Is appearance everything?, It seems like it for many people Options

[FlyingFries]

uhhhhh......for me itz itz the girl's personailty (<--mostly that) and the looks

[tWinKliEmE]

well.. i kno everyone always says "looks dont matter" but like in life, thats the way things are... like i dont really care bout looks.. if hes a really nice and sweet guy .. but if hes hot and a stupid jerk... then.. who cares.. i mean.. like i liked this guy that wasnt so cute.. but he had a really sweet and nice personality and everything.. so to me, looks dont matter

-steph

[shawty_redd]

looks matter somewhat..u just see the looks first without knowing them..my friend says its the looks that reel them in but u gotta have the personality or you'll loose 'em regardless of looks...or size

[barbie]

if you date somoeone for what they look like, or how big or small their body parts are and thats the only reason, than youre shallow. But if you like somone and they might not be the prettiest, have the biggest chest size and so on, itwill be ok bc thats not what a relationship should be based upon

[pnkstar]

i dont really care as long as hes sweet and nice and stuff...but yeah, sometimes i kinda think looks do matter....

[xBaBiEGrLx]

to me..da lookz do kare..but not as much as da personality

[y0urmistake]

I have to be physically attracted to the person... but thats not ALL that matters

[babixangela]

To me, looks does matter... up to a certain point.

[islandkiss]

um.. I know it's wrong..but I don't think that I'd enjoy going out with an ugly guy.. you know? But, what really matters is that he has a great personality and that he treats me right.

[Mini]

I mean yeah, it matters first, but like most people said, it doesn't matter if their personality is totally crap; and as for the unproportional part, I wouldn't mind if they were as flat as a wall, as long as I loved them and they loved me.

what seon ho said. anyways..i think looks can matter to an extent. i mean i dont want to go out with some ugly person with yellow teeth, bad skin, and bad hair. i want a person who can take care of themselves. HYGENE people hygene! i dont care if they have a big or small ass or big or small boobs..i just want a person who has a good personality, intellect, independent, self confident, and take care of themselves.

[sandra]

looks may not always be descent, its what inside that counts. dont let a random cute handsome guy fool u, cuz u never know how bad he is.

[Winter]

Looks do matter at first. But after a while, it's what's inside that matters most. I don't think a girl would like going out with a gorgeous guy who loves nothing more to talk about himself. But a girl would like a guy who has a good personality, even though he only looks so-so.

[ichiban]

Looks don't matter at all to me. When I start liking someone, it's because I gotta know them and looks are tha farthest thing from my mind .. unless .. he was SO UGLY it got skary .. but to me dey dont really matter ..

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

looks matter. to me..big time? no..just..looks matter..

[crescentxmoon]

you know alot of people say looks don't matter! and alot of peopole say looks don't matter! and there's a group of people who say looks kinda matter...i'm in that group. i mean looks aren't what makes me like a guy, but it's kinda like a bonus....no offense to those guys out there and all...heh. ^^;

[ur_my_sweety20]

Looks matter to an extent... but once you reallie get to know them... it's more of a bonus than a main feature ^_^

i agree!!! my bf isnt exactly the hottie of the school...but he is the sweetie!!! i luv u baby!!!

[vivieeeen]

Looks matter.

at first

[princesslena523]

ok i say looks dont matter but whenever you meet someone its like first apearence like everyone we all usually look at their image at first like if we see someone we're attracted to then we get to know them and if they're nice then yea but if they're an ass we lay back and then if we meet someone whos not hot, cute or whatever we just get to know them and gradually start liking them if they're nice and sweet. but in general looks dont really matter cuz if you started to like someone who was nice and sweet they just become hott lol but iono its your opinion

[skaterjswife2]

OKay.. I'd like to say looks dont matter..but that'd be such a lie.. when you first meet someone you do judge purely on looks. But later, it doesn't matter how bad looking they are,(okay okay they cant be hideous lol) if they are nice, i'll fall for them. In the end, everyones gonna be old and gross anyways and you'll be stuck with the person who is either the nicest person who you love, or some ugly annoying person. haha. soo yeah

[fullmusicedmajor]

"Love looks not with eyes, but with the mind."
William Shakespeare

[WONHEEEEE_:D]

a bit.. if he's too good-looking i get scared.. lol-- i go for the HIDEOUS ones.. HAHAHA

[doom_diver]

Well. as the topic states, Is appearance everything for a relationship. Because It seems like on CB, I see many posts and topics like "There is this guy is REALLY HOT and I want him or There is a really ATTRACTIVE girl and I like her". And same thing in my school, all the boys and girls in my class likes people for their appearance not for the beauty inside. IT just seems like everywhere, people like others for their appearance. Is appearance that important? So, any replies?

[dao]

err... to me its not... but a good apperence is always a plus.... anyways.. you can really find your thier personality by talking with them online...

[Nicolatofu]

Well to be honest, sometimes appearence can mean something in the beginning because it's part of first impression, but whether or not we choose to look at that as a reason to talk to them is our choice. But it does run through everyone's head.

it's not CB ignores the ugly people or something.

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[pbear]

^ i agree with what dao said.

and some people i know have broken up with really attractive g/fs, b/fs because their personalities weren't quite as appealing.
so no, 'appearance is everything' isn't always the case.