i wanna have sex...., am i too young??? Options

[*disco infiltrator*]

ummm we've been together for 5 months...

That seems really reasonable. I, too, am 15, and my boyfriend will be turning 17 in August, and though we haven't had sex yet, we've done a lot of other things and we've only been going out a little over 3 months.

However, make sure this is really the guy you wanna lose it too. This is a once in a lifetime thing, and from what you've said, it seems like he just wants sex and that's it....so make sure he's not really a jerk and he's the special guy you'll give your virginity to.

And don't listen to funbobby.

And if you do want a higher dosage of birth control, just tell your mom your period's been really extra heavy lately. Birth control controls that too.

[Hell-Rell]

Give it more thought.

[EmmalieV]

IMAO , he tells you he wants to hit that..

and you find it cute

I would roll my eyes and walk away , do that youll be happier.

Sex is sin.

not really , but dammit wait a lil longer dont get your hormones in a rush.


=P

[jeSs1cA]

Do what your heart tells you to do. Don't be forced into having sex. Don't let him pressure you into anything your not sure your ready for. If you really loved this guy, you would have no second thoughts on having sex with him. Well.. at least I think so? Maybe not, I dunno. I've never been in this position before. i'm just.. saying something..?

[lilJdawg]

I think you're a little bit too young. I don't really understand what you said about your Mom. " im on a low dose of bc and my mom always said that if i want to boost the dose then let her knoe..i mean im close to my mom but not that close..." What are you trying to say? Yes, you can pregnant for the first time. But if you really feel the time is right then yeah, go for it.

[funbobby]

That's straight up BULL.

You think?

..is that the goal? To confuse people? Get a bunch of girls pregnant because they didn't think it could happen on the first time?

If you believe anything I say, you do not deserve to be even considering sex in this world of AIDS and other STD monsters. Consider me social evolution in action.

[DORKalicious]

Your too young. Don't do it even if you feel like its the right thing at the time. Wait until after you get married and it may seem like a long time but it will be worth it the wait.

Yeah. Even if you did and used protection there is always a chance of you getting pregnant.You have to ask yourself, are you mature enough to handle another life? and if you get pregnant, will he be willing to accept his part of the responsibly? One time can change everything, just wait it will be worth it. Having sex is a bigger deal than what it's made out to be these days.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

QUOTE(funbobby @ Jul 15 2005, 10:32 AM)
Prove it, you know everyones going to read it without thinking and believe it anyway.

you CAN get pregnant the first time. thats a myth and whoever told you was WRONG. sorry if im coming off as rude or anything but everyone here needs to know sex the first time can get you pregnant. the semen still comes from the penis and enteres the vagina doesnt it? yes it does. and the semen can still travel through the body and be fertilized and an can form into an embryo then a baby. and just to prove this point even more, heres soma website that explains it in a very short description.
teenwire

oh and heres a topic about MYTHS about sex. 10 myths about sex
- not getting pregnant the first time is one of those myths.

[love-issosweet]

you shouldn't, you might regret it later

[mistahph0]

heh.i think you're still too young for sex.

[technicolour]

ok I am 15 and really...it's not worth it. He could just use you for it and whatever and just NO!


Pregnancy, STD's, sure I should like the health teachers but I SPEAK TRUTH!

(tears_of_blood @ Jul 15 2005, 7:41 AM)
for me, i won't even consider sex before marriage due to religious reasons.

*Staaaaaaaaaaaaaaare at icon* 

Yea. Tons of sense there.

[miss barnes]

only if u really want to. dont do it because he wants you to

[shortiiex]

if this something your REALLY want then just do it

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

It sounds to me like he's using you.
He keeps asking you "When are you gunna let me hit it?" Are you serious???
But hey-you're decision.
My advice:
1. Think about it a little bit. Sometimes it's just hormones and curiosity.
2. Don't listen to funbobby.
Good luck.

[Looow]

WOW. Two months? HA. I don't think so. I would have thought like a year.

I wouldn't do it if I were you. You're going to regret it.

[CloudNine]

Well let me put it this way-

Don't do it unless you don't have any doubts about it and you feel like your BOTH in love. I lost mine at 13 and I completely regret it so just to give you a fair warning- I wouldn't do it, especially if he keeps bugging you about it. He should respect you and your wishes.

I've been used and cheated on several times and you'll learn from experience. It's no fun thinking, "Why did I ever do anything with him??" after a few years pass and your heartbroken.

I've only come across a few true blue guys who'll love you no matter what but they're rare. Another thing is I HATE it when guys are like, "let me hit that!" it's lame.

Everyone has to learn eventually so if you want, then go for it. I know if someone told me not to when I was younger, I would have done it anyways..yes I'm stubborn lol.

Honey truthfully, it sounds like he's out to get in your pants and ditch you afterwards.

[dancingkait]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

wow. go to school and learn plz kthx. sex is a big deal and if you have to come on here and ask strangers than i don't think you're ready. you'll know when you're good nd ready

[Shahin]

If I was a girl and took virginity anywhere near seriously, then naw I wouldn't have sex with him. He just wants some P**sy, believe me this boy knows. And I'm not saying that to be an a-hole or anything, but I've been there done that. In the end it's up to you but I'm thinkin the guy just wants some P**sy seriously and don't be surprised if he turns into an d**k and dumps your ass afterwards. Hm, maybe that was a little harsh.

[ichiban]

i think its too young but if you really think he's special and worth it then go ahead..

[maia_dc]

You think?
If you believe anything I say, you do not deserve to be even considering sex in this world of AIDS and other STD monsters. Consider me social evolution in action.

So are you one of those people who try to make everything into a psychological experiment? Because you know that just cuz you posted something, doesn't mean people will listen, right? Most people don't even read the whole post. If you're trying to convince people as a "psychological experiment," it's not working.

[miss_tragedy]

I say give it a go. You'll never know unless you try it. Everyone knows you don't need a condom either, you can't get pregnant on your first time and if you do use one he won't be able to cum and then he'll dump you. Also, you can't get pregnant unless your standing up and if you don't sleep with him soon he's just going to get bored. SEX IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

Dude, are you slow or something? You need a condom every time, not just after the first time. He will cum, because as long as you keep going, the guys going to end up finishing. Guys just about always have an orgasim. And for all you know, he might not be a virgin anymore, which would obviously make it more likely for him to finish. Just because she won't have sex with him, doesn't mean he's going to get bored. I was with my boyfriend for almost a year before we had sex, and he didn't get bored in that timeframe. And it's been almost 2 years and we're still together. Guys that actually care about the girl don't get bored and dump them just because they won't have sex with them. Grow up...


But to the original poster, I don't think you're too young to have sex. I was almost 15 my first time. But when I had sex, I didn't just wait a few months until he asked, "When can I tap that?" I waited a year, and I was actually the one to bring up the topic in general, and then we talked about it for another few weeks. Sex is a big deal, don't listen to that guy. From what it sounds like, he's just using you. Think about it seriously before you do something stupid. Best of luck, though.

[lilliannnn]

I don't know why you're asking up. If you think you're old enough, then do it. Its up to YOU.

[rx_azngirl]

i think you're too young

[funbobby]

So are you one of those people who try to make everything into a psychological experiment? Because you know that just cuz you posted something, doesn't mean people will listen, right? Most people don't even read the whole post. If you're trying to convince people as a "psychological experiment," it's not working.

*goggles*
what the hell?

\/ heh heh christine, where does the joke end though?

[*chaneun*]

.pshhh, he wants to rape you. :x