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 Jul 12 2005, 07:40 AM
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 They Set Us Up With The Bomb  Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761  |
I hate it when people get so hooked on other people, and they just keep striving for something greater when what they might actually want is sitting in front of them...
I have so many feelings right now, but I need to sit back right now and let something go... I just need to cry, to scream, to fight, to kick, to punch, to swing, to duck, to throw, to run, to jump, I need to do something to vent my sadness, and my anger... The sadness comes from the one that I will never have. The anger is at ymself, at being so stupid as to actually hurt them... I feel like breaking down. I might repost my song, just to see how it works... on a forum... my song of sadness goes public...I seriously might be crying right now if I were talking to them...It was hard to talk to her last night on the phone, because the sound of her voice just filled me with the sadness, and reminded me of how ignorant and stupid I was... It took so much to actually stay composed, and to not break down. You guys have no idea how much I feel right now, but am not allowed to. I gave myself to them, I offered my soul, and my whole being to them, and got brushed away like a leaf... I offered every ounce of my being, every breath from my lungs, evey beat of my heart, I siad it was theirs to have, and they brushed it away... *Very deep and saddened sigh* I just can't go on after something like that... please... I just needed to say that, to express my feelings, and oh yeah. the song? //edit. for clarification... I told the girl I love that I love her... I told her I want to be her evrything, and she basically brushed me away, like my feelings didn't matter...all because I didn't act sooner, and didn't make my move sooner. She says she already got over me, but I can't seem to get over her... /\ /\ /\ /\ this is my lament. |
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Jul 12 2005, 08:59 AM
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 The Lyricist Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,967 |
Your post is a bit confusing to me, care to clarify? I think I understand it but I don't want to jump to anything. But I think I know how you feel...
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Jul 12 2005, 01:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Well, you waited too long to tell her those 3 words. I guess you juhs gotta' deal with it & move on. Do some other fun stuff to keep your mind off of her. I know it's hard but deal with it or be dealt with.
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Jul 12 2005, 01:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
man that sucks. yea maybe you waited too long to tell her, and she was waiting for a long time too. i know it may sound harsh, but it's the bitter truth
 sometimes things dont go out the way you want it, or the way it does in movies. yea i have this guy friend who's loved this girl for 3 years. after the 1st year. he told her. she brushed him off, but was nice about it. and she consulted everything to him. then she started dating this guy. and she told everything about the relationship to my friend. cause she thought he didnt like her anymore since she rejected him. but he still does..... yea... 
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Jul 12 2005, 01:19 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
From what I got,
"I love you" "Ok...whatever" "Nooooooo, you mean b***h" If that's right, ok maybe not exact dialouge, but yeahh it's going ot be hard but move on. If she honestly did that to a guy like you cause you sound like a great person ;-) then its her waste. She's not gonna get to be with someone as great as you and its all her lost. If things we meant to be, something else would have happened |
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Jul 12 2005, 01:28 PM
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They Set Us Up With The Bomb Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761 |
Thanks guys... and girls...
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Jul 12 2005, 05:00 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
I'm guessing this can be closed now?
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Jul 12 2005, 06:15 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
is anyone going to close this since its solved..?
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Jul 13 2005, 01:57 AM
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The Lyricist Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,967 |
Ah, okay I see. I figured but I wasn't sure from all that text. Been through it. I know it's hard...but ya gotta keep ya head up.
go listen to my song in entertainment, its about my experience that occurred last year that can relate to yours in a way |
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Jul 13 2005, 01:58 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Hey, sounds like me. Best advice, seal up your heart. Works wonders! Look at me :D I am so happy.
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Jul 13 2005, 09:46 AM
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everyone has unrequieted love. you'll get over it. just chill
find someone else to focus your attention on, it works wonders |
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Jul 13 2005, 11:44 AM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
A similar thing happened to me. :/ Yeah, it's tough, and even now I wonder what could've been and everything. But, you know, at least you told her your feelings for her... I never really got to tell my ex when we broke up, so you accomplished more than I did.
 You gotta move on... eventually... Hope you feel better.
