, and I'll wait forever for you" routine. Guess what? You'll wait...and wait...and WAIT. WHY? Because, she know's you'll always be there. You'll always obey like a good dog, and you'll always listen. You aren't relationship material anymore. You're a "friend" that will "always be there", and she doesn't need to pay any special attention, because you gave her so much slack that now, she's holding the leash.

Here is the whole thing.

You just need to do things other guys don't. Make her feel good the way other guys don't. Simple as that ^_-(pfft right)

Edit: and since this is taken out of context. I want to add, that this does NOT mean, be an ass to stand out. It just means Don't do the "3 Too's":

Too fast
Too much
Too soon

Too fast: You go from "Hi" To "I love you" In days

Too much:You spill your heart out with all the love you have.

Too soon: You do the above, WAY too soon, and ultimatly you lost 85% of you're chance.

[*mipadi*]

All that can be summed up in two standard pieces of advice:

1. Be confident.
2. Be yourself.

They go hand in hand. Before you can get anyone, you have to know yourself, and be happy with who you are. Then just gather up your confidence. If you're happy with yourself, then you'll be confident, and people will naturally take a liking to you.

Sure, it might not work out with young woman, because maybe the two of you just aren't compatible. But if you are compatible, then just talk to her and be yourself, and be confident in who you are. It'll work wonders.

The key to any relationship is being comfortable with yourself and with the situation. If you are comfortable with the situation, you will always know what to do. It's hard to give advice for this sort of thing, because all situations are different, and all people are different. You need to know who you are, who she is, and how best to handle the situation; if you're comfortable, that knowing how to handle the situation will come naturally.

[audiodemon]

Rule of thumb: if she doesn't like a motherboard as a gift, she's not worth going out with.

Good point.

[Xprezsion]

Don't wait for her to notice you, maybe start a conversation with her when you feel confident. Also, how can you like her, when you have never talked to her before? Are you sure it's not just lust because she's "hot" or whatever? I say get to know her first and see if she's a decent person.

[sheddingtears]

not all girls like guys that are preppy and wear pink & im pretty sure it doesnt turn on every girl.

to get her attention, try being friends with her first and yeah... ask her to a dance or something... or your friends and her friends could go out and hang and get to know each other better...

[AnnahhbeL]

talk to her, she'll notice you that way

[ComradeRed]

There's a power discrepancy here. You have to become more powerful than she can possibly imagine, and girls will follow. Just look at Hitler--two girls killed themselves over him and he wasn't a great conversationalist and he was kind of ugly. The thing Hitler has on you, my friend, is that he was very powerful. Chicks dig that sort of thing. Unless they're Jewish.

[CrazayChristian]

^Wtf?


He had a point but still wtf?

"It's like I tell my clients,'Begin everyday with a purpose'."

-Hitch

[dragyn]

It doesn't matter what you wear. In fact, if she's worth it, later on when she finds out you only dress that way to get attention, she'll not be very happy about it.

Do not wear clothes just because you think other people like them.

Now. The same thing everyone else saying, because it's the most obvious answer: Talk to her.

Try "Hello."

Edit---------

And WHOAH. I just found another topic saying that you don't like the music your girlfriend listens to. Make up your mind, doll. You don't get two girls at once.