Is it,, wrong to have sex before marriage? |
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 Jul 17 2005, 05:53 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION!  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769  |
I dont think its wrong, but I think its better if you save your virginity till your married but thats just me.
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Jul 17 2005, 06:33 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Well I mean if you really love the guy.. And you feel the time is right [and it's BEFORE marriage] then why not just go for it? But I don't know. How can you really tell if you're emotionally ready? Hmm..
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Jul 17 2005, 07:14 PM
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 emaleth Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,513 |
it depends on the relationship. some people can confuse love and sex as one thing and the sole reason for the whole " no sex before marriage" idea is to make sure you love that person for the right reason not for the bedroom activity. even religously this is what it comes down to.
SO if you truly love that person and you don't feel the need to strip off their clothes once you have private time...that's when you're ready. |
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Jul 17 2005, 10:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 797 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,144 |
 I believe spiritually it comes down to whether you are doin it for the right reason. If you are in a relationship and the time you see the person you think about sex then no. if you have been in a relationship for a good while and you jus love the person for who they are and not just how they look then yea. Since most of us don't want to die as a virgin we will rip it at anytime. It's ok as long as you know the person and know wat u gettin into. I think. 
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Jul 17 2005, 11:28 PM
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im a christian so i believe in sex AFTER marriage. but if something comes up.. and that belief goes away.. harhar. oh well. hahaha
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Jul 18 2005, 09:12 AM
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 * Brianne * Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,570 |
My parents had me before there marrige. I was at their wedding.
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Jul 18 2005, 03:59 PM
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noooooo
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Jul 18 2005, 04:57 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Not wrong. It should be a very personal descision. But I think it's fine as long as you love that person.
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Jul 18 2005, 05:17 PM
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it's not wrong but i personally want to do the act after my marriage w/ the person i was with in front of the altar/any table... (you know civil wedding)... i guess the best wedding gift i can give to my future husband is not only the yes on the wedding day but also my virginity... wahahaha... sorry conservative one here...
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Jul 18 2005, 07:07 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
I don't think it's very wrong...if you wwait that's fine too.
I think it's wrong ot have sex before you've known your bf for a LONG TIME though. like a year or more, than I guess it's okay. I donno, I'm not sure. |
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Jul 18 2005, 07:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,849 |
i personally am going to wait for marriage.
but i think the choice is totally up to you. it's your life and your beliefs, so don't listen to anyone else. |
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Jul 18 2005, 07:16 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Anubis has thought of this too much.
This should belong in the debate forum. I, think, I'm going to wait until marriage. I'm really not sure. I can't predict the future. |
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Jul 18 2005, 09:58 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
i think it really depends on what you believe...
i guess if you're a devout christian fornication's out.. but i think most people these days don't really bother to wait anymore.. if you think it's right then you should.. i guess it really depends on your situation.. |
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