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Jul 13 2005, 03:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,558 |
QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Jul 12 2005, 5:40 AM) I hate it when people get so hooked on other people, and they just keep striving for something greater when what they might actually want is sitting in front of them... I have so many feelings right now, but I need to sit back right now and let something go... I just need to cry, to scream, to fight, to kick, to punch, to swing, to duck, to throw, to run, to jump, I need to do something to vent my sadness, and my anger... The sadness comes from the one that I will never have. The anger is at ymself, at being so stupid as to actually hurt them... I feel like breaking down. I might repost my song, just to see how it works... on a forum... my song of sadness goes public...I seriously might be crying right now if I were talking to them...It was hard to talk to her last night on the phone, because the sound of her voice just filled me with the sadness, and reminded me of how ignorant and stupid I was... It took so much to actually stay composed, and to not break down. You guys have no idea how much I feel right now, but am not allowed to. I gave myself to them, I offered my soul, and my whole being to them, and got brushed away like a leaf... I offered every ounce of my being, every breath from my lungs, evey beat of my heart, I siad it was theirs to have, and they brushed it away... *Very deep and saddened sigh* I just can't go on after something like that... please... I just needed to say that, to express my feelings, and oh yeah. the song? //edit. for clarification... I told the girl I love that I love her... I told her I want to be her evrything, and she basically brushed me away, like my feelings didn't matter...all because I didn't act sooner, and didn't make my move sooner. She says she already got over me, but I can't seem to get over her... /\ /\ /\ /\ this is my lament.  i understand.. |
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Jul 13 2005, 03:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,558 |
QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Jul 12 2005, 5:40 AM) I hate it when people get so hooked on other people, and they just keep striving for something greater when what they might actually want is sitting in front of them... I have so many feelings right now, but I need to sit back right now and let something go... I just need to cry, to scream, to fight, to kick, to punch, to swing, to duck, to throw, to run, to jump, I need to do something to vent my sadness, and my anger... The sadness comes from the one that I will never have. The anger is at ymself, at being so stupid as to actually hurt them... I feel like breaking down. I might repost my song, just to see how it works... on a forum... my song of sadness goes public...I seriously might be crying right now if I were talking to them...It was hard to talk to her last night on the phone, because the sound of her voice just filled me with the sadness, and reminded me of how ignorant and stupid I was... It took so much to actually stay composed, and to not break down. You guys have no idea how much I feel right now, but am not allowed to. I gave myself to them, I offered my soul, and my whole being to them, and got brushed away like a leaf... I offered every ounce of my being, every breath from my lungs, evey beat of my heart, I siad it was theirs to have, and they brushed it away... *Very deep and saddened sigh* I just can't go on after something like that... please... I just needed to say that, to express my feelings, and oh yeah. the song? //edit. for clarification... I told the girl I love that I love her... I told her I want to be her evrything, and she basically brushed me away, like my feelings didn't matter...all because I didn't act sooner, and didn't make my move sooner. She says she already got over me, but I can't seem to get over her... /\ /\ /\ /\ this is my lament. i hope your summer is going great |
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Jul 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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No double-posting please. Thanks! Try to move on. You'll get over it eventually
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Jul 13 2005, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 6:00 PM) I'm guessing this can be closed now? QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 12 2005, 7:15 PM) is anyone going to close this since its solved..? There's really no reason for this to be closed. Anyways, that sucks. All you can try to do now is getting over her. Maybe going out with your friends more or meeting new people will help. Hope you feel better. 
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Jul 13 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Mr.Charismatic Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,383 |
^^^ what she says dude
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Jul 13 2005, 07:15 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Ok my brother is going through the EXACT SAME SITUATION right now. Apparently he said those 3 words to his gf, she panicked cause she didn't feel quite the same and they split up, sorta.
He has been just keeping himself busy. He got a new job so he's working, and he's been playing computer games, a lot, and of course bossing me around. My brother feels the exact same way you do. Love is a strong word, and even us girls panic when we hear it, sometimes. |
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Jul 14 2005, 01:19 AM
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Breaking up is really really hard. and it your case since you didn't really...break up it sounds even harder.
