i'm bored, how do you apologize? |
 Jul 11 2005, 05:42 AM
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what's your way of saying sorry? do you usually just say the simple word in their face, 'i'm sorry for blah blah blah...' or do you send them a card, gifts, a song or something? what's your way of apologizing when you've done something wrong? and if you don't have a way, what do you think is the best way? if someone has done something wrong to you, how would you like them to apologize to you?
i haven't been here long so if this topic is already made, feel free to close. 
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Jul 11 2005, 06:09 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
i don't really believe in getting people gifts/candy as a way of apologizing. in a way, it's sorta like buying back their friendship.
i apologize by sincerely saying how wrong i was and asking for their forgiveness. not a simple, "i'm sorry." cause, don't say it if you don't mean it. |
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Jul 11 2005, 06:28 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
I usually just say sorry in a sincere way, or if I still feel guilty, I will take that person out for a meal.
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| *lolita kitty* |
Jul 11 2005, 06:30 AM
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QUOTE(niez_cho @ Jul 11 2005, 6:28 AM) I usually just say sorry in a sincere way, or if I still feel guilty, I will take that person out for a meal.  you owe me an apology T_T ...now buy me dinner! hah, i kid >.<;; anyways, i just say sorry if its my fault. if its the other persons fault i tell them im willing to make up if they apoligize ^^. sometimes if i feel like it i write a letter. |
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Jul 11 2005, 07:12 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I can't recall a time of when I was feeling guilty enough to buy anything accompanied by a simple "I'm sorry".
I just say it, and mean it. Give a hug and make up, hopefully. |
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Jul 11 2005, 09:10 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I just say sorry for whatever I did.
No need to buy anything. |
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Jul 11 2005, 09:16 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Apologizing must be one of my weak points. It would probably take a life defying situation for me to actually give an actual true apology. I have no idea why, I don't want to hurt people, when I do it hardly ever is intentional. When it comes to apologies, I just can't do it. Hell, its hard for my mouth just to pop out a simple "sorry." Apologies... something thats hard for me to do. I would joke around with "ok ok im sorry" but I don't think I actually mean it. Everybody I tell it too probably knows it but just doesn't say anything, I want to change, i'm trying to change but hell, it's more then I expected. I have been building up on this for a long time but it just isn't getting around.
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Jul 11 2005, 09:25 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i just say i'm sorry and like give them a hug or something. buying them a gift is a cop out.
OH, I'M SO SORRY!!1 HERE, TAKE THIS CUTE, SOFT TEDDY BEAR!  [/sarcasm]
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Jul 11 2005, 10:06 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,200 |
i dont find any point in sending them cards etc. ill just apologize to their face. its much more suitable.
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Jul 11 2005, 10:10 AM
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 They Set Us Up With The Bomb Group: Member Posts: 269 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 166,761 |
I just say it, but If I am really sorry, I write poems, I do something original, ust to express my feelings.
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Jul 11 2005, 10:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,551 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,857 |
I usually just say sorry and that's pretty much it I'm not all too big about money and that kinda thing a sorry should be good enough
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Jul 11 2005, 11:44 AM
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 Go to Tahiti, and make out with a native. Group: Duplicate Posts: 914 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,267 |
i just tell the person im sorry. no need to go all out and make them love you again. if they dont forgive you, you dont need them. its that simple.
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Jul 11 2005, 12:27 PM
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 GEt You DRUNK Group: Member Posts: 942 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,417 |
I just say sorry like I mean it.
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Jul 11 2005, 12:31 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
It depends on what I did.
If it was really serious, I'd start saying "I'm sorry, I'm sooooo sorry!!" But if it wasn't, I'd just be like, "Sorry" and shrug. |
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Jul 11 2005, 12:31 PM
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 The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
i just apologize for th wrong i did and then ask them to forgive me.. tat's kinda itl..lol
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Jul 11 2005, 01:26 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
hmm, I just say i'm sorry and tell them why i'm sorry. And ask for forgiveness. Do i buy them somethan? lol it matters what i did. Like if I accidently ruined a friends shirt or somethan, then i would say i'm sorry and then most likely go buy them another one. lol, so i guess it matters what i did.
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Jul 11 2005, 01:57 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
When its somethin important I do it online or make a letter...if they dont accept then screw it, I dont really care for apologies (sp?)
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Jul 11 2005, 02:16 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I bring up the topic while Im talking to them, then apologize for it. And then I'll ask them if i could make it up to them in anyway..
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Jul 11 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,283 |
By a simple: "My bad"
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Jul 11 2005, 02:37 PM
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Mr. Hottie Group: Member Posts: 406 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,225 |
look into their eyes and say im sorry with feeling.
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| *Azarel* |
Jul 11 2005, 03:41 PM
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I don't apologize for a long while, usually; when I do, it ends up coming out, "Hey, I'm sorry for _______ a while ago. I'm not expecting you to forgive me, but just so it's out there." Works well, for the most part.
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Jul 11 2005, 04:13 PM
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 i know right? Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,129 |
I usually just say "Sorry" and write a long letter saying that I didn't mean to and stuff. If they continue to be mad. Then oh wellz. They're out of my life.
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| *jooleeah* |
Jul 11 2005, 06:32 PM
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I usually say sorry and give an explanation for whatever I did.
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Jul 11 2005, 06:44 PM
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 sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
i say sorry PERSON for doing blah blah .. i rarely give them any gifts
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Jul 11 2005, 06:47 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
say sorry and explain.. and maybe ask them to go somewhere to make up.
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