should I be mad?, :0( |
 Sep 6 2004, 09:20 AM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE  Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977  |
I was on my boyfirends desktop and I accidentally found a bunch of pictures of his ex-girlfriend...... or should I be worried.. I duno what to thing, cuz I don't wanna seem obsessive and not trusting... well not like he trusts me very well either.. I am just really confused right now. and he also told me that he would stop watching porn on this computer becuase it really messes it up and I hate it. but did he.... nope... no the computer is all fricken messed up.... what should I do??
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Jul 18 2005, 07:29 PM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
ask him about it.
or just delete them and see what he does.. |
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Jul 18 2005, 08:32 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Hmmm I would be mad, but I'd keep it to myself. Instead, I'd trash all the photos and "accidentally" reformat his computer.
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Jul 18 2005, 09:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
confront him about the pictures. he is a guy porn is porn 'nuff said. reformat
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Jul 18 2005, 09:33 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 7:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?!  that might work... but he'd probably get mad at you for going through his personal stuff. it depends on your trust level really |
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Jul 18 2005, 09:47 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I hate when guys look at porn, that is so disgusting. It's basically another form of cheating if you look at it, but ok. And i know all you girls say, "well they are guys, they look at porn. it's a known fact" ...yah but still, for me it's not somethan i let slide like that.
Um, the ex girlfriend pictures....I wouldn't just assume anything. You should go ask him about it. I mean i'd be worried if his ex girlfriends picture was the background on his desktop or somethan lol, but i'm sure he just never delelted those pictures or forgot they were there. So why don't you bring it up and talk to him about it? oh yah, and the girls up there are telling yah to delete the pictures. Um, no. That's his personal stuff, you wouldn't want him going on ur computer and deleting stuff would you? naw, just talk to him about it. Don't even think of doing somethan sneaky or nething. That's not the way to go lol |
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Jul 19 2005, 02:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 7:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! I would smack you the hell up if my girl did somethin like that...Well not really but I'd be angry as hell. |
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Jul 19 2005, 02:30 PM
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relax. not everyone gets all scarface and terrorizes traces of their ex after a breakup.
they're just old pictures. i'm sure they have no meaning. |
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Jul 19 2005, 03:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
now I would get mad. I am the jealous gf and if I dare found NE thin from my Bf's ex, I would get PISSED. Id find that girl, stick her in the face, then id go to my bf and punch him in the nuts...then I would just walk away and not talk to him for a while
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Jul 19 2005, 04:01 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't agree with just trashing the pictures. Photo's are very meaningful to me and they might be for your boyfriend. For example, I have over 5 gigs of pictures, some of them are girlfriends, and I would be angry if someone just came along and deleted the pictures because they didn't like that person. I keep all of my pictures, even the ones I hate, so if I were you I would ask him about it, but don't to anything drastic.
For all you know the pictures could just be there, I have lots of random photo's on my desktop I havent put in my pictures folder yet. |
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Jul 19 2005, 04:05 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
don't get mad
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Jul 19 2005, 04:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 167,855 |
You should really talk things out first,
make sure that there are no clear signs that he still likes his exes or whatever. Don't do anything you're gonna regret later. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. And the porn thing, don't all guys watch porn at some time or another? I let my BF watch porn. I have no problem with that. |
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Jul 19 2005, 06:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
this topic is reallly old...she probably doesn't have tis problem anymore
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Jul 19 2005, 07:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well your curious about it righT? so asak your man about it... why its in his computer in the first place.. but it explains it all that he was his ex...
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Jul 19 2005, 09:09 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i don't think it should really matter..unless check the date of when they were token haha..
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