The only experince I have with breaking up is on the internet. It was stupid. We talked for about I donno 2 months and he was all like mushy and "I love you blah blah blah" and I was like "hmm, ok" and he was like "dont' you love me?" I was like "how coudl you possibly love someone you met two months ago across the internet and know virtually nothing about weirdo?" (not in those exact words) and he dropped it. But it went on like that for like 2 months...I enjoyed talking to him but he started to sound like a fake a--hole to me so w/e. anyway, really sudddenly he deleted me off his msn list. bye bye. that was it. I was shocked. I mean sure I started thinking he was an a--hole but it hurt me that obviusly he thought I was as well  it's stupid, but the point is I was realyl depressed fro like a month after that. your relationship is (obviusly) a lot stronger, therefor I can see why you are completely depressed. I give true simpathy to you, I'd hate to be in your shoes.good luck and feel better soon
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Jul 14 2005, 06:11 AM
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They Set Us Up With The Bomb Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761 |
THe thing about it is we weren't even going out, but it felt like I was losing a relationship, it feels like we DID break up... It's so weird.
Edit//// WE are great friends now too, we alwys have been, we're just emotionally distant, or at lest from one side it is... |
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Jul 14 2005, 06:47 AM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
thats pretty cruel... you tell her youll give her everything and she just acts like it doesnt matter. you deserve better, someone who cares about your feelings and wont just brush you away.
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Jul 14 2005, 07:18 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Jul 14 2005, 4:11 AM) THe thing about it is we weren't even going out, but it felt like I was losing a relationship, it feels like we DID break up... It's so weird. Judging by the given information, and that post *points above to quote box*, it probably feels like you two broke up because it seems like you were close. But then abruptly pushed further apart with the rejection. Losing something you never had, is surely worse than losing something that you did have at one time. But don't worry, the pain you feel now will eventually come to pass. One thing I've always believed in, is that things will have to undergo their worst before peaking at their best. It's our reward for winning over the challenges thrown at us. Think of this as a challenge. You'll get through it. Whether it be alone or with a few supporters. It just takes time. And you really do have all the time in the world to heal.
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Jul 14 2005, 07:44 AM
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this is retarded.. you are being selfish... you are only thinking of yourself... what would you do if you was with a girls you didnt like and she adored you? think of somebody elses veiw other than your own for one time... then you can get over her...
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Jul 14 2005, 08:18 AM
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 I LOVE YOU!!!! ^.~ Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 173,646 |
QUOTE(ag3nt_sm17h @ Jul 12 2005, 8:40 AM) I hate it when people get so hooked on other people, and they just keep striving for something greater when what they might actually want is sitting in front of them... I have so many feelings right now, but I need to sit back right now and let something go... I just need to cry, to scream, to fight, to kick, to punch, to swing, to duck, to throw, to run, to jump, I need to do something to vent my sadness, and my anger... The sadness comes from the one that I will never have. The anger is at ymself, at being so stupid as to actually hurt them... I feel like breaking down. I might repost my song, just to see how it works... on a forum... my song of sadness goes public...I seriously might be crying right now if I were talking to them...It was hard to talk to her last night on the phone, because the sound of her voice just filled me with the sadness, and reminded me of how ignorant and stupid I was... It took so much to actually stay composed, and to not break down. You guys have no idea how much I feel right now, but am not allowed to. I gave myself to them, I offered my soul, and my whole being to them, and got brushed away like a leaf... I offered every ounce of my being, every breath from my lungs, evey beat of my heart, I siad it was theirs to have, and they brushed it away... *Very deep and saddened sigh* I just can't go on after something like that... please... I just needed to say that, to express my feelings, and oh yeah. the song? //edit. for clarification... I told the girl I love that I love her... I told her I want to be her evrything, and she basically brushed me away, like my feelings didn't matter...all because I didn't act sooner, and didn't make my move sooner. She says she already got over me, but I can't seem to get over her... /\ /\ /\ /\ this is my lament. Here is the thing..for me, I like this guy, and I will totally wait my whole life for him to like me back, but all girls are not willing to do that. They want a guy there for them, at the moment they need you. I am guessing, when she liked you, you brushed her feelings away too, and now that you love her, she doesn't care because she is hurt of what you did before, I guess.. Boys always says, "girls are so complicated"...which is probably true...She might still like you back, she just wants to show you how it feels to like someone, and be totally rejected...either that, or she's just being arrg...... I mean, are you guys still friends?? If your relationship can't go to another level, then don't force it, maybe it wasn't meant to be... Okay..hope everything works out!!!    SMILE!!
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Jul 15 2005, 05:20 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
aww...
well it's her loss. i mean later's better then never right? but there isn't really anything you can do to change her feelings. it'll take time, don't worry. hang out with your friends to try to get your mind off of it. but become friends with that girl (if you aren't already... i guess) and maybe she'll see what she rejected and come around again